I am 5'1" tall and when I was 18 years old, I used to weigh 95 lbs. Needless to say, I was thin and felt beautiful.
When I got married I gained 10 lbs and my weight stayed at 105 lbs. I still looked and felt beautiful.
When I got pregnant with my first baby in 2007, I gained a lot of weight, and became 158 lbs (My feet and hands were also swollen). My nurse told me to be careful and stop eating rice and pasta (I eat rice everyday because of my south asian heritage). I knew I was getting bigger than I should, but I was too excited about my first baby. I still listened to my nurse.
After 6 months post-partum, I lost weight and became 125 lbs. I still looked and felt a bit big.
I re-started my studies and work in September/Late July, and after 1 year-postpartum, I went down to 115 lbs.
I am struggling to lose the last 10 lbs and become 105 again. (105 lbs is my goal)
(I am still nursing my 16 month old son), so perhaps the weight is staying put because my body is in "genetic/environmental mode" and wants to keep a supply of adipocytes for "times of famine" for both mother and child. It will not let go of the 10 lbs, errr!!!
(funny because in our modern McDonald's fast food era it is hard to die of famine in Western culture
).
I know exactly where my last 10 lbs is located on my body: 2.5 lbs on each thigh, and about 2.5 lbs on my stomach and 2.5 on the behind.
Anyway, I have been trying to drink lots of water, green tea, I am making up my fasts from previous Ramadans (still got lots to go), and I started leg exercises. I have also been keeping track of what I am eating, and gave up large portions of my rice. I gave up on crunches, but my doctor said to continue them if you really want to lose the tummy weight.
I hope to restart crunches. I have been walking a lot, but not enough. Anyway, I hope to lose the 10 lbs this year!! I cannot wait till the weather gets better, I can take my son out for walks with me in his stroller. I'll power walk, and he can enjoy me exercising too! Yay!!
Please God, let the snow melt soon!
By the way, I think it is good to lose weight, not just for cosmetic purposes, but for health reasons. Especially since excess weight in females is associated with breast cancer, visceral fat around the stomach is associated with heart disease, stroke, atherosclerosis, the number 1 killer in North America is heart disease. Thus, for people criticizing us for losing weight for only our aesthetic purposes, we care about our health too darn it
!
Good luck to the rest of you ladies!
Best wishes.