kimmy
Well-known member
at the risk of dragging this out too much, i've been in one relationship and it ended pretty badly. before it ended, it wasn't existing in a very good, healthy way either. that's the history, here's the problem:
since then i haven't been able to get attached to a guy at all. i try, i really try..to make these guys mean something, but for some reason they just don't.
i feel like such a man (sorry for the blatant sexism right there) because i find myself saying "i'm not looking for anything serious" alot lately. i know i'm young and i don't need a boyfriend or anything, but it's a little concerning to me how impossible attachment seems to be now.
is this normal after getting out of a long relationship?
since then i haven't been able to get attached to a guy at all. i try, i really try..to make these guys mean something, but for some reason they just don't.
i feel like such a man (sorry for the blatant sexism right there) because i find myself saying "i'm not looking for anything serious" alot lately. i know i'm young and i don't need a boyfriend or anything, but it's a little concerning to me how impossible attachment seems to be now.
is this normal after getting out of a long relationship?