Quote:Originally Posted by
highheels
Elegant, I have no idea whether you created the PM system or not - I don't know who did, nor do I care, it's irrelevant. But you are supporting/defending its use, thereby contributing to the overall
perception that only certain members are entitled to "be in the know" about certain information around here. I know for a fact that I'm not the only one who feels this way.
I did not specifically say say that
you personally said anything mean towards anyone else - I said "people" or "certain members" - I was speaking generally, in response to your post, but I can think of a few members who did attack newbies. But naming names doesn't solve anything.
Look, all of this is my personal opinion, my take, and my impression of the site. I don't expect you or anyone else to agree. I originally came to this site to *learn* because I thought my makeup skills and creativity were very lacking and I was thrilled at the prospect of being among like-minded people and professionals from whom I could learn some useful tips and share our mutual passion for all things beauty- it was fun! But those days are long gone.
As an aside, I have also offered to pick up items for other members since I work very close to a MAC store; I just don't state it publicly - has anyone ever considered that?
So to anyone reading, my low post count (or anyone else's) should never be interpreted as "not contributing" or "not being involved" - I prefer to do my work behind the scenes, thus contributing in my own way. What's wrong with that? But seems as though unless you're an active member posting on here all day long, for some reason you're accused of either not contributing, or being here for the wrong reasons - there's a lot of gray area, people.
Cheers.
Interesting point... "Contribution" means a lot of different things to a lot of different people, and I don't think it's fair for anyone to try and put a measure on that. As far as MAC Chat is concerned, I feel like some people consider making posts at all or simply talking about what they plan to purchase to be a contribution, while others feel that posting early release info, early swatches, etc. is a "real" contribution. I agree, there's a lot of gray area.