Boy Troubles:(

[RedRibbon]

Learn from our experiences, when anyone blows up at you like that then they know they're in the wrong and they hope that by shouting at you, they make you feel scared so that you apologise to them and feel like you're wrong. Don't say sorry, if he hasn't got in touch with you then leave it because if he wanted to work it out then he'd have come to you.

As I always say, how would he feel if he found out you doing the same? I doubt he'd be as happy as he is if he found that you had pics of guys with their wangs out on your computer.

 

[ShortnSassy]

i say this: if the pictures were from say, 2 weeks into your guys' relationship, let it go. but if they were received 2 weeks ago, dump the guy.

obviously the computer doesn't lie. if all of the other dates match up, he's full of shit and they're not from a long time ago.

maybe my boyfriend is too good to be true, but after a we had been dating for 3 weeks he went through his phone and deleted every phone number of every ex girlfriend, ex fling thing, and every girl who he ever had a thing with. he also went through and deleted every picture that he had on his phone of semi-naked girls that he had never gotten around to deleting. AND I DIDNT EVEN ASK HIM TO. he cared about me enough and respected our relationship enough to just do it.

i feel like if this guy really had nothing to hide, he would have called you by now and apologized. this situation sounds fishy to me. be cautious.

 

[MACandie2012]

This is my opinion:

I think it's normal for most guys to have naked pics of girls on their computer. The past few guys I have dated have had them. If you and the guy are married, he obviously shouldn't have any. If he received the pics while you guys were dating, I would bring it up. If they were recieved before, leave it alone. I actually had the same thing happen to me a couple of weeks ago. I went snooping thru my bf's comp and found naked pics he had received a couple of weeks after we started dating. Needless to say, I got on his ass. Now he knows that it is NOT ok to ask for naked pics while he's in a relationship and we're hopefully on the same terms. If the same thing happens again, it's over.

(takes a deep breath) lol
So, it ultimately is up to you what to do about the situation, what kind of person you are, and what kind of person he is. No girl deserves to be walked over in ANY situation. HTH