Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

Maris Crane

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Checking in to just to say hi and hope everyone is continuing to do well on their no and low buys! I'm really getting a kick out of shopping my stash, but I REALLY want the beige pigment set from Holiday. Hopefully, I can stay strong. HAI EBBERYBUDDY!
 

shellygrrl

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I had the same feeling, I was underwhelmed with the collection, as far as the packaging this is a lot like a repeat of the 2007 Holiday one, I liked the sound of two of the pressed pigment but i decided to not deal with the mess of appling and focus on what i have now. Ony think i will get is the Pink pigment set because i want 3 of the colors in there  already. 
I wanted a pressed piggie myself, but the description didn't match what it is. So money saved.
 

Alysse011

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I was going to buy a new beauty blender today but went to ulta to get the It OMG foundation brush instead. I'm hoping I like it a lot. I would rather have a brush since it just lasts longer. I guess I will find out tomorrow morning!
 

PixieDancer

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This is how I feel about the highlighter as well, if its any similar to KA candlelight I dont need it, thats how i have decided to not get, I really dont need another highlighter whatsoever, i have 5 plus 1 msf, and 3 EDSF
This is so true, I think the only thing people try to justify it is that its all in one palette and its pretty to look at, because lets be real, you can easily grab your singles and put them in a zpalette and have the same palette, the colors are nothing spectacular, and really as makeup junkies we have already mastered the art of packing and traveling with makeup. ;-)
I appoint you as the one to remind me of this everytime I use "I travel so much for work" as an excuse to buy travel-friendly makeup! SERIOUSLY! I'm so glad you said that! I have bought more travel-friendly palettes than I should have ever justified... and even EMPTY travel palettes to take selected items from my regular stash for "ease of travel!" It's a BIG excuse for me! I have to stop that! Thanks girl!

Quote: Originally Posted by mel33t

I stayed strong and did not buy the palette. It was tough.
I've said it before and I'll say it again... Proud Low-Buy Mama here! Good job girlie! I knew you could do it! Trust me, hype will die down over that thing quickly.
 

Sandy072

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Hullo :wavey: Just checking in and trying to convince myself I don't need the LORAC palette. My palette challenge is going well. Saturday I used a bunch of singles and duos to create a look and right now I'm playing around with the Naturally Pretty palette. That palette is a bit hard to work with I'm noticing, the colors can become muddy if you're not careful. Next I think I'm going to use my Brooke palette. Its nice because I'm really using what I have and I think what I don't use or don't really like, I'm going to give away. I'm due for a makeup clean out anyway. :haha: Hope you all are doing well :heart:
I stayed strong and did not buy the palette. It was tough.
Good for you! I managed to do the same. My thought on it is... Half (or more) of it is very neutral and thus dupeable. It is such a big palette that if I bought it I really would not be able to justify buying eyeshadows for the next like decade! At this point I am happier to pick up single pans of things that I don't have or are better formulas of staples. I've been wanting to get some makeup feel shadows because I hear the mattes are fantastic, but how can I justify that if I bought the mega? So, toodles to the mega. Just not something I need in my stash, I think it would bring more guilt than enjoyment. Holiday skipping happening for me too... Nothing is tickling my fancy! Hooray!
 

DarylandCarole

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The swatches for the LORAC palette are nice, but my first impression was that I have dupes for virtually all of it. If you have a lot of palettes, you may be the same. I agree - I think it was Pixie who said earlier that you're never going to be more excited about the item than you are at the time you order it. We have enough trouble resisting the items that are compelling, why add to it?
You know you don't need it! You just want it. I feel like if you're not feeling like you absolutely have to have it and are already going back and forth, don't get it. There will be plenty of releases you'll be chomping at the bit for - best to save your money for those.
You guys are 100% right. Thanks :hug: I think I fall so easily for palettes because who doesn't love all the colors neatly lined up and all wrapped together in a cite and slim palette. It's attractive to my OCD. But I don't need it. I'd rather buy something like a book or put it towards a Christmas gift for Christmas.
Good for you, Mel33t! I don't look at any e/s brands other than MAC, UD, and MUFE. That helps me avoid temptation. Plus I find it easier to grab a few singles most of the time. I know a lot of people talk about the Lorac palettes and that makes it hard to ignore it. Awhile ago I read that you should figure out how many hours you have to work to make the money that an item costs you. Maybe that would be helpful?
 

DarylandCarole

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Checking in to just to say hi and hope everyone is continuing to do well on their no and low buys! I'm really getting a kick out of shopping my stash, but I REALLY want the beige pigment set from Holiday. Hopefully, I can stay strong. HAI EBBERYBUDDY!
Hi, Maris! Good to hear from you! That beige pigment set is one of the few things that I like in the Holiday set. I haven't looked at the prices or swatches yet. All I've done so far is read the color story for the Holiday stuff. Is it very expensive? If not, I think it's reasonable to let yourself have 1 thing for the holidays Aif You're going to use it.
 

janette9687

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It's always nice to run into you sweetness! Glad you're hanging out w us to brace for the upcoming Holiday MADNESS!

Good reminder... and I'm REALLY glad too!! Yay for #teamlowbuy progress!

I appoint you as the one to remind me of this everytime I use "I travel so much for work" as an excuse to buy travel-friendly makeup! SERIOUSLY! I'm so glad you said that! I have bought more travel-friendly palettes than I should have ever justified... and even EMPTY travel palettes to take selected items from my regular stash for "ease of travel!" It's a BIG excuse for me! I have to stop that! Thanks girl!

I've said it before and I'll say it again... Proud Low-Buy Mama here! Good job girlie! I knew you could do it! Trust me, hype will die down over that thing quickly.

I hope you dont feel like i was calling you out specifically i was saying it in general also because often enough this was my excuse I moved 5x in 2012 alone and i had to travel with my entire collection each time, this last move back to the states from Japan did it for me, my makeup was causing more worry for it to travel instead of me enjoying it, I think we all need reminding so i will GLADLY HELP AND REFER BACK TO THIS POST!

HAI EBBERYBUDDY!
I have tons of past collections vials, if i take out any beigey ones ill send you a PM for the shipping only :)
Quote: Originally Posted by burghchick


Good for you, Mel33t! I don't look at any e/s brands other than MAC, UD, and MUFE. That helps me avoid temptation. Plus I find it easier to grab a few singles most of the time. I know a lot of people talk about the Lorac palettes and that makes it hard to ignore it. Awhile ago I read that you should figure out how many hours you have to work to make the money that an item costs you. Maybe that would be helpful?
I think after the nakeds, every brand is trying to capitalize on these palette popularity, its getting overdone, how many palettes could we possibly get thru in a life time, were not MUA we dont need them and if were buying them all it certainly is not a better value.
 

awickedshape

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Hi @PixieDancer    :cheer: I am usually very adamant against (consciously) buying something in a shade I already have. I take special care with red lipsticks. However, the mistake I keep making is usually related to nude lipsticks; I'm always trying to find the "right one" and it's usually either just so-so or a downright disappointment!  So, I hope I can decide to make do with what I have (and I am lucky to be able to have some very nice things) and stop looking for this dream nude. I have already decided that I don't need another blush at all ever in life (even if I do like the idea of a plum blush, I don't need one, I will make my Milani Berry Amore work lol) I have made sure to give away lots of things that I have never used or were sitting unused or underused. I have curated my eyeshadow stash so that I don't feel the need for another eyeshadow palette at all. I want to try to skip LE collections because sometimes the timing is all wrong and you're compelled to get these things now or they'll be "lost" forever. I want to be able to get these things in the right timing for me, not because they are only available now. And I am not stressing out about missing anything at all. I also have to be careful with sales because they might encourage you to get things that you may not have even really wanted to get just because you think you are getting a good deal. Just because I may be able to afford something I don't necessarily have to get it. I am also trying to take care to learn what works with my skin tone and try not to waste money on unflattering items. I hate being wasteful. So much more to learn and be aware of. [COLOR=181818]"Appreciating things without needing to own them!" [/COLOR] This, so much [COLOR=181818]@veronikawithak [/COLOR]. I do have compulsive feelings sometimes that are hard to override.   A recent example: skipping RHPS was a big deal for me, because I loved the packaging so much even though I didn't care for the actual products. I'll just save a pic to remember the packaging by. There are some things I'm quite happy with eg the NARS Audacious lipsticks (though they were totally unexpected/unplanned!). And I am glad to be able to share pictures and swatches here so I can help in some small way, and because I appreciate all the helpful information and swatches I have gotten. There are a few things I regret getting eg Charlotte Tilbury's Hepburn Honey. But, did I need any of those things? Apart from skincare-related items, no. I have some conflicting feelings here...  There are a few more things I want, though, some things I want to try out, and some things I need for my skin, as I've been under so much stress and have been having quite a breakout. Skincare is serious. Makeup should be fun and I want to ensure it stays that way. Enjoyable and guilt-free. Food for thought! :amused:  
I'm referring to my own post because I want to keep it in mind :) I was conflicted over the Guerlain Holiday meteorites because they were one of the things I wanted to try ( those and/or Teint Dore) but they are also LE... I decided to try to get them because I don't have a Holiday list anymore. I'm cutting a lot of stuff out.
 

veronikawithak

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Updated MAC Collections Wishlist Lightness of Being - Beautiful Moves * I've been wanting to try the mineralize lipglasses but at $26 CAD I want to make sure I'll use it. Anyone try these and are they worth it? Should I wait for a repromote of Summer Showers lipstick or something similar? Heirloom Mix - Rebel
 

mauu

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Heirloom Mix - Rebel
Rebel is also on my wishlist but I'm feeling really conflicted about it. On the one hand, I could B2M for it. On the other hand... eee glittery packaging! But do I really want to pay for special packaging? Then again, I could get Heirloom Mix Rebel and save the B2M items for another lipstick... Decisions, decisions.
 

veronikawithak

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I made a purchase today. Various blush, eyeshadow, foundation, and lipstick samples from Alima Pure. It was around $17 including shipping and I'm going to count it as one of my October purchases. Been wanting to try them for a while and found a Canadian site that ships them for a better price + no concerns about import duties etc. Other than that I have Rebel and that's it for the month I think.. 4 items total. This might be the first month that I'm actually under my planned 5 items and not starting to dip into the next month like usual. Don't want to jump the gun since we still have a few weeks to go.. but I'm hopeful!
Rebel is also on my wishlist but I'm feeling really conflicted about it. On the one hand, I could B2M for it. On the other hand... eee glittery packaging! But do I really want to pay for special packaging? Then again, I could get Heirloom Mix Rebel and save the B2M items for another lipstick... Decisions, decisions.
Yeah I'll admit to the "eee glitter" rationale too. But I have lots of other lipsticks on my B2M list and I've been slowing my roll with buying them and working on using some up so I'm okay with getting one this time. I also skipped the ones I wanted from RHPS and Mattes so that helps.
 

Audrey C

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I went into Shoppers to check out the holiday meteorites and ended up falling in love with the regular ones, so I used (most of) my credit for those. I didn't like Christine's pics of the holiday ones, but if I happen to adore them when they're released and they're significantly different than the ones I just got then they can be a Christmas gift from my husband. I'm now officially going to see if I can make it to the end of the year without buying any other makeup.

The only exception I might make is a backup foundation during the VIB sale at Sephora; I finished one this week and I opened my backup. I usually keep one of those on hand. But NO colour products!
 

lyseD

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Two more lipsticks today with B2MAC -- Pervette and Sandy B.

Does anyone know if Sandy B is named after someone? It's an unusual name for a MAC lipstick.
 

FuuHouhouji

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Hi, I haven’t written here since the start of the year; and mostly lurk around the rest of the site. But I have to come back. I need help because I’m losing focus on my low buy :( I had been a good girl during the year. Until two weeks ago, I had only bought 5 lipsticks (One of them is almost finished), 2 BB creams and a Missha brow pencil (I know I could have use eyeshadow but a brow pencil saves A LOT of time in the morning and I didn’t have any; so it shouldn’t count) But then everything get out of control! My godfather died and then I lost all moderation and common sense. I bought 2 clinique chubby sticks (to be honest a set with two chubby sticks that where on my wishlist) two weeks ago, then last week, I got the mac neutral warm palette (the 15 eye shadows one); and yesterday I got the Lorac Mega palette (and the nude skinny one) I’m like :wtf: “what’s wrong with you?”, “HOW many neutrals you need, especially HOW many warm brown neutrals you need?” (Apparently every single shade of brown on the world) I mean, why I bought the skinny palette if I was buying the mega palette. And why on earth I bought the mega if I just bought the MAC one (awesome purchase by the way, I totally love that palette) It just doesn’t make sense. And is not like I can send them back (I bought them on amazon) :nuts: I know I’m vulnerable and that I will be going into Sephora and other sites during the upcoming months. I always buy at least half a year supply of skincare during the sales and I will have to get in the sites. (I’m mostly a skincare junkie, and my skincare purchases are planned to take advantage of the sales) The benefit blush set is calling me (I have neither of those blushes), and the Chick to cheek set from Tarte is also gorgeous (I only have 1 tarte blush). I suspect that if I bought any of these sets I will use it a month and then I will be coming back to use Nars Luster daily (my foolproof blush). I don’t need more makeup (I will need mascara but that’s the way mascara is) and all the sets are so pretty :( Thank God Nars sucks at making blush palettes (always orgasm and laguna) because I would be lost. And then there are all the lipsticks and lip-glosses sets. So I’m here because I need other people to remind me that I don’t need more makeup, and that retail therapy is not a solution to the way I feel. I know I’m depressed but after the purchases I’m still depressed and also angry and a little ashamed (so I’m worst).:help:
 

Maris Crane

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Quote:Originally Posted by lyseD

Two more lipsticks today with B2MAC -- Pervette and Sandy B.

Does anyone know if Sandy B is named after someone? It's an unusual name for a MAC lipstick.



I thought it was Sandra Bernhardt? Is it uncomfortable to wear? I see online swatched and want but I'm worried because it's a frost! @janette9687, thank you so much for the offer! Only problem for me - and what's preventing me from haulin', is the fact that I barely use my loose shadows as is. But I can't go on a complete makeup buying fast, so maybe I'll allow myself a set for Christmas! @burghchick, hope you're doing well! :) Maybe I can justify it this holiday - especially if I continue to do well at not buying random crap.
 

shellygrrl

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Hi, I haven’t written here since the start of the year; and mostly lurk around the rest of the site. But I have to come back. I need help because I’m losing focus on my low buy :( I had been a good girl during the year. Until two weeks ago, I had only bought 5 lipsticks (One of them is almost finished), 2 BB creams and a Missha brow pencil (I know I could have use eyeshadow but a brow pencil saves A LOT of time in the morning and I didn’t have any; so it shouldn’t count) But then everything get out of control! My godfather died and then I lost all moderation and common sense. I bought 2 clinique chubby sticks (to be honest a set with two chubby sticks that where on my wishlist) two weeks ago, then last week, I got the mac neutral warm palette (the 15 eye shadows one); and yesterday I got the Lorac Mega palette (and the nude skinny one) I’m like :wtf: “what’s wrong with you?”, “HOW many neutrals you need, especially HOW many warm brown neutrals you need?” (Apparently every single shade of brown on the world) I mean, why I bought the skinny palette if I was buying the mega palette. And why on earth I bought the mega if I just bought the MAC one (awesome purchase by the way, I totally love that palette) It just doesn’t make sense. And is not like I can send them back (I bought them on amazon) :nuts: I know I’m vulnerable and that I will be going into Sephora and other sites during the upcoming months. I always buy at least half a year supply of skincare during the sales and I will have to get in the sites. (I’m mostly a skincare junkie, and my skincare purchases are planned to take advantage of the sales) The benefit blush set is calling me (I have neither of those blushes), and the Chick to cheek set from Tarte is also gorgeous (I only have 1 tarte blush). I suspect that if I bought any of these sets I will use it a month and then I will be coming back to use Nars Luster daily (my foolproof blush). I don’t need more makeup (I will need mascara but that’s the way mascara is) and all the sets are so pretty :( Thank God Nars sucks at making blush palettes (always orgasm and laguna) because I would be lost. And then there are all the lipsticks and lip-glosses sets. So I’m here because I need other people to remind me that I don’t need more makeup, and that retail therapy is not a solution to the way I feel. I know I’m depressed but after the purchases I’m still depressed and also angry and a little ashamed (so I’m worst).:help:
First things first, I'm sorry for your loss. :( :support: Seems to me that after your godfather's death, you ended up engaging in a bit of retail therapy and impulse purchases. How much of what you bought in that time frame are you actually going to use? You love the MAC palette you bought, so I'm thinking you're going to end up using that more than the Lorac palettes. The Lorac Pro (original one, with the black packaging, which is what I'm assuming you mean by "the skinny palette") has a lot of similar colours, IIRC. And then the Mega Pro is mostly neutrals with pops of colour. That's a ton of neutrals. Since you can't send them back/return them, maybe find someone to give them to? Or try to sell them in the Clearance Bin to get at least some of your money back and see them off to a good home? And what about the chubby stick set? Do you love the formula? Are they unique colours to your stash? To get yourself back on track, I would suggest focusing on your skincare purchases, since skincare is always going to be more important than makeup, and skip all your makeup lemmings, as you don't need them. More makeup isn't going to help you at all. That said, don't be too hard on yourself, or ashamed. Stuff happens. Also? Think of this experience as a lesson learned! Now you know grief/mourning is a trigger for you to buy stuff. If you can find a way to channel those feelings in a way that doesn't involve purchasing a ton of makeup, and perhaps find someone to talk to (if you need it), it would help you loads.
 

Alysse011

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@FuuHouhouji I'm sorry for your loss. I was going to give some advice, but Shelly has said it all! And very well I might add! Focus on the skincare and don't be ashamed of the retail therapy that already took place. Just remember when you are looking at those blush palettes how you felt after buying the mega...it's not worth it.
 

PixieDancer

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Rebel is also on my wishlist but I'm feeling really conflicted about it. On the one hand, I could B2M for it. On the other hand... eee glittery packaging! But do I really want to pay for special packaging? Then again, I could get Heirloom Mix Rebel and save the B2M items for another lipstick... Decisions, decisions.
The same conflict I was having w myself over Sin in the RHPS Collection. Since I can only B2M for lipsticks, it made my decision easier. I used 1 of my B2M's for Sin. I'd rather use my B2M's for shades I really want than go into my pocket just for packaging. I know it's hard to resist the glitter, but think of it as $ you can spend on something else! 2 products are better then 1... especially when you're only paying for 1! Right?

Quote: Originally Posted by FuuHouhouji

Hi, I haven’t written here since the start of the year; and mostly lurk around the rest of the site. But I have to come back. I need help because I’m losing focus on my low buy
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I had been a good girl during the year. Until two weeks ago, I had only bought 5 lipsticks (One of them is almost finished), 2 BB creams and a Missha brow pencil (I know I could have use eyeshadow but a brow pencil saves A LOT of time in the morning and I didn’t have any; so it shouldn’t count) But then everything get out of control! My godfather died and then I lost all moderation and common sense. I bought 2 clinique chubby sticks (to be honest a set with two chubby sticks that where on my wishlist) two weeks ago, then last week, I got the mac neutral warm palette (the 15 eye shadows one); and yesterday I got the Lorac Mega palette (and the nude skinny one)

I’m like
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“what’s wrong with you?”, “HOW many neutrals you need, especially HOW many warm brown neutrals you need?” (Apparently every single shade of brown on the world) I mean, why I bought the skinny palette if I was buying the mega palette. And why on earth I bought the mega if I just bought the MAC one (awesome purchase by the way, I totally love that palette) It just doesn’t make sense. And is not like I can send them back (I bought them on amazon)
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I know I’m vulnerable and that I will be going into Sephora and other sites during the upcoming months. I always buy at least half a year supply of skincare during the sales and I will have to get in the sites. (I’m mostly a skincare junkie, and my skincare purchases are planned to take advantage of the sales) The benefit blush set is calling me (I have neither of those blushes), and the Chick to cheek set from Tarte is also gorgeous (I only have 1 tarte blush). I suspect that if I bought any of these sets I will use it a month and then I will be coming back to use Nars Luster daily (my foolproof blush). I don’t need more makeup (I will need mascara but that’s the way mascara is) and all the sets are so pretty
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Thank God Nars sucks at making blush palettes (always orgasm and laguna) because I would be lost. And then there are all the lipsticks and lip-glosses sets.

So I’m here because I need other people to remind me that I don’t need more makeup, and that retail therapy is not a solution to the way I feel. I know I’m depressed but after the purchases I’m still depressed and also angry and a little ashamed (so I’m worst).
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@shellygrrl already gave you some great things to think about.

I'm also very sorry for your loss and can't think of a better excuse for retail therapy. What a sorrowful time it must have been, and probably still is. Finding small reasons for a small smile seems like a nice escape. But remember how far you've come. How good it felt to be in control instead of out of control. Try to find healthy ways to deal with your feelings rather than masking them with temporary things that won't last.
It seem you've beaten yourself up pretty good. Forgive yourself. You are human. And by nature, we are all flawed. Move forward and KNOW you can get back to a better place. You have already made it there once before!
 

FuuHouhouji

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Thanks shellygrrl and Alysee011 , you are right. I need to talk it with someone. Is just that my family is now in a bad shape so I cannot turn to my parents or brother for support (they are looking to me for that) and all my friends are great but they don’t get it, they are all like “You should be happy for him, he was in a lot of pain” and I think I haven’t been able to mourn properly. Shellygrrl The nude skinny is not the first pro one is that limited edition palette that Lorac did for Nordstrom. For some reason is in Amazon in the same place than the Mega palette. I don’t have any of the Lorac Pro palettes. I know I will use it and more than likely I will like it; but I don’t thing I need it. I don’t use colorful eyeshadows so I only have nude palettes. I don’t need more eyeshadow because I’m kind of a boring person in the eyeshadow area. I just bought 3 neutral palettes in less than two weeks; and that’s a 200 dlls bill (and 53 new eyeshadows). I was super excited like “I got it, yeah” and then I realize that is kind of an unjustified purchase (and it took me less than 12 hours to get from happy to whats wrong with you). I’m always good at saying no to myself but this last two months have been stressful and I guess I lost it. At least, I guess, I didn’t lost it lost it and got a colorful palette like the Vice 3 (really pretty but I know I would never use half of it). But know I really need to get in an eyeshadow ban. Maybe my sister in law will like the skinny palette and I will thing what to do with the mega. And PixieDancer you are right about something, I should really try not to be so harsh to myself. Is just that is the way I had always been, but really is not a good habit. Thanks for reading me, you are awesome :urock:
 
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