Cleavage

[Enkuli]

I had boobs when I was 12 years old. I thought they were huge and only wanted to get rid of them. Boys on my class sure didn’t help me when they called me whore and silicon bitch. Well anyway, I was thinking my boobs were huge but they just kept growing until I was size D. Then I started putting on weight and my breast grew to size E. Now I’m 22 years old and I just lost weight 20kg and finally my boobs are back to “smaller”. I always hated my curves and the way I was treated because of my breasts. There is nothing more annoying at the bar than a drunken dude coming on to you with his face inch away from you breasts. So I have cleavage and now I’m proud of it. Still there are moments when I hope for smaller breasts. I think the point is that the grass isn’t more green on the other side. We are all pretty just the way we are.

 

[stjarna]

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Originally Posted by IDontKnowMomo First off, I'll just go ahead and say that I already know I have major insecurity issues. For as long as I can remember, I haven't liked the way I look. It's just this one thing that has been bugging me recently :/ I wear a 32C-D sized bra, but I'm convinced nobody can tell. I'm very tiny, 5' and 95-105 pounds, I know I have curves, but I'm really self concious about the fact that I don't think anybody can tell. uggh, I don't even know why this matters to me so much, but lately it's all I can think about. any suggestions on how to keep my opinion about the way I look a little more positive? anybody else feel the same way? Please Share!!! PS- not sure if I put this in the right place :[ feel free to direct me if it isn't, and sorry about that.

I know exactly how you feel but in the opposite way kind of. Im a A-B 26 and i feel like NO ONE notices my boobs and im 5'10" and 120 lbs..i have no curves, im like a stick..so i feel like theres no movement there to allow anyone to notice them. i wear low cut shirts and they still look non existent to me!
It's so instilled in my mind now on a regular basis, i hate wearing shirts and it takes me like an hour to find something i feel somewhat okay with because i feel like i look smaller with every shirt i wear.

I hate it!

 

[hello_kitty]

I have a B cup, although A bras fit me fine... and it took me forever to get them to look well. It just took a couple good bras, and wah la! And just accepting them. But definitely the right bras can help out.

What really sucks is wearing a string bikini top with B boobies... modeling next to girls with massive D+ implants wearing the same top... makes it look like mine disappeared.

I have some awesome pics taken on the same day that's like No Boobies and Big Boobies, and it all depended on what I was wearing.

 

[Joslyn]

i got jipped in the boobie department. my mom is a DD, and i am a NEARLY A! nearly! big ta tas, where are you? i'm 22, and i gave up hope a few years ago on them getting any larger, so i just decided to go and find a fantastic bra.

i look for one with padding AND push-up. wonderbras are seriously wonderful. everytime i wear my wonderbra my friends say, "your boobs look big!" and i'm like, "YESSSS!" haha.

 

[saj20052006]

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Originally Posted by V15U4L_3RR0R Get a wonderbra girl! lol No you should be proud of your body shape no matter what. Boobs aren't the most important thing in the world and believe me, guys (and girls) tend to notice them no matter what size they are. There's this woman who works in a shop that I know and she's only an A cup but I sure as hell notice them . Don't worry so much eh? Keep telling yourself that you are beautiful and don't compare yourself to others. You are the only you on this planet so it's not like there's a better version of you really is there? You are the one and only you and therefor the best! Oh and I'd just like to add that boobs come in all different shapes and sizes and they're all awesome!

Oh yeah, they know their there. I use to be your size about 14 years ago and felt the same way you did, well now I'm a 36D with major curves and I absolutely hate the looks I get from men and women, I'm now wishing I was were I was 14 years ago. People look regardless what size you are, if they see something they like their looking.

 

[Honey B. Fly]

wonderbras add freaking like 2 cups sizes to mine, sometimes i feel so fake wearing one but they r perfect if u want boobie attention haha i wear a 34c

im actually starting to like the no bra look, i find myself buying tops/dresses with a xtra layer of lining so that i dont need a bra, ive always been a pushup bra freak too

 

[dollbabybex]

why dont you focus on a part you like...

i have good boobs but hate my legs

some people have a toned belly but flabby arms etc...

just draw the attention to your best bits

 

[Krasevayadancer]

I can kind of relate to your situation but in a different way. I am a 28 gg and have recently started to see my size as a problem (im 5'2'' and 115 lbs). I find that I am very protective of my chest in a way. I even get mad when people don't believe my size is what it is, or when they think they have bigger boobs than me (and ladies do compare)

I find that coming to terms with your size and appreciating what you have goes a long way. If you feel like they are hidden and you want them apparent, then wear tops that show them off if that makes you comfortable.

Don't feel bad for feeling the way you do, there are others. I like what shimmer said about the pretty lingerie as i find that good and well fitting bras make a huge difference in how i perceive myself.

If you need to talk I am here for you

 

[Cosmopolitics]

My younger sister is roughly the same size as you and she says the exact same things. I keep telling her the opposite, that "no, Laura, you are NOT flat-chested", "no, Laura, you do not belong in the Itty Bitty Titty Committee", and "Find a bra that flatters and fits correctly." She claims she's a 34B when, one, there's no way she wears a 34 band size, and two, she's always talking about the chest area being too small.

Confidence is key. I used to get hung up on what everyone else thought of my body. That, in turn, lowered my self-esteem. Nowadays, I really don't give a hoot what anyone else has to say (compliments are nice though). I don't care what negative things people have to say about my body because, really, those people are probably those insecure with themselves.

Also, the right bra will boost confidence, too. Find some pretty,well-fitting lingerie -- it always boosts my confidence, even though I'm a hard-to-find size (30C/D). I got two pretty bras from Figleaves the other day and they made me feel so, well, awesome.

 

[chocolategoddes]

I'm not sure what you're asking. You want people to notice your boobs? Okay. There are tasteful ways you can dress to flaunt your boobies. scoop neck tops, empire waist (?), and wrap around dresses add extra curve. I am a 32G and I'm sure people notice. :0

 

[kristina ftw!]

Boobs are in no way an indicator of how old you are. I was a D-cup by the time I was 11, and now, at 16, I am a 26/28 F/G, depending on the bra. I REALLY don't think you should be concerned, at all.

 

[IDontKnowMomo]

err, some people took this post the wrong way.
I was just wondering if anybody else feels the same way, and how they make themselves feel more comfortable.
I wasn't asking how to make them more noticeable or how to look older, just looking to talk about it with somebody.

thanks girls :]

 

[Babylard]

you sound like you have a nice set of knockers! maybe you can try to cheat with extra padded bras or push up bras with padding.

i'm only b-c depending on the bra so i have to kind of cheat. they are more comfy too and i don't have to worry about nipples LOL Instead of larger boobs, i'll be happy with longer legs! i'm so unproportioned. i have a long back but short stubby legs!

you are beautiful, don't worry