I was saying the same thing. I bought Topaz and Rose Gold this year since joining Specktra and I had no idea how to use it. They just sat there. I would try it as a highlight but the pump dispenses so much product I would get pissed because I just need a little. Then I'm not particularly into the dewy look to just use it all over by itself. I don't like the matte look either mind you because I always use my MAC Fix+ to get rid of that. So literally the last couple days I started using them with my primer, which is already illuminating (Estee Lauder) and I like that both colors jive with my foundation (EL Double Wear). In other words, I don't look shiny like I thought it would. But I always top my face with a dusting of Black Radiance Soft Focus powder, Fix+ then a setting spray. I'm probably canceling out the whole SSP but it works for me so far and tbh, I'd rather be using it than not, lol! What foundation are you using? I know it may sound counterproductive, but I think it works well with a mattifying one. This is why I got the illuminating primer to use with my foundation. For me, double matte is too much the same way double dewy is too much (foundation + primer). Of course you should do based on your skin type and preference. I've also tried it mixed with my foundation and I believe I liked that too, I haven't done that since the summer.