IDontKnowMomo
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V15U4L_3RR0R
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Get a wonderbra girl! lol No you should be proud of your body shape no matter what. Boobs aren't the most important thing in the world and believe me, guys (and girls) tend to notice them no matter what size they are.
There's this woman who works in a shop that I know and she's only an A cup but I sure as hell notice them
. Don't worry so much eh? Keep telling yourself that you are beautiful and don't compare yourself to others. You are the only you on this planet so it's not like there's a better version of you really is there? You are the one and only you and therefor the best!
Oh and I'd just like to add that boobs come in all different shapes and sizes and they're all awesome!
There's this woman who works in a shop that I know and she's only an A cup but I sure as hell notice them
Oh and I'd just like to add that boobs come in all different shapes and sizes and they're all awesome!
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V15U4L_3RR0R
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If people are anything like me then they know that they're there
. Anyway from your picture you look like you have a nice pair. I wouldn't worry about people not noticing them. Boobs are pretty hard to miss what with them sticking out of your chest and all.
IDontKnowMomo
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xD thanks, again
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Beauty Mark
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Why do you care if your breasts are that prominent? I'm the same size as you, bra-wise (slightly shorter), and people will think you're certain ages on a myriad of criteria. The ones who count will judge your age by how you carry yourself. If you slouch and look all teenage sullen, you will look younger. If you stand up and act with grace and confidence, you will be seen as mature, as long as your language further proves that.
It sucks people think you're younger than you are (I think I could conceivably pass as middle school age if I dressed and acted a certain way), but boobs aren't the end all, be all of age indication. Most people use height to figure out age or sometimes roundness of cheeks, etc. Very rarely do I hear of anyone considering breast size as an indicator of one's age
From your photo, you're not Pam Anderon but it's obviously you aren't flat either.
It sucks people think you're younger than you are (I think I could conceivably pass as middle school age if I dressed and acted a certain way), but boobs aren't the end all, be all of age indication. Most people use height to figure out age or sometimes roundness of cheeks, etc. Very rarely do I hear of anyone considering breast size as an indicator of one's age
From your photo, you're not Pam Anderon but it's obviously you aren't flat either.
Shimmer
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Find lingerie that makes you feel pretty. Feeling pretty keeps you positive.
Workout, running, climbing, whatever, it will make you feel positive and confident.
Originally Posted by IDontKnowMomo
First off, I'll just go ahead and say that I already know I have major insecurity issues. For as long as I can remember, I haven't liked the way I look. It's just this one thing that has been bugging me recently :/ I wear a 32C-D sized bra, but I'm convinced nobody can tell. I'm very tiny, 5' and 95-105 pounds, I know I have curves, but I'm really self concious about the fact that I don't think anybody can tell. uggh, I don't even know why this matters to me so much, but lately it's all I can think about. any suggestions on how to keep my opinion about the way I look a little more positive? anybody else feel the same way? Please Share!!! PS- not sure if I put this in the right place :[ feel free to direct me if it isn't, and sorry about that. |
Find lingerie that makes you feel pretty. Feeling pretty keeps you positive.
Workout, running, climbing, whatever, it will make you feel positive and confident.
TangoMango
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Aww, you sound like me. I'm a short and skinny girl but I have a 32DD chest, but my friends think I'm a B cup. I notice that you said you're nearly 18 but look younger. Having your breast more prominent won't necessarily make you seem older, I've seen 12 year olds with massive breasts!
I'm 18 and I get confused for a 14 or 15 year old all the time, but I don't let it bother me anymore. When you and I get older, we'll be looking like 20 year olds, but actually be 40 something!
*Ugh, I'm such a cougar-in-training, sometimes.*
I'm 18 and I get confused for a 14 or 15 year old all the time, but I don't let it bother me anymore. When you and I get older, we'll be looking like 20 year olds, but actually be 40 something!
*Ugh, I'm such a cougar-in-training, sometimes.*
COBI
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Oh, now I see, it is more of a perceived age rather than breast thing.
As others have said, it has more to do with how you carry yourself and present yourself as opposed to being sure that people are aware of your physical development.
Stand tall.
Get a mature haircut and makeup style (if you don't already have one.)
And finally, hope that you being mistaken for being younger is a "curse" that follows you into old age.
| Originally Posted by IDontKnowMomo
That certainly isn't, it's just I'm so little that I don't want people to think I'm 10 when I'm nearly 18 :/ |
Oh, now I see, it is more of a perceived age rather than breast thing.
As others have said, it has more to do with how you carry yourself and present yourself as opposed to being sure that people are aware of your physical development.
Stand tall.
Get a mature haircut and makeup style (if you don't already have one.)
And finally, hope that you being mistaken for being younger is a "curse" that follows you into old age.
IDontKnowMomo
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:] that's one way to think about it.
Thanks!!!
Thanks!!!
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SparklingWaves
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There is nothing wrong with you. You aren't invisible. You don't need others approval. You don't have to meet a certain standard. You are perfect just the way you are.
These words need to come from within you. Start telling yourself this now and you will save yourself a lifetime of pain.
These words need to come from within you. Start telling yourself this now and you will save yourself a lifetime of pain.
Beauty Mark
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Do you carry yourself with confidence? Generally speaking, older, more mature people have an air of confidence. Youth is kind of immature and seems- giggly, cutesy. It's like comparing Drew Barrymore when she was in her 20s to Catherine Zeta-Jones.
aziajs
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Hmmm....well, as for the breast issue I can assure you that people see them. Even if no one says anything or you don't notice anyone looking I am sure that they can see them. But, if you'd like them to be more prominent then wear clothes that draw more focus to the area.
I do agree with the other ladies that it's just about feeling good about yourself. Whatever it takes, within reason, to get you there will be worth it. I like Shimmer's idea of finding lingerie that makes you feel good.
I do agree with the other ladies that it's just about feeling good about yourself. Whatever it takes, within reason, to get you there will be worth it. I like Shimmer's idea of finding lingerie that makes you feel good.
CandyKisses1018
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uhh.. ok you are almost 18 and you are C? I am 19 and I am still a 32B. be happy! I wish I had huge ones! but it's all about how you carry yourself, you gotta work with what you have. I'm happy with what i look like you should be too.
bebs
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I'm almost 22 and look wise I get told I look like in high school when I'm in jeans and a tee shirt and in a really laid back mood and "slumming it" with friends, and when I carry my self differently at work and am dressed in nice jeans, or a skirt and a shirt I get told I pass off as at least 26 - 27 just because of the way I speak. but its all on how you carry your self, and the language that you use, and at times when I'm hyper and excited my husband says I'm worse then a six year old that had to many pixie sticks.
your chest size like said before doesn't tell your age. I was in fourth and fifth grade and I was wearing a 32c bra.
the best line I've ever read was "fake it until you make it" you fake that confidence until it becomes real. tell your self something until you believe it and it will be true because you will be carrying your self differently. the only way to get it down is to practice it.
your chest size like said before doesn't tell your age. I was in fourth and fifth grade and I was wearing a 32c bra.
the best line I've ever read was "fake it until you make it" you fake that confidence until it becomes real. tell your self something until you believe it and it will be true because you will be carrying your self differently. the only way to get it down is to practice it.
