Britney loses the kiddos!!

frocher

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This is so sad, I don't know too much about this, but it seems they both care more about themselves than those boys. In order to be a good parent the kids need to come first, kids need a lot of guidance. Too many parents treat their kids like possessions or pets.
 

Shimmer

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Originally Posted by SparklingWaves
What ticks me off is the fact there are respectable adults desperately trying to have kids and this woman is acting totally irresponsible. She has two beautiful boys that need responsible parents.

That's life though. There are other mothers just as bad, actually worse, who are breeding like rabbits, and taking far worse care of their children than those two boys got.
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I am tired of the feel sorry for her stories. Also, I don't like people blaming everyone, but her.

People from Louisiana are sick of hearing - "It's, because she is from the South". Some of the best musicians and singers came from the South. Even if they were on drugs, they still performed.

Almost all of these problems were brought on by her personal choices.

Elvis? No Show Jones? Johnny Cash?
She was never taught by anyone in her life how to be an adult. Not by anyone. It doesn't just magically happen that one day you wake up and you're 21 and you're capable of making good decisions and doing right...Not if you don't have a solid foundation for making those decisions.
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She was raised in a church, so she was taught morality.

She isn't handicapped physically.

Personally, I think this woman is a self absorbed sociopath. There are pictures of her smiling after giving her kids up on TMZ.com. I have never and will never buy anything with this woman's name on it.

Does anyone know yet, the circumstances there? Perhaps it's a brave face? *shrug*
Just because one is raised in a church (and I really question that) doesn't mean any of the lessons are absorbed.
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She has acted in an despicable fashion - showing her crotch, butt, and breasts in public. I never found that amusing.

She should have been sited for indecent exposure, but she wasn't. A man would have never gotten away with flashing his penis and butt around as much as she has her crotch and butt.

Check the indecency laws in CA.
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As far as mental illness, I have been around bipolar, major depression, and schizophrenia. None of them acted like this 24/7. She may have type of illness, but it's not totally to blame either. There is a part of this woman that is totally selfish and is responsible for this behavior.

A personality disorder is more likely - borderline or sociopathic. But again, that's not totally to blame for this outrageous behavior. She is getting something out of this.

Of course there is. She's never been taught cause and effect for her behaviour, she's never been taught empathetic understanding, she's always been on stage and hand her personality generated by whomever was handling her. Her mother, her manager, whatever.
But if you've never been taught how to cook poke sallet, you don't even know what it is, and I hand it to you and demand a meal out of it, and give you no resources with which to learn, I just tell you to jump in and cook it, what's the likelihood we're about to have some serious food poisoning?
Fairly high.
She's never been taught how to be an adult. She's never had that lesson handed to her.
This is probably, in the long run, the best thing that's ever happened to her.

I'm not saying she's not ridiculous in her behaviour, but you said she's not handicapped, and you're right, she's not physically or mentally handicapped, but functionally? Oh yes.

And that, that is all Lynn Spears' fault.
 

little teaser

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Originally Posted by janwa09
Seems like a lose-lose situation to me.

Yeah Kevin Federline may be a good father but he's also using his kids with Britney to get some money off of her. tsk tsk


i agree about him useing his kids to get $$$$$$$$ from britney, its weird how he all of a suden becomes the better parent the minute britney files for a divorce, i dont think hes a better parent at all, because driveing your ex crazy and takeing the kids away from there mom just so you can get paid isnt being the better parent imo. wasnt his alimony getting cut off in nov or something like that? hmmm
i do think britney needs help, seems like she is majorly rebelling and just doesnt seem to give a f***, which is sad.
 

little teaser

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Originally Posted by Jade
I don't think she cares all that much. I just saw pics her from lst nigh, hours after she gave the kids over to Kevin, and she seems happy, full of smiles. I think she probably sees this an an opportunity to do more partying. She's such an idiot.

i doubt very seriously that she doesnt care at all, unless she has a huge hole in her heart, im sure she was smileing on the outside and is dieing on the inside.. unless of course she isnt human, thats possible too
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Jade

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Originally Posted by little teaser
i doubt very seriously that she doesnt care at all, unless she has a huge hole in her heart, im sure she was smileing on the outside and is dieing on the inside.. unless of course she isnt human, thats possible too
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Well all I know is if I lost my kids, I wouldn't go tanning dirctly after. She handed them off awfully quick to. She had till Tomorrow(Wed) to do it, but she chose to drop them off immediately. I would want to spend every last minute with my children if I was in that situation. She just seemed so eager to dump them off. Heres her just hours after the courts ruling
http://www.tmz.com/2007/10/01/smilin...sing-kids-wtf/

If that was me, I know I would be sad that I just lost my babies. I think for her, it gives her alot more free time to party.
 

SparklingWaves

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I agree with you, Jade.

I will never believe that her mother is the sole reason for ALL of this. I know of her family, dentist, and plastic surgeon. Louisiana is a small place. Her family is catching Hell for her behavior. Her dad is not like her at all.

Her behavior is totally inappropriate on every level. Her children are showing signs of distress and neglect.
 

lipstickandhate

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I agree with Ladybug, I think she has serious depression and possibly that she is self-medicating with drugs. That dance on the VMAs, the more I think about it, was like someone who is high on narcotics trying to push through the fog.

I hope she gets better. I feel bad for anyone who hasn't yet discovered the courage to deal with mental problems.
 

Beauty Mark

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I think Britney has been spiraling out of control for so long that it's hard to say much about her mental state. I think she's very mentally off
 

BloodMittens

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Jesus. I think the kids should go to Brit's parents or something.

I miss the days when I used to think Federpoon was a horrible person and father, and now it's Britney. She's not 16 anymore, she needs to stop acting like it. If you didn't want kids, use birth control.
 

little teaser

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Originally Posted by Jade
Well all I know is if I lost my kids, I wouldn't go tanning dirctly after. She handed them off awfully quick to. She had till Tomorrow(Wed) to do it, but she chose to drop them off immediately. I would want to spend every last minute with my children if I was in that situation. She just seemed so eager to dump them off. Heres her just hours after the courts ruling
http://www.tmz.com/2007/10/01/smilin...sing-kids-wtf/

If that was me, I know I would be sad that I just lost my babies. I think for her, it gives her alot more free time to party.


ot.. but congrats on your pregnancy

idk what goes through that girls head, maybe she does have mental problems or if she is useing drugs she could be numb, but i doubt that she is walking around on cloud 9 and not haveing a care in the world.. i think she is haveing a mental break down
 

Beauty Mark

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I think that's what's kind of disturbing and fascinating at the same time. We're watching a person mentally breakdown.

She is accountable for her actions, but she doesn't appear to have had anything close to a normal childhood. I remember an interview where she admitted to having this crazy workout schedule. With that, touring, and everything else, she didn't have a real childhood. I do blame her parents, because someone should've sat down with Britney to tell her to live a normal life. Provide her some guidance, that she doesn't have to be the "Britney Spears" brand all the time.

I think she had the kids because she wanted to fill some kind of emptiness in her life. Unfortunately, she didn't realize that they wouldn't be enough.
 

MACattac

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Britney needs to give her kids up for adoption because she will be breeding them into the same kinda mess she's become. Everyone says her mother should keep them but...HER mother raised BRITNEY! K-Fed's starting to look more responsible everytime I hear Britney's name in the news!
 

dollbabybex

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as much as k-fed likes partying
he was told to stop in order to get custordy and he did
that shows a bit of responsibility.
 

Janice

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The drama is complete, now her family (aunts, cousins) from Louisiana are talking to the press. The article, but the bag in the lower left hand corner is more interesting than the story.
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aquarius11

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Originally Posted by Janice
The drama is complete, now her family (aunts, cousins) from Louisiana are talking to the press. The article, but the bag in the lower left hand corner is more interesting than the story.
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Wow, good eye there Janice! ;-) lol
 

Beauty Mark

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Originally Posted by MACattac
Britney needs to give her kids up for adoption because she will be breeding them into the same kinda mess she's become. Everyone says her mother should keep them but...HER mother raised BRITNEY! K-Fed's starting to look more responsible everytime I hear Britney's name in the news!

Well, I think it's too late to put the boys up for adoption. I'd be afraid someone exploitive would adopt them; they're so recognizable.

The thing with Britney and KFed- media is tricky. Although it's entirely possible KFed is really a better father, I wouldn't be surprised if the media is just pissed at Britney for her treatment of them and is doing things to be vindictive. That or Britney being crazy sells well.
 

little teaser

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im rooting for her, i know she isnt perfect and made some mistakes that she is now paying for.. i do belive she will get her kids back from that jobless s.o.b.
 
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