Boyfriend's lame ex at it again

[kaliraksha]

I read this a few days ago and started commenting and then realized nothing I could say would help or hasn't been said. All I can say is she's selfish and I'm sorry you have to deal with that in your new life and sorry for your bf.

 

[frocher]

Sorry you have to go through this. She seems like a miserable person, that poor child.

 

[macslut]

Bernadette, is there any update since this thread has been brought back from the dead?

 

[CandyKisses1018]

i f**king HATE ex girlfriends and I am sure they HATE ME TOO! my boyfriend has an ex bogirlfriend that comes creepin' around every now and then.. it ticks me off and makes me laugh all at the same time.. psh. don't worry about that trick.. shes just a jealous HATER because you have the man of HER dreams clinging on to your arm.. feel good about that one!

 

[tara_hearts]

wow, i feel incredibly sad for the child. That woman shouldn't jerk him around like that. Poor kid. And you have an amazing amount of tolerence. I would have already flown off the handle and wanted to slap that woman. I can't stand for someone to try and do scheming underhanded bs to try to get together with my man.

But my opinion. There is no best option. If you meet with her like a mature adult... she's still gonna act the same after you guys leave. She's going to try to get to him somehow cause she wants you out of the picture. She probably views him as property. Maybe if you ignore any attempts of contact aka her best friend.. she will give up and find a new object of interest. I think meeting with her, talking to her etc will fuel the fire. Good luck.. I hate to see anyone in this situation..

 

[Bernadette]

Just wanted to update that after this post nothing has happened. Yay, I'm sure at some point she will attempt to pop back into the picture at some level but so far so good. Jordan and I just had our two yeard anniversary last month

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I still think of the little boy when I see kids around his age and I feel bad for him and wonder what he must think happened to Jordan. I think on some level his Mom and Grandparent's probably made him think Jordan just abandoned him. I'm sure Jordan must think about it often although he never talks about it. I know that when the little boy grows up he will see the bigger picture... it's just really sad though.
Anyway, in this situation no news is good news and I hope it stays that way!