I agree. If he's that intimate with his ex, and he's not letting you in on it, then it's obvious that she still have some grip on him. You'll need to confront him before it gets worse. It's only been a month, and it's more worthwhile to find how trustworthy he is sooner rather than later.
he still hangs out w/ ex gf
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macheaven
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and then he was like, you should've came. and i told him oh ok, like that's not awkward. im really gonna be fast friends with your ex...
....and u know what else his ex wrote in his facebook from a while back. :brace yourself: we should go to canada this christmas break! CAnada, as in her hometown. WTF!
....and u know what else his ex wrote in his facebook from a while back. :brace yourself: we should go to canada this christmas break! CAnada, as in her hometown. WTF!
hhunt2
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I didn't read everyones comments but...
It doesn't matter if you are "exclusive" or not. You guys like eachother?! Right?
There's a reason why they still talk (whether it's the friendly relation with her brother or not)... maybe he still loves/likes her?
I understand when former couples have children together, they stay in eachother's speed dial. But your guy seems to be up to no-good.
I say stay away from him, it will just cause more emotional stress and pain for you (currently and down the road).
There's so many guys in the world, date around more. The right one (who doesnt have an ex hanging around) will come your way! Trust me; trust the people with experience.
P.S: From experience, I've learned that "exs" are ex's for a reason and they will never change! So I stay away from my ex's; get rid of all the pics, delete contact #, delete email addresses, stay away from places he hangs around at, stay away from online places he frequents (Myspace?), etc.
I just sum up the experience in my head to make me a better person.
(Example:
Experience: Ex smoked weed A LOT.
Lesson Learned: I will never date weed smokers ever again; they are all the same-- Chinky eye'd losers.)
I guess your "guy" doesn't understand what the word "ex" means.
It doesn't matter if you are "exclusive" or not. You guys like eachother?! Right?
There's a reason why they still talk (whether it's the friendly relation with her brother or not)... maybe he still loves/likes her?
I understand when former couples have children together, they stay in eachother's speed dial. But your guy seems to be up to no-good.
I say stay away from him, it will just cause more emotional stress and pain for you (currently and down the road).
There's so many guys in the world, date around more. The right one (who doesnt have an ex hanging around) will come your way! Trust me; trust the people with experience.
P.S: From experience, I've learned that "exs" are ex's for a reason and they will never change! So I stay away from my ex's; get rid of all the pics, delete contact #, delete email addresses, stay away from places he hangs around at, stay away from online places he frequents (Myspace?), etc.
I just sum up the experience in my head to make me a better person.
(Example:
Experience: Ex smoked weed A LOT.
Lesson Learned: I will never date weed smokers ever again; they are all the same-- Chinky eye'd losers.)
I guess your "guy" doesn't understand what the word "ex" means.
Amber*Christine
Well-known member
Personally, (not relating to the origional poster situation), but I think it's ridiculous to demand a new b/f or g/f stop seeing their ex. I have exes who have become good friends and I wouldn't want to not have them in my life just because my new b/f is too insecure. Insecurity is a VERY unattractive trait to have, and if I had to deal with insecure crap already in the begining of a relationship it'd really turn me off and make me resentful of my new partner. I also have a few exes who I was close to but am not allowed to even speak with, according to their new g/fs, I can only imagine it's because of pathetic jealously. It's hurtful and uncalled for seeing as how they were dear to me and I hadn't had any intention of wooing them back again at all. Every b/f I've had was welcome to chat w/ their ex, hang out w/ their ex and hell we even partied w/ their exes! Personally I think lifes too short to lose out on a good friendship and if any man of mine told me to cut those relationships out of my life I'd tell him to fuck off.
BeccalovesMAC
Well-known member
if it bothers u,let him know. If he doesn't do anything about it, replace his ass. Too many dicks in the world to be hung up on one that isn't into u. My opinion. Your still young and sounds like u like him.
BeccalovesMAC
Well-known member
lmao @ I'm still friends with my ex...Amber Christine your fucken hilarious. I bet ur like 17 right
Fataliya
Well-known member
I didn't have to read anything beyond the title to say:
No. HELL no. FUCK NO, no fucking way.
He'd be my ex the first fucking time he tried that shit. It's about respect, and hanging out and drinking/partying with someone you used to HAVE SEX WITH, it's not showing you respect.
No. HELL no. FUCK NO, no fucking way.
He'd be my ex the first fucking time he tried that shit. It's about respect, and hanging out and drinking/partying with someone you used to HAVE SEX WITH, it's not showing you respect.
Moofy
Member
Yeah, the guy sounds like bad news. You deserve someone better than a guy who pukes on himself at his ex's house! You'll only feel worse about it if things get more serious between the two of you. And if she's implying that they go away together over Christmas, that is so NOT COOL I can't even say! You don't go away for Christmas with your ex, that's just absurd.
Let him know how you feel about it, if he doesn't understand then I think you're better off without him.
Let him know how you feel about it, if he doesn't understand then I think you're better off without him.
