PeachTwist
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Yeah. I know it's a bad justification, I felt bad even saying it but I guess I was just trying to convince myself it's okay when I know it isn't. I never spend like this. I never have. I usually always pay for everything on debit instead of credit. I think what happened was I'd spent so much time with this list in my head of everything I wanted to try and then when he (very stupidly) set me loose with his credit card I went overboard because I wanted to try everything on my damn list. Included in that was over £100 on damn MAC palettes to depot all my shadows - learned my lesson in depotting all at once, I should've started a long time ago doing a bit at a time.Well, y'see. Boyfriend let me loose with his credit card, as a bribe - totally worked. Then I just kinda.. kept adding things. This also comes from again, not buying anything at all for over 9 months.
The thing is, I feel bad about it.. but then I see some of the other spendings that happen on here on a regular basis and realise that while I've gone nuts this once (I never go nuts like this), it's nothing that is a regular occurrence like it is for some others.
Hence low-buy, lol..
Oh be careful with this justification. Comparing your spending to others can be a dangerous slippery slope. Always try to keep your stash in perspective in relation to you and your personal needs!
Trust me, I speak from experience. In the Entertainment field, so many people have LOADS of makeup, wardrobe, etc. I used to think I didn't have as much as someone else, so it was ok that I was overspending. However, the spending is spending. And money wasted on things we won't sufficiently use or need is still money wasted. Regardless of whether or not that other person has wasted more. Their bills are not yours and yours are not theirs. One way or another, we all have to face the reality of our spending. That reality can be whatever you want it to be. A painful, debt hole that you feel suffocated by, OR a nice little savings nest egg for your future. It's your choice. And no one here will ever make you feel bad for spending or not spending. Just know what's best for YOU and YOUR future. I promise, no one else will.
And I know you deserve all those goodies after some of the tough stuff you've been through! So make sure you find a way to enjoy it! Don't let it sit and gather dust. Put it on that pretty face!!
I have a Sephora order coming in today and I'm waiting on a CP for a couple of drugstore foundations from the US that I can't find here and that's it. On the plus side, I did do my first swap this week. I found the problem is when it comes to swapping though, there isn't actually much I WANT to get rid of. I love all of my stuff, or I've given it away if I haven't. About a year ago I went through my collection and got rid of a ton of drugstore things I just never use and passed them onto a family friend's 15yr old. She had a ball of a time. 88 palettes, sleek palettes, nail polish, lipsticks galore, etc.
I guess my plan needs to be no more than say.. 6 items from each collection max and necessities, unless very unique to my collection.