I agree with all thee above. Don't give him the satisfaction of contacting him. What's that saying? Fool me once.. shame on you fool me twice..shame on me fool me three times?? You know the one... I think any break up is hard to get over, weather it ended mutually or not. My ex recently contacted me after three years only to proove to me that I made the right decision. Don't let yourself go back there. Move on... and your right it does take time, but there is someone better out there! And meanwhile enjoy the single life! Forget about this guy!!