Did I make a mistake?

[shootout]

Not trying to bring back a dead thread, but I'm having another issue.

I took everyone's advice, and finally ended it with the boyfriend. The second I did it I knew I made the right choice. As I said before, he broke up with me three times, and each time I quietly let him go. As soon as I broke up with him, he completely threw a fit. I asked him why he had been ignoring every attempt I made to contact him for nearly a week, and he made up some BS story about how he was in the hospital. I asked him why he was in there 5 TIMES, and still never got an answer. Keep in mind I had to do this over the phone, because he refused to come over here or let me go there.

I got a call from a friend about 3 hours later, telling me he hooked up with some new chick. This is the same girl who tried to get with him EVERY SINGLE TIME HE BROKE UP WITH ME. She has wanted him ever since we started dating. Of course I was upset about being replaced in three hours, but I just told myself to move on and that he wasn't worth any more of my tears.

Ever since they got together, this girl has been keeping tabs on me, harassing me on myspace, pretty much everything she can do to get to me.

Should I be flattered that she's so intimidated by me, or should I confront her about the whole thing? I'm still hoping the ex and I can save our friendship, and I know going after her will probably ruin all chances of that, but at the same time, I find it incredibly creepy.

 

[foxxylatina07]

Wow unbelievable. This guy is too much. I'm glad you gave him the boot. To be honest he didn't deserve you at all. Trust me I should know I was dealing a long time ago with an inconsiderable asshole. He only wanted to see me when it was convinient to him. I went through hell and back crying my eyes out for him and you know what I got in return? NOTHING!! He didn't give 2 f-u-c-k-s about me.
What you went through with this guys reminds me of what I went through. If I'm you I wouldn't worry about him. Let Karma deal with him. You'll see it's gonna come and bite him in the ass. But by then it'll be too late. Maybe months, years who knows and then he'll be saying sorry and wanting you back. But by then you have moved on to somebody wayyyyy better than him.
If he would've cared about you he would've given you his face that way you guys could've talked. However, since he didn't that's to show you that he never really cared about your feelings or you and that he was already with somebody else that's why he didn't want you to show up.
Shit I would've been the crazy bitch and showed up whether he wanted to or not and confront him there. This makes me mad as hell because guys prefer to leave us for trash instead of trying to make it work with a good woman.
That's why when the girl plays their ass that's good for them and I don't feel the least bit sorry for them at all. They got themselves into that one not my problem.
Oh and about the stalking I would block her on myspace and delete him from your page. About the guy you met in the elevator don't worry he'll pop up eventually. Sorry for the long post. HTH

 

[kaliraksha]

I've been where you are with the new gf being so incredibly threatened yet I had no contact with him anymore. The only piece of advice I can tell you... is please don't stoop to her level. You will feel so much better about the situation and she will look so much more paranoid.

Congrats on ending it with your only-when-its-convenient boyfriend! I say this is good news, you'll see in due time. Please tell us when attractive-elevator-man comes back into your life... and make sure you ask him out this time! He will probably assume you're still taken.

 

[kaliraksha]

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Originally Posted by X4biddenxLustX Wow, your situation is very similar to the "relationshit" with me and this one guy.

I have to ask was "relationshit" on purpose or was it a Freudian slip?

 

[Mizz.Coppertone]

Never start a new thing with any guy, until u end ur current relationship. Your new guy will know u already have a bf, and if things go well & get serious, he will always have the fact that u cheated with him in his mind, and then he'll think ur gonna do the same to him. You shouldn't trust a man who'd be with a girl who's cheating on her man either.

 

[TISH1124]

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Originally Posted by shootout Should I be flattered that she's so intimidated by me, or should I confront her about the whole thing? I'm still hoping the ex and I can save our friendship, and I know going after her will probably ruin all chances of that, but at the same time, I find it incredibly creepy.

As much as it bothers you I would not give them the satisfaction of thinking I care....I wouldn't confront her or him let them have each other. if you see her tell her congrats and act like you could care less and the same with him... I'm sure they both hope it bothers you and want to know if it does ...don't give them what they want...Step over the trash and keep it moving....

 

[BeccalovesMAC]

^^^ yea what she said. U are too fucken adorable to be putting with that douche and his new gf.