X4biddenxLustX
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I hope I dont sound like a weirdo by posting this but im just sooo pissed off over this that i need to get it off my chest. A few days ago i went to exchange christmas gifts with a friend at her house. I consider her mom as a second mom to me so I ended up giving her a hug too when she first seen me and she told me she got a cut on her finger and was checking the back of my outfit to see if she may of gotten any blood on there which she didn't. So i wasn't really worried about that afterwards as I went home later on and didn't notice any stains on it either.
Fast forward to tonight, while eating dinner i notice a purpleish colored stains on the side of my purse which i brought with me on the gift exchange night. I asked my mom what she thought it was and she just chalked it up to being a stain from paint or a candy bar. Me, not convinced I go to my bedroom and sprays the stained areas with 70% alcohol and clorox anywhere spray and the purple stains turn bright RED. as in blood red!! i knew for sure it wasn't my blood or anyone in my family's as none of us had cut ourselves recently so it had to of been my friends mom. Now I'm not blaming her cause it wasn't like she intentionally decided to get blood on my purse. But i do freak out and go straight to my own mom and tell her its blood and its not from me and that i dont know wat to do. She doesn't even show any slight concern over that like wtf?!!! Like are you serious?! There could be so many things in blood especially if its not your own, you never know what someone else might have. And yes, I am one of those people who freak out over bodily fluids but I think I have every reason to. Plus theres a nasty dark blood stain on my purse. Frustrated, I asked if i could get gloves which she refused to give me. So i had to try to clean this out with my bare hands, bleach, antibacterial soap, hydrogen peroxide, special maximum strength cleaning spray, and laundry detergent all with a little old toothbrush. I was probably scrubbing for almost and hour and just getting super angry with the whole situation and the fact that the stain wasn't coming out to well and finally ask my mom who was the one who bought me the purse as a gift if I could just throw it away feeling as if me scrubbing away for a few more hours wouldn't make a damn difference. She tells me no and to just bleach it and it'll come out all with the same non concerned at all tone she had in the beginning. I go and do more scrubbing with different solutions the stain fades a bit but not enough to satisfy me all the while my face is getting redder with anger. At this point my hands are getting irritated from the cleaning solutions and I start shouting all the while being ignored from my mom. She didn't even offer to help or give me anymore solutions on how to clean it. She's just sitting there watching her stupid chinese soap operas which drive me insane cause at that moment its like thats ALL she cares about. So finally out of complete utter failure and frustration i just put the purse in a bag and go outside and toss it out. Still absolutely no word or reaction from her! It just seemed to her to be no big deal that i had some other persons whose health background i have no knowledge abouts blood on one of my things and that I could of been exposed to. It's really funny because she takes so many precautions when it comes to sharing food, eating utensils, and towels being shared by others.
Sorry this was a lonnnnng post but I hope I'm not the only person who freaks over blood/bodily fluids and find this whole situation annoying and hypocritical.
Fast forward to tonight, while eating dinner i notice a purpleish colored stains on the side of my purse which i brought with me on the gift exchange night. I asked my mom what she thought it was and she just chalked it up to being a stain from paint or a candy bar. Me, not convinced I go to my bedroom and sprays the stained areas with 70% alcohol and clorox anywhere spray and the purple stains turn bright RED. as in blood red!! i knew for sure it wasn't my blood or anyone in my family's as none of us had cut ourselves recently so it had to of been my friends mom. Now I'm not blaming her cause it wasn't like she intentionally decided to get blood on my purse. But i do freak out and go straight to my own mom and tell her its blood and its not from me and that i dont know wat to do. She doesn't even show any slight concern over that like wtf?!!! Like are you serious?! There could be so many things in blood especially if its not your own, you never know what someone else might have. And yes, I am one of those people who freak out over bodily fluids but I think I have every reason to. Plus theres a nasty dark blood stain on my purse. Frustrated, I asked if i could get gloves which she refused to give me. So i had to try to clean this out with my bare hands, bleach, antibacterial soap, hydrogen peroxide, special maximum strength cleaning spray, and laundry detergent all with a little old toothbrush. I was probably scrubbing for almost and hour and just getting super angry with the whole situation and the fact that the stain wasn't coming out to well and finally ask my mom who was the one who bought me the purse as a gift if I could just throw it away feeling as if me scrubbing away for a few more hours wouldn't make a damn difference. She tells me no and to just bleach it and it'll come out all with the same non concerned at all tone she had in the beginning. I go and do more scrubbing with different solutions the stain fades a bit but not enough to satisfy me all the while my face is getting redder with anger. At this point my hands are getting irritated from the cleaning solutions and I start shouting all the while being ignored from my mom. She didn't even offer to help or give me anymore solutions on how to clean it. She's just sitting there watching her stupid chinese soap operas which drive me insane cause at that moment its like thats ALL she cares about. So finally out of complete utter failure and frustration i just put the purse in a bag and go outside and toss it out. Still absolutely no word or reaction from her! It just seemed to her to be no big deal that i had some other persons whose health background i have no knowledge abouts blood on one of my things and that I could of been exposed to. It's really funny because she takes so many precautions when it comes to sharing food, eating utensils, and towels being shared by others.
Sorry this was a lonnnnng post but I hope I'm not the only person who freaks over blood/bodily fluids and find this whole situation annoying and hypocritical.
