i dnth think my post was appaling/rude in anyway i was just highlighting that if i post a thread, being a uni student/working lots etc that i like girls from australia to answer coz it really helps me out to get the stuff i want here quickly and convientenly, i also find that i feel a little bit overwhelmed by posting in th larger fourms, espcially when i am looking for easy to find products coz sometimes ( and im not syaing everyone does this or taht it happens all the time) girls can jump on you/make the question seem stupid whereas in the aussie forums we have become very much like a little online family and no matter how tsupid teh question tehy always make me feel welcome. anythig i thinkw ill be relevnt to teh wider spektra community i tend to post in the wider threads and i deifntaly make no judment on the moderaters here who do a fantastic job, i was just trying to say why i personally prefer the aussie forum