Bernadette
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Where to start.... my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and three months. He had finally ended his very turbulent on-again off-again lame relationship with his ex just over five months before we met.
A little background on that relationship. They started dating when they were 18 and she had a baby that was 1ish from a different guy. Jordan my b/f, raised the little boy as his own, the boy didn't know he wasn't his real father. Jordan and the ex, we'll call her Chipmunk Cheeks, broke up and got back together somewhere around twenty times over the four years of their relationship. When they would break up Chipmunk would hold the little boy as ransom if you will, not allowing Jordan to see him or talk to him anymore which of course caused a lot of confushion for the kid.
Over that four year period the girl also only worked for about three months all together. Otherwise her and her son lived off of Jordan, he even paid for her to go to culinary school which she never did anything with.
Okay so basiaclly this chick really sucks, Jordan regrets all of the time he wasted with her and says that he stayed around for most of it because he didn't want to lose the little boy. Chipmunk moved to Oregon on her parents tab when they broke up and cut all ties of communication between Jordan and the little boy. Until of course she found out he was dating me. Then she decided to start calling him all of the time (still not lettin ghim talk to the little boy.) He usually just wouldn't answer and when he did I was always right there. He ended up having to tell her that if she was going to allow him to be in Tyler's (the little boy) life then she needed to stop going back and forth because it was unfair to everyone and that she had no reason to be calling and tyring to talk to him. She seemed to have made the decision that she was going to continue to not let Tyler and Jordan have anything to do with each other. Then, on Christmas '05 she called and put Tyler on the phone to talk to Jordan. Apparently her parents were visting her and decided that once they found out he had talked to Jordan that they should tell a five year old that the man he thought was his father wasn't and that his real Dad was in jail. Nice. That was the last time Jordan talked to Tyler which was fully Chimunk's decision.
Her parents fully support her and if they stop giving her all the money she needs to live she will not let them see her son.
Anyway after that there were one or two more calls from her trying to involve Jordan in her life and then she stopped calling.
I was fully supportive of Jordan having the little boy in his life. I wouldn't want a relationship like that taken away from either of them, especially not a little kid. This girl was just completely incappible of handling any of this maturly though. She is so selfish it's sick.
God if I had a dollar for every time people have come up to me to tell me how much Chipmunk sucks, how crazy she is, how much everyone hates her, how glad they are she's gone, well dangit I could buy a lot of MAC! Even people I don't know have felt the need to tell me these things. Oh gosh and Jordan's friend's there are no words for how much the dislike her and always have.
So the latest.... in January of '06 Chipmunk's best friend was trying to talk Jordan into having a joint Birthday party with her. I was like are you kidding, why would you do that, you know your ex will probalby drive her ass all the way down from Oregon just to turn this into a situation. He of course declined the offer for this party and guess what, she did drive her ass down here for it, thinkging we were going to be there.
So this best friend of her's moved to New Zealand where her b/f lives and is here visting for two weeks. She leaves Jordan as message on mysapce saying that she has this huge bag a of pictures that chipmunk had given her (this friend's a photog) of him and his friends (my ass, god only knows how many picutres of them are in there) that her family was supposed to get to him so she wants to see him to give them to him.
So you've been away from home for a year and you're only here for two weeks and one of your goals is to get your best friend's ex a bunch of pictures even though he sees your brother on a regular basis? These bitches are up to something and I would put a fair amount of money on what it is.
I'm quite certain that their little plan is to have Jordan meet the friend to pick up the pictures and oh look surprise who is here, Chipmunk and maybe even the little boy (which would be extra low)! Especially since I looked on her myspace and it says she is here for her engagement party, her best friend wouldn't miss that.
Jordan left the girl a message saying that her brother has his number and to have him give him the pictures.
I usually don't rant over situations like this but this one was on mine mind. This chick is just so lame. She doens't want to be with my boyfriend, she doesn't love him, she never did. She's just such an unhappy person that she doesn't want him to be happy either. The fact that we are incredibly happy I'm sure kills her.
I wouldn't normally toot my won horn to this level but this chick has every reason in the world to be jealous of me, to state it honestly, I'm better than her in every way and everyone knows it.
I think I'm going to tell Jordan that if this chick keeps trying to weasle him into meeting up for these pictures he should make a plan for us to get together with her. At least then I can make her uncofrtable. Or if she wants him to have them that badly, she can just drop em on by our house I'm home a lot more often than him and I have no problem meeting this girl.
It seriously amazes me how lame some people are :shrug: .
If anyone actually read this whole thing, thank you!
A little background on that relationship. They started dating when they were 18 and she had a baby that was 1ish from a different guy. Jordan my b/f, raised the little boy as his own, the boy didn't know he wasn't his real father. Jordan and the ex, we'll call her Chipmunk Cheeks, broke up and got back together somewhere around twenty times over the four years of their relationship. When they would break up Chipmunk would hold the little boy as ransom if you will, not allowing Jordan to see him or talk to him anymore which of course caused a lot of confushion for the kid.
Over that four year period the girl also only worked for about three months all together. Otherwise her and her son lived off of Jordan, he even paid for her to go to culinary school which she never did anything with.
Okay so basiaclly this chick really sucks, Jordan regrets all of the time he wasted with her and says that he stayed around for most of it because he didn't want to lose the little boy. Chipmunk moved to Oregon on her parents tab when they broke up and cut all ties of communication between Jordan and the little boy. Until of course she found out he was dating me. Then she decided to start calling him all of the time (still not lettin ghim talk to the little boy.) He usually just wouldn't answer and when he did I was always right there. He ended up having to tell her that if she was going to allow him to be in Tyler's (the little boy) life then she needed to stop going back and forth because it was unfair to everyone and that she had no reason to be calling and tyring to talk to him. She seemed to have made the decision that she was going to continue to not let Tyler and Jordan have anything to do with each other. Then, on Christmas '05 she called and put Tyler on the phone to talk to Jordan. Apparently her parents were visting her and decided that once they found out he had talked to Jordan that they should tell a five year old that the man he thought was his father wasn't and that his real Dad was in jail. Nice. That was the last time Jordan talked to Tyler which was fully Chimunk's decision.
Her parents fully support her and if they stop giving her all the money she needs to live she will not let them see her son.
Anyway after that there were one or two more calls from her trying to involve Jordan in her life and then she stopped calling.
I was fully supportive of Jordan having the little boy in his life. I wouldn't want a relationship like that taken away from either of them, especially not a little kid. This girl was just completely incappible of handling any of this maturly though. She is so selfish it's sick.
God if I had a dollar for every time people have come up to me to tell me how much Chipmunk sucks, how crazy she is, how much everyone hates her, how glad they are she's gone, well dangit I could buy a lot of MAC! Even people I don't know have felt the need to tell me these things. Oh gosh and Jordan's friend's there are no words for how much the dislike her and always have.
So the latest.... in January of '06 Chipmunk's best friend was trying to talk Jordan into having a joint Birthday party with her. I was like are you kidding, why would you do that, you know your ex will probalby drive her ass all the way down from Oregon just to turn this into a situation. He of course declined the offer for this party and guess what, she did drive her ass down here for it, thinkging we were going to be there.
So this best friend of her's moved to New Zealand where her b/f lives and is here visting for two weeks. She leaves Jordan as message on mysapce saying that she has this huge bag a of pictures that chipmunk had given her (this friend's a photog) of him and his friends (my ass, god only knows how many picutres of them are in there) that her family was supposed to get to him so she wants to see him to give them to him.
So you've been away from home for a year and you're only here for two weeks and one of your goals is to get your best friend's ex a bunch of pictures even though he sees your brother on a regular basis? These bitches are up to something and I would put a fair amount of money on what it is.
I'm quite certain that their little plan is to have Jordan meet the friend to pick up the pictures and oh look surprise who is here, Chipmunk and maybe even the little boy (which would be extra low)! Especially since I looked on her myspace and it says she is here for her engagement party, her best friend wouldn't miss that.
Jordan left the girl a message saying that her brother has his number and to have him give him the pictures.
I usually don't rant over situations like this but this one was on mine mind. This chick is just so lame. She doens't want to be with my boyfriend, she doesn't love him, she never did. She's just such an unhappy person that she doesn't want him to be happy either. The fact that we are incredibly happy I'm sure kills her.
I wouldn't normally toot my won horn to this level but this chick has every reason in the world to be jealous of me, to state it honestly, I'm better than her in every way and everyone knows it.
I think I'm going to tell Jordan that if this chick keeps trying to weasle him into meeting up for these pictures he should make a plan for us to get together with her. At least then I can make her uncofrtable. Or if she wants him to have them that badly, she can just drop em on by our house I'm home a lot more often than him and I have no problem meeting this girl.
It seriously amazes me how lame some people are :shrug: .
If anyone actually read this whole thing, thank you!
