I don't know if ive responded to this topic yet... but here we go.
I used to be a member of a few popular Myspace Make up groups. I loved them, even posted a couple of fotds. Everyone on there would talk about specktra as a source for their info, of people's makeup for Sepcktra. I tried to nagvigate the site a few times, but got confused and gave up.
Last summer i said to hell with the myspace groups. The girls were just plain old catty and mean. There were always people fighting, and their was clearly an elitism in the group. The "cool kids" could do no wrong, and often jumped down your throat for the slightest thing. I was sick of it. I mean, yea it's the internet, and yes i dont know any of these people, but i'd like to go to a forum where everyone is treated pretty much the same (same level of respect anyway!) and it isnt always a huge childish catfight. Who wants to share in an atmosphere like that?! Sometimes i see memebers of the groups i was in on Spekctra. For themost part they are very quite. I think it's the "little fish in a big pond" thing at work.
I gave up those groups and decided to try Specktra out again. I found that nagivating the site wasnt as hard as i thought.. I've prety much been hoooked since last summer. I really do love this group. Everyone on here is so sweet and supportive, thats why people come here and spill their guts out! I would never have done that in the other group.
Any time any one gets out of line, they pretty much get shut down. Hell, it's happened to me! And i respect the mods for it!