Chikky
Well-known member
Ok, I have NO idea why that song came into my head, but it did.
Here's my issue:
I love my guy. Really, I do (though he drives me crazy sometimes, but don't they all?).
We started having intercourse in October, and while I want to do it with him... I just don't know how I feel about it. Like, I can't orgasm from intercourse, I have to... help myself along. And then I feel like either he feels bad because I can't, or I take too long.
So, how long is the average time do you think? Sometimes I feel like he is... I don't know, it's hard to explain. Like I'm not good, or something. I don't have any experience; he's my first. And I'm definitely not his first (there's a bit of an age gap) so I wonder how I rank. I wish I were better at this... More mindblowing or something, hehe.
Just dont know if it's because we've been 'us' for so long that alot of the 'hands all over each other' waits for a WEEK or more before happening sometimes, or I'm ruining it because I'm bad at the sex.
Any comments?
And PS - Cosmo just makes you feel worse about yourself, and yet I continue to read it...
Here's my issue:
I love my guy. Really, I do (though he drives me crazy sometimes, but don't they all?).
We started having intercourse in October, and while I want to do it with him... I just don't know how I feel about it. Like, I can't orgasm from intercourse, I have to... help myself along. And then I feel like either he feels bad because I can't, or I take too long.
So, how long is the average time do you think? Sometimes I feel like he is... I don't know, it's hard to explain. Like I'm not good, or something. I don't have any experience; he's my first. And I'm definitely not his first (there's a bit of an age gap) so I wonder how I rank. I wish I were better at this... More mindblowing or something, hehe.
Just dont know if it's because we've been 'us' for so long that alot of the 'hands all over each other' waits for a WEEK or more before happening sometimes, or I'm ruining it because I'm bad at the sex.
Any comments?
And PS - Cosmo just makes you feel worse about yourself, and yet I continue to read it...