Shimmer
Well-known member
If it itches, I can't can't can't wear it. I'll seriously be in the middle of a court date or church meeting or driving down the road and not be able to take it anymore, and, if necessary, excuse myself to take it off and stuff it in my purse so I can be comfortable and NOT ITCH. Itchy clothes make me fidget like no one's business.
Comfort is number ONE for me...and if I have to spend more money to have comfort, okay, if I can find something in the 'cheap' section for less money, even better, but if it's not comfortable, I don't care how pretty it is, i'm not wearing it.
Lingerie is gorgeous and sexy and that's great and all, and it's a fantastic boost to the self esteem, but if it's pretty and itches? There's NOTHING sexy about itching. Nothing. Nothing sexy about picking at yourself or fidgeting because your clothes are scratchy.
Pretty doesn't always mean sexy.
Sexy isn't about clothes, it's about confidence. There was a girl at the gym last night, picking up her brother or son, I'm not sure which...anyway, she had on a tank top and board shorts and flip flops and she was freaking sexy as hell. Sleek ponytail, aviator shades, fantastic muscle tone, and wearing gym clothes...but literally no one in the gym could take their eyes off her...male or female.
It was her carriage, not the 89 dollar lacy bra she might have been hiding under the tank, and the 102 dollar thong she might have been wearing under her gym shorts. (I happen to know that she was wearing a sports bra and boy shorts under there but anyway...)
My point is that clothes, underthings or over, don't define sexy. Our carriage and who we are defines sexy.
Comfort is number ONE for me...and if I have to spend more money to have comfort, okay, if I can find something in the 'cheap' section for less money, even better, but if it's not comfortable, I don't care how pretty it is, i'm not wearing it.
Lingerie is gorgeous and sexy and that's great and all, and it's a fantastic boost to the self esteem, but if it's pretty and itches? There's NOTHING sexy about itching. Nothing. Nothing sexy about picking at yourself or fidgeting because your clothes are scratchy.
Pretty doesn't always mean sexy.
Sexy isn't about clothes, it's about confidence. There was a girl at the gym last night, picking up her brother or son, I'm not sure which...anyway, she had on a tank top and board shorts and flip flops and she was freaking sexy as hell. Sleek ponytail, aviator shades, fantastic muscle tone, and wearing gym clothes...but literally no one in the gym could take their eyes off her...male or female.
It was her carriage, not the 89 dollar lacy bra she might have been hiding under the tank, and the 102 dollar thong she might have been wearing under her gym shorts. (I happen to know that she was wearing a sports bra and boy shorts under there but anyway...)
My point is that clothes, underthings or over, don't define sexy. Our carriage and who we are defines sexy.
