IslandGirl77
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Hey ya'll, I'm having a issue that I need some input on. My bf and I have been together almost a year. Both of us have kids from previous relationships. My kids father lives in Hawaii, and his kids live 15 min. away. Before I moved here, he had told me his kids mother was cool and nice and all this good stuff. When I moved here, she was nice. Well, months later...I read some of his email. And she sent him emails talking trash about me. Saying that he needs to make me work, and she don't know why I'm not working. And that he could do better than me. And all this crap. And she doesn't even really know me. Then she said something like,"You must love and respect her more than you did me." That made me sooo mad! And I confronted him about it. Cause he was acutally explaining things to her, like she was owed some explanantion about our situation. THen she tried to say he could do better without me. Mind you, my bf really doesn't care if I work because we are doing just fine. So after that I dont' like her anymore. And he tried to make me feel like I'm wrong for that. They are constantly talking at work. And he doesn't even hardly see the kids. I dont' understand what all the talking is for. It irks me. Soo, on Valentines Day she had the kids call him. It's like 7:30 at night, and then she gets on the phone wishing him a Happy Valentines Day. That made me mad. Cause she wouldn't get off the phone. I'm thinking, doesn't she think we might be doing something at this hour? In the past week or so, she's been calling quite a bit. For nothing. To talk about BS. LIke about her house getting built. SHe called this morning at 8 in the morning to see if he's off of work. He told her no, and she's like I'll call you at work. I'm like WTF! Why? So I told him, why is she calling so much? I said you dont' even see the kids, so what's with all the calls. He says she calls to talk about the kids. And I know she's not. Sooo, anyways. He gets pissed at me and tells me to grow up. Once again, I'm the wrong person. I said tell her to stop calling so much. He told me to tell her! I don't know what to do. She's getting married in May. And he thinks that's supposed to make me feel better. I just think they talk waay to much. Am I wrong? Am I being insecure? What do ya'll think. Sorry for the long stories.