One thing about the ladies and gents here. They listen and try to listen without judgement. We all come from a place where most of our family and friends don't get our passion around make up. So when I come here I feel like I'm coming home to people that understand me. We understand you PT. If you ever need to just vent, rant or rave feel free to drop us a line. I'm glad that everything is working out better for you today.Thanks for all your kind comments, guys.
We managed to sort things out.
A lot of our issues is his insecurity with a lot of things. His ex wife did quite a number on him and I think he's still learning to trust again. Unfortunately, my helping him to learn to trust again means I also have to deal with it when he isn't 100% I know he's worth it, but sometimes I just wanna scream and up and leave for a few days for a break - but his ex would go visit friends and while gone would threaten to not come back.
The thing is - I know he loves me an incredible amount. He would do anything for me. Tries to do whatever he can to make me happy - and he does make me happy. The only thing we have an issue with is his lack of trust (believing someone when they say they'll do something etc. he doesn't believe I'd ever cheat, which I wouldn't.) and his mood swings. I want him to see a Dr regarding them but him trying to get time off work is nearly impossible. His job demands attention. When I was in hospital one night til gone 2am, he still was up at 6am to go to work because they're so difficult to deal with. He took time off to go to a Drs appt and they flipped on him. He has the legal right to, but he doesn't handle stress well so doesn't bother.
I see everywhere he's coming from, but everything is black and white with him - no grey. I'm trying to teach him to find the grey. It's a challenge and I get frustrated and because of my health I no longer have any friends who I can speak to. The ones I did have just up and left me when I stopped going out etc so I had to come here.
Thank you guys again for being my ear when it's needed. I appreciate it more than you know. I love you girls. <3
Today is a better day. I'm tired and sore but I'm spending the day on the couch to recuperate from yesterday's antics.
Thanks for all your kind comments, guys. We managed to sort things out. A lot of our issues is his insecurity with a lot of things. His ex wife did quite a number on him and I think he's still learning to trust again. Unfortunately, my helping him to learn to trust again means I also have to deal with it when he isn't 100% I know he's worth it, but sometimes I just wanna scream and up and leave for a few days for a break - but his ex would go visit friends and while gone would threaten to not come back. The thing is - I know he loves me an incredible amount. He would do anything for me. Tries to do whatever he can to make me happy - and he does make me happy. The only thing we have an issue with is his lack of trust (believing someone when they say they'll do something etc. he doesn't believe I'd ever cheat, which I wouldn't.) and his mood swings. I want him to see a Dr regarding them but him trying to get time off work is nearly impossible. His job demands attention. When I was in hospital one night til gone 2am, he still was up at 6am to go to work because they're so difficult to deal with. He took time off to go to a Drs appt and they flipped on him. He has the legal right to, but he doesn't handle stress well so doesn't bother. I see everywhere he's coming from, but everything is black and white with him - no grey. I'm trying to teach him to find the grey. It's a challenge and I get frustrated and because of my health I no longer have any friends who I can speak to. The ones I did have just up and left me when I stopped going out etc so I had to come here. Thank you guys again for being my ear when it's needed. I appreciate it more than you know. I love you girls.
I've only backed up two l/s in the 30 something years I've been into makeup. Until I discovered the MAC world I never even considered it. I recently sold one of my bu's and kept the other b/c my bff loves the color and tends to use up colors faster than I do. Other than that I have 2 bu's of Sun Dipped bronzer. I just opened my 2nd one. I'm not one to really switch it up with bronzers much so I will definitely use these up. I hope they eventually make Sun Dipped perm.What is everyones opinion on buying a backup of a colour you're nowhere near finishing if it's LE and HTF.......are backups always a no-no until you hit pan? Would appreciate your thoughts!
I did a similar rough purge. I think once I've done a few more weeks of my eye challenge I'll be able to get the numbers down more.I think my next organizational challenge is going to be to narrow down my lipsticks by color category. I am thinking something like - 5 reds, 5 purples/berries, 5 nudes, 5 (possibly more) corals, 5 fuchsias, 5 light pinks, and 10 medium pink/mauvy/everyday lippies, because that's what I wear most. That's 40 lipsticks but it seems really limiting... Even though I know I don't NEED more than 5 of a very similar shade!
Cancel it if you can! Or try to swap it.I bought Toying Around about an hour ago and I'm having severe buyer's remorse over it. I think I should cancel my order.
I'm trying to get on Nordie's live chat but it keeps giving me errors, I'm going to try and call them when I go on break.Cancel it if you can! Or try to swap it.
I'm not good with pigmented blushes, eihter. I love MAC Hidden Treasure but I can't apply it for the life of me. Even with the NarsYachiyo and (what I consider) light hand I still feel like it looks crazy.@PeachTwist - Wow girl, what a weekend, eh!? Glad you are on the mend and taking it easy today. Hope you get some much needed rest. Fighting sucks big time, but when you stop fighting that's when you know there's big trouble.
Hope everyone had a great weekend! I was sick, so we didn't accomplish much. I'm looking forward to Easter next weekend (I'm not a woman of faith, but I do love celebrating holidays with our families!).
Trying to fend off swatches of PS ombre blushes. They look stunning, but I'm fearful of overly pigmented blush. Maybe because I haven't practiced placement of blush a lot, so I get nervous that I look like a crazy clown or something. LOL.