Are things seriously this horrible on Specktra?

[xtiffineyx]

I love the site! The only thing I would change would be the 30 second wait between searches. I don't know if there is a specific reason for this or not, so if there is, then just ignore my post lol. But! There are sometimes when I type something in the search and I'll misspell something and then catch it at the last second, but it's already went through and I have to sit here and wait until the 30 seconds are up to correct it.

But seriously, this is one of my favorite sites EVER. I come here at least 25 times a day! lol! Keep up the good work!

 

[glam8babe]

well i like specktra because its wayy better

everyones nicer and it's just my fave website!

when i got accepted on the LJ one.. people were rude because i was new, i pick specktra over that crap anyday!

 

[SingFrAbsoltion]

I have seen a couple of rude people but bitches are everywhere it's not like you can prevent them from joining. But that's not even a forum problem, they just don't have manners. As for the board itself, I don't have anything that bothers me.

 

[Janice]

I don't think there is a social clique issue, but it was implied by a forum novice who doesn't spend any time here. Do you feel that Specktra is "cliquey"? Is there a certain group of members who are especially rude or snarky? Post counts are visible unless you navigate to the profile, I removed them from the user information area purposely. So I don't *think* that has anything to do with it. Do you think this has anything to do with the way some people claim to be treated?

 

[NicksWifey]

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Originally Posted by Janice I don't think there is a social clique issue, but it was implied by a forum novice who doesn't spend any time here. Do you feel that Specktra is "cliquey"? Is there a certain group of members who are especially rude or snarky? Post counts are visible unless you navigate to the profile, I removed them from the user information area purposely. So I don't *think* that has anything to do with it. Do you think this has anything to do with the way some people claim to be treated?

I think some people just join forums randomly and once they arrive, they may feel they don't fit in. So what? Stay for a while and get to know people, navigate the forums and all the site has to offer before you start making judgments.
I think those negative comments on LJ came from people that did that, joined the site and hardly posted, maybe just because they didn't want to give it time.
How can you bash something that you don't participate in or know anything about?

Girl, do not let this get you down!

 

[glam8babe]

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Originally Posted by prettysecrets everyone here loves makeup and is supportive of the craft (unlike alot of ppl who make comments on makeup videos on youtube...) at the end of the day people will always complain though.

ohh i hate that! when people are like 'thats way too much makeup' or 'that was the most boring video ever'
its like 'FUCK YOU!!!!'

 

[Janice]

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Originally Posted by xtiffineyx I love the site! The only thing I would change would be the 30 second wait between searches.

Thanks for your comments, I changed the wait between searches to 15 seconds. The wait is to help keep server loads down, but I recently upgraded the server Specktra is on so we have more processing power.

 

[xtiffineyx]

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Originally Posted by Janice Thanks for your comments, I changed the wait between searches to 15 seconds. The wait is to help keep server loads down, but I recently upgraded the server Specktra is on so we have more processing power.

Woo hoo! thanks! I figured it has something to do with the site not getting overloaded or something (I'm not very tech/internet savvy with that stuff so I don't know the proper terms! lol). Then again, maybe I shouldn't be so hasty with my searches, and actually proofread them before I hit enter! lol!

 

[SingFrAbsoltion]

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Originally Posted by Janice I don't think there is a social clique issue, but it was implied by a forum novice who doesn't spend any time here. Do you feel that Specktra is "cliquey"? Is there a certain group of members who are especially rude or snarky? Post counts are visible unless you navigate to the profile, I removed them from the user information area purposely. So I don't *think* that has anything to do with it. Do you think this has anything to do with the way some people claim to be treated?

No, I've just seen random people being rude/stuck up. From my experience nobody really teams up on one person unless they said something offensive, I've seen that a few times. Maybe that's what they meant? But I mean it's understandable, if it's a touchy subject obviously people will argue, that's just life.

 

[esmeralda89]

i love specktra people here are so nice everyone has so much love to give ive only felt one person jump on my back and not being so nice to my oppinions but hey i have the right to post what i think just as the other person other than that i dont tink people should atack this site that way

 

[Simply Elegant]

I think Specktra is really well laid out and easy to understand. While Specktra isn't the friendliest board I've been on, it's definitely still my favourite. It's still not bad though, there are a lot of friendly people here but in some sections sometimes conversations seem to get a bit out of hand sometimes.

Anyway, there will always be people who don't like it so I'd just keep on making the people who like it keep on liking it.

 

[PollyRhythm]

See, I'm just not understanding this. Do people really have nothing else better to do than to pick with another forum? I just started getting into makeup (June 2008) and just joined you guys here not too long ago and felt like I was welcomed with opened arms. I never felt like if I posted and no one responded, that no one liked me. When you come into something and somewhere new like this board it's like the first day of school and the more you talk and venture out, the more people will respond. Otherwise you can be that kid who barely talks to anyone and just sulks and plays in the corner by themselves.

Seriously, I am not picking on anyone and everyone is entitled to their own opinion but you have to speak before you're spoken to. For some reason, people forget that this is the internet and not face to face, in the flesh talk.

Also, I just want to say that you guys kick major butt, never once have I felt uncomfortable here, and I've learned so much here it's ridiculous.

 

[Divinity]

^^
I have yet to come across a snarky Specktrette and I've been a member and a lurker for a while. I too came across this site when googling for rare MAC finds and lurked for a long time to get the hang of the site and see what was discussed and what the guys and gals were like. If there was ever a rude comment, it was removed or resolved. As for the number of posts these complaints are about, people here talk to you and take advice no matter how many posts or thanks you have. It's all about putting your two cents in and if you have MAC gossip, advice, opinions, JUMP IN!! It's THE best way to get to know people and show us what you're about! This is a great community - one that I enjoy being a part of.

 

[Shimmer]

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Originally Posted by Janice I don't think there is a social clique issue, but it was implied by a forum novice who doesn't spend any time here. Do you feel that Specktra is "cliquey"? Is there a certain group of members who are especially rude or snarky? Post counts are visible unless you navigate to the profile, I removed them from the user information area purposely. So I don't *think* that has anything to do with it. Do you think this has anything to do with the way some people claim to be treated?

I've never understood the whole 'zomg there's a clique!'

It's not a clique. Several of us have met and hung out with each other over the past few years. Hell, I've been a member for over two now, and you & I have met how many Specktrettes? There's a camaraderie that comes from that and consistent day to day posting that can't be forced. It's real.

I'm glad for the Deep Thoughts/Relationships/Chatter forums, because it gives us all a chance to air opinions and views and get to know each other. It's a GREAT medium.

Hell yes there are debates and they're heated...some pretty passionate subjects have been bandied about and I'd never dream of censoring anyone for discussing a subject they're passionate about, even if their views are different from mine.

And finally, there's a certain formula here that works. It's inarguable that it works because Janice, look how many times it's been cribbed and copied.

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Originally Posted by Janice I don't think there is a social clique issue, but it was implied by a forum novice who doesn't spend any time here. Do you feel that Specktra is "cliquey"? Is there a certain group of members who are especially rude or snarky? Post counts are visible unless you navigate to the profile, I removed them from the user information area purposely. So I don't *think* that has anything to do with it. Do you think this has anything to do with the way some people claim to be treated?

If you didn't have post count *somewhere* people would want it.
Since you do, people could say it's not fair to new posters.
If you didn't have some sort of reputation, people would ask for it as a means of showing gratitude for particularly useful posts.
Since you do, people could say it's not fair to people who don't have as many 'thanks' or 'green dots' or whatever.

You're doing the best you can babe. Anyone asking more than that...well...as others have found, it's not the easiest thing in the world to run a forum.

 

[coachkitten]

Well I am sad that people feel the need to post such nasty things about Specktra. I am a member of other boards but I have chosen to spend 99% of my time on Specktra because of the FRIENDLY and HELPFUL members and because the site is easy to navigate. Also the mods are a big part of why I stay here as well. You are all helpful and do a great job making this site such a fun place to be. I think it boils down to that you can't please everyone. That is why the internet is such a great thing because people can pick and choose which boards they want to spend time at. No one is forcing those people to be here.

I have been a member of Specktra for over 2 1/2 years and I have never been made to feel like I didn't belong here or that people were rude to me.

I enjoy that I can come here and not feel judged or afraid to voice my opinion. Janice I think that Specktra is the best beauty site around and I am proud to be a part of it. To each their own. Please don't take it personal.

 

[M.A.C. head.]

Well dang :/

Next to MySpace, Specktra is my "home away from home". I adore this site. I think it's well formatted, informative, and fun.

That said, I do get annoyed with some of the users at times. There are certain people who are snarky, rude, and down right condescending. I've just learned to click or scroll passed it *shrugs*

 

[coachkitten]

Some people might come across snarky or rude but a lot of the time I just chalk it up to the fact that tone doesn't really come across when typing. I like to give people the benefit of doubt but if they are truly being rude I just brush it off. I frankly don't get to offended by it. I know that when I am on here I treat everyone (new member or old) with nothing but respect and kindness. I would say that 99.9% of the members here do the same.

 

[glam8babe]

oh and another thing, this is probably the friendliest forum ive come across!

on other forums there's always people who will treat you like crap, bitch about other members etc. it's different here!

 

[rbella]

I think written word can always be open for misinterpretation. You don't have the luxury of seeing someone's facial expressions or hearing their tone of voice in responses, so perhaps that is where some individuals are feeling that there is "snarkiness".

I don't personally feel that their is anything to criticize at all about this site. However, I am very biased because I love it!!

I do know that when I was new, I took the time to learn the rules, search the forum as much as possible to keep from having repeated posts and everyone made me feel so welcome.

It is incredibly frustrating when someone joins, doesn't read the forum guidelines and doesn't use the "search" function. Then, they post a thread that has been posted about a BILLION times and get their panties in a wad when it is moved. Or, when they don't want to take the time to read an entire thread so they say "didn't want to go through 86 pages so I'm sorry if this has already been asked". Well, when the same damned question is asked 50 times in 1 thread, it is annoying and unfortunately, the answers to the question probably come across rude.

That is the only "criticism" I have ever seen on other sites regarding Specktra. It is usually a new user who is pissed b/c someone told them that their question has already been answered, or that the thread they started has been moved. I believe any irritation with this site would come from a user's total disregard of the guidelines and rules and in turn, the responses they receive.

Don't change a thing. It is perfect!

 

[yodagirl]

I'm a member on many forums, but I actually like this one the best. I don't post much and haven't been a member for very long, but I haven't noticed any rudeness or snotty attitudes from anybody. I love the fact that not only can I talk about make-up, but also other things in life (where other forums you either can't or don't)...Like some of the previous posters stated you can't please everybody. I absolutley

it here though