lovemichelle
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now. We have been through a lot and lately things have just been going down hill. He likes to drink beer and it's now an everyday thing. I find it to be too much and it's a waste of a lot of money. I ask him all the time to just cut it down and he tells me it's my fault and seeing my face makes him wanna drink. I don't understand it. I do a lot for him. Bring him lunch at work (that I cook), pick him up for work, cook for him, buy him gifts whenever I go shopping, accept things about him like having a kid that I once couldn't, I listen to his problems and the list goes on, but the beer pisses me off. I could see like one or two (he drinks the 24oz tall boys), but he can't stop at 2 he has like 6 or whatever. We can't even go out to eat without him having to drink. Smoking weed has never bothered me, but I don't do it anymore so now I don't like it around me. He doesn't do it much, but I think he should be sensitive to me and not do it also. There is no need for it. He finds it controlling, but I see it as caring. I would have loved for someone to tell me no all the years I was doing it. I love this man more then life itself, but I don't feel like he's being respectful of how I feel. I have told him many times, but I am clueless of what to do now. I cry so much about it and I'm breaking down. I'm not bashing him at all because I cherish him more then anyone and don't want to be without him, yet I need more right now. Things were so good before, I just wish I knew what happened. What should I do?