Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

[liba]

Today.. probably nothing. I'm having a super downer day. My boyfriend said something that made me think he was going to try to kill himself and just logged off, cut his phone off, I freaked out called who he lives with to make sure he was okay... was up all night with anxiety, and once I finally fell asleep, I slept through class. I have a 5pm but I also have online class work due at midnight that's taking priority, plus I still have anxiety so I may not go to that class today.

Is your bf on medication? He may be having a reaction. Be glad you're his girlfriend. I recommend you get over to his place, or track down where he is, and get him to a doctor immediately. I have a friend right now who I KNOW is having medication complications that are destroying his mental state and making him suicidal. He's just a friend and not someone I can just barge in on and drag to a new doctor, unfortunately. I know his girlfriend is totally useless and just rolls her eyes at his pronouncements (and he keeps them under wraps around her in order to not get judged by her), so it's very worrying. But, there's nothing I can do directly, because I'm not a part of his life on an intimate level. I have offered to get him to a doctor if he wants and have asked him to make some arrangements so if he's in trouble, I will be notified, but he hasn't taken me up on any of it, so there's precious little else I can do. Fortunately, you can help your bf if you take charge. I guarantee you that much! Good luck.

 

[janette9687]

so i did my second order of the year and bought the limecrime wicked and salem along with the white liner and citreuse one, i dont think i did horrible but i shouldnt of added the liners but i wanted something fun to play with in the summer hmmm

 

[Calla88]

Decide to do a running tally too, It makes easy to see what is worn daily !
Day 1: Naked 2 UD
Day 2: Revlon Lip Butter Cupcake, NYX natural
Day 3: YSL Glossy Stain Violene out of Control 108
Day 4: NYX line natural, Kate Moss Rimmel 14 and NYX Tiramisu
Day 5: Mac Underage Lipglass
Day 6: MAC Naked Bliss + Pink Noveau
Day 7: Mac Mellow Mood
Day 8 Mac Flat out Fabulous
Day 9: Maybellline Color Vivids in Pink Pop

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

Is your bf on medication? He may be having a reaction. Be glad you're his girlfriend. I recommend you get over to his place, or track down where he is, and get him to a doctor immediately. I have a friend right now who I KNOW is having medication complications that are destroying his mental state and making him suicidal. He's just a friend and not someone I can just barge in on and drag to a new doctor, unfortunately. I know his girlfriend is totally useless and just rolls her eyes at his pronouncements (and he keeps them under wraps around her in order to not get judged by her), so it's very worrying. But, there's nothing I can do directly, because I'm not a part of his life on an intimate level. I have offered to get him to a doctor if he wants and have asked him to make some arrangements so if he's in trouble, I will be notified, but he hasn't taken me up on any of it, so there's precious little else I can do. Fortunately, you can help your bf if you take charge. I guarantee you that much! Good luck.

He's not on medication. They put him on some when he was younger (probably too young to be on an anti-depressant) and it really messed with him. He said he didn't mean what he said that way, but when he didn't come back and clarify so I didn't know what else to think. I'm living at college and he lives an hour away back home and I was sorely tempted to jump in my car and go myself, but the person he lives with said he was ok.

He was drinking last night, and when I talked to him today, he said the reason he's been acting out so much is because of the drinking, and he knows he needs to stop. So just that he's acknowledged that is a step in the right direction. I go see him every weekend, but even with that, it's so hard being away from him, but I do what I can.

That's awful about your friend I hope he can get some help soon.

 

[liba]

so far no makeup for me today…can't let that go on! So I pulled out my Easy Lounger lipglass, which I keep in a little container next to the sofa with Spree and Luscious Spark Dazzleglass Creme - the 3 nearly empty lip glosses I am aiming to finish off for once and for all. I've got Soft Serenade and Liqueur as reasonable replacements for the first two, so I can let go, hehe. Wish I had something that could replace Luscious Spark, sadly, but I've had many good years from that one and am OK to move on. Some new Dazzleglass or DGCs or just standard lipglass with that lovely sparkle/glitter finish would be greatly appreciated. One of my main favorite gloss finishes, especially for sunny days.

 

[mosha010]

so i did my second order of the year and bought the limecrime wicked and salem along with the white liner and citreuse one, i dont think i did horrible but i shouldnt of added the liners but i wanted something fun to play with in the summer hmmm

Not to enable u but those liners ARE a beautiful summer buy. And a quick way of adding color to your look when it's too hot to wear full on makeup.....

 

[liba]

No, I talked to him a little while ago and he said it was not what he meant. But when he didn't come back I didn't know what else to think. I know he suffers depression, but he says he would never get to that point because his grandparents need him.



He's not on medication. They put him on some when he was younger (probably too young to be on an anti-depressant) and it really messed with him. He said he didn't mean what he said that way, but when he didn't come back and clarify so I didn't know what else to think. I'm living at college and he lives an hour away back home and I was sorely tempted to jump in my car and go myself, but the person he lives with said he was ok.

He was drinking last night, and when I talked to him today, he said the reason he's been acting out so much is because of the drinking, and he knows he needs to stop. So just that he's acknowledged that is a step in the right direction. I go see him every weekend, but even with that, it's so hard being away from him, but I do what I can.

That's awful about your friend I hope he can get some help soon.

I really encourage you to talk with your boyfriend. He sounds pretty reasonable, but there is a strong possibility he's drinking as a way of self-medicating a more underlying issue. I am not one to necessarily recommend anti-depressants, but totally separate from that, people can have hormonal or other physical issues that could benefit from at least a decent checkup by an internist or endocrinologist. Exercise, change of diet, even maybe some more frequent visits from you, could make a world of difference. It may be really worth a couple hours of drive time to see him during the week every now and then. Good luck, honey and again, be glad you have someone in your life you can be a positive influence for.

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

I really encourage you to talk with your boyfriend. He sounds pretty reasonable, but there is a strong possibility he's drinking as a way of self-medicating a more underlying issue. I am not one to necessarily recommend anti-depressants, but totally separate from that, people can have hormonal or other physical issues that could benefit from at least a decent checkup by an internist or endocrinologist. Exercise, change of diet, even maybe some more frequent visits from you, could make a world of difference. It may be really worth a couple hours of drive time to see him during the week every now and then. Good luck, honey and again, be glad you have someone in your life you can be a positive influence for.

I have talked about it with him and what you say is true. He has no insurance so he can't afford to go to the doctor.

Also, there's just no way I can drive in more than I do. There's no way I could do so with my class schedule and getting all of my school work done. I am stressed enough, and doing so, as much as I would love to see him more than just on the weekends, would just completely stretch me.

 

[singer82]

Oh how I love my specktra ladies! Thanks for all your well wishes and advice. You are all amazing! I'm starting to do better. Realized it's not that bad. And have the power to fix it. Have a girl I knews picture on my dresser (she died in a car accident, she was only 27)to remind me I am still breathing. My frustration with my job is a long time coming. Been doing this for 11 years, it really is time to move on. This place is falling apart and a lot of the employees are wanting to quit. Seems like the managers here make there own rules. Thier take on walk outs is either pay or a write up. I actually didn't even tell the manager that night. She was being a mega biach so wasn't even going to bother. Cause I already knew what she would say. Im planning on leaving soon so I just don't even care bout my job anymore. I just can't afford to quit. Despite how much I want to. Just have to hold on. Mosha your post made me smile. Love your shot of optimism. I actually have had something in motion. Have a good friend I'm doing a jewelry business with. We make our own. Pretty much been prepping, just fell behind a lil. But we plan on bringing it out this year. I've just been really careful to not get too excited about it. Have to see if it start moving before it ends up being a life changer and before I invest too much of my hopes to where it could take me. Again thank you all. And to everyone else struggling. We will do this together! :hug: :cheer:

 

[underablanketofstars]

I just had a revelation!!!!! After swapping for 2 purpley-based items (Gentle Blush & To Swoon For lippy), I have realized I've been seeking out the wrong colours for my skin (no wonder I always get fed up with everything!!) AHHH!!! *smacks forehead*

I'm hoping you guys can help - recommendations?? If the above products look good on me, what else should I try? I would love it if anyone has stuff up for swap they can recommend so I can actually get what you're suggesting!

Thank you sistas from other mistas!

D

 

[underablanketofstars]

I have talked about it with him and what you say is true. He has no insurance so he can't afford to go to the doctor.

Also, there's just no way I can drive in more than I do. There's no way I could do so with my class schedule and getting all of my school work done. I am stressed enough, and doing so, as much as I would love to see him more than just on the weekends, would just completely stretch me.

I'm so sorry you're going through this - worrying about the well being of a loved one is a huge stress, especially when you're away from them as much as you are. I'm sure you know this, but alcohol is a depressant. It's so ironic so many people turn to it when they're feeling down - it just makes things worse. Such a viscous cycle. Thinking and acting positive (even when you don't feel it) can do wonders, eventually your whole perspective will turn around. Easier said than done, I know. But just remember anytime you need positivity, we are here! My thoughts are with you - I'm sending positive vibes. Might take a while to get to you from Canada, but let me know if you feel them...

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

I'm so sorry you're going through this - worrying about the well being of a loved one is a huge stress, especially when you're away from them as much as you are.  I'm sure you know this, but alcohol is a depressant.  It's so ironic so many people turn to it when they're feeling down - it just makes things worse.  Such a viscous cycle.  Thinking and acting positive (even when you don't feel it) can do wonders, eventually your whole perspective will turn around.  Easier said than done, I know.  But just remember anytime you need positivity, we are here!  My thoughts are with you - I'm sending positive vibes.  Might take a while to get to you from Canada, but let me know if you feel them... 

Thank you so much for the vibes! I do know; he had a drinking problem before when we first got together, we've been together 7 years in May and he was doing really good until recently. He wouldnt even acknowledge it before so that he is is such a great sign to me.

 

[underablanketofstars]

Thank you so much for the vibes! I do know; he had a drinking problem before when we first got together, we've been together 7 years in May and he was doing really good until recently. He wouldnt even acknowledge it before so that he is is such a great sign to me.

Way to focus on the positive darlin - you're doing great and working through the tough stuff will only bring you closer together!

 

[liba]

I have talked about it with him and what you say is true. He has no insurance so he can't afford to go to the doctor.

Also, there's just no way I can drive in more than I do. There's no way I could do so with my class schedule and getting all of my school work done. I am stressed enough, and doing so, as much as I would love to see him more than just on the weekends, would just completely stretch me.

Sweetheart, one word: Obamacare! If his income is low, he will instantly qualify for Medicare/Medicaid and then all his medical expenses will pretty much be free. He CAN have the medical attention he needs and deserves. It's very simple and painless now. Don't worry - solutions are on the way. Both your lives will be much happier for it.

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

Sweetheart, one word: Obamacare! If his income is low, he will instantly qualify for Medicare/Medicaid and then all his medical expenses will pretty much be free. He CAN have the medical attention he needs and deserves. It's very simple and painless now. Don't worry - solutions are on the way. Both your lives will be much happier for it. :kiss:  

Well see... We have had this discussion. And the nicest way I can put that conversation is that he is a stubborn man raised in a very conservative household... Lol

 

[liba]

Well see... We have had this discussion. And the nicest way I can put that conversation is that he is a stubborn man raised in a very conservative household... Lol

Good luck. My heart goes out to you. Not to get too political, but it's sad to see how the people who need it the most can be bamboozled by the negative things spewed out by the media. I wish you two all the best and we'll all be rooting for ya!

 

[CrimsonQuill157]

Good luck. My heart goes out to you. Not to get too political, but it's sad to see how the people who need it the most can be bamboozled by the negative things spewed out by the media. I wish you two all the best and we'll all be rooting for ya!

I know exactly what you mean. Thank you so much!

 

[PixieDancer]

Monday, I wore two: one to class and one to dinner:

L'oreal Colour Riche Balm in Plush Plum (I love this sooooo much)
MAC Mellow Flame (might go into the give away pile)

Yesterday, I wore two again!! one to class and one to dinner

MAC Punk Couture (my love <3)
Estee Lauder Rose Tea

Today.. probably nothing. I'm having a super downer day. My boyfriend said something that made me think he was going to try to kill himself and just logged off, cut his phone off, I freaked out called who he lives with to make sure he was okay... was up all night with anxiety, and once I finally fell asleep, I slept through class. I have a 5pm but I also have online class work due at midnight that's taking priority, plus I still have anxiety so I may not go to that class today.

Hope everything is going a little better since the boyfriend scare! It's good to know you are there for him. But don't forget to make sure you are taking care of YOU as well! Sometimes when we are extremely caring people we can give too much of ourselves and not get back what we need in return. It isn't selfish to think of YOU. And he should want to discuss these issues together if you both want to move forward in a healthy and loving relationship. You should never feel cut off. Mature relationships work through things together. Value each other and each of your needs. That's VERY important so that you don't feel resentful in the future.
Smile beautiful! You're in our thoughts!!

 

[PixieDancer]

I'm not going to count today in my lipstick challenge... Since I didn't wear any!
It was a stressful and LONGGGGG Spring Cleaning day at my mom's house. I love her to pieces, but damn that woman can hoard! (Makes me even more mindful of my own tendencies!)

 

[singer82]

Sending hugs n prayers your way. My ex was an alcoholic. He would black out and wake up not knowing what he did, he'd try n hide it all the time, but he had a pretty bad case of it. Not sure if your bf's is as severe. He acknowledged he was but still wouldn't stop. But it is a very good sign that he woke up to the reality of his problem. And is very good he talks about it.

Thank you so much for the vibes! I do know; he had a drinking problem before when we first got together, we've been together 7 years in May and he was doing really good until recently. He wouldnt even acknowledge it before so that he is is such a great sign to me.