"The time will come and you will know"
Advice I received from my old roommate. I was in a terrible relationship with someone who made ABSOLUTELY miserable. I didn't love him, didn't like him, but it was my first relationship and I thought it would get better. It never did. I couldn't bring myself to end it because strangely I wasn't ready yet. Finally the point came, where it had to end and I never look back.
People always wonder why people dont get out as soon as the writing's on the wall, but you have to be in the right mindset to do it. The time will come and it will happen.