Hey again girl!
DEFINITELY show me what you bought!! I am curious to see
And lol I know what you mean, I always have to limit myself when it comes to spending or I seriously will go nuts...there is no end to how much I spend sometimes it's horrible
I WISH I could wear those outfits to class, but unfortunately they're just a LITTLE too OTT for my school. You are sooo lucky you can wear whatever you want to yours! One of my favorite ones, the third one down, would be too uncomfortable to wear because the skirt is so short and walking in heels is a huge no-go! Plus the thigh highs combo, as cute as I think it is, would be seen as trashy. Strange, because girls wear skirts shorter than that all the time and show all of their legs, but they're let off the hook. Maybe I would wear it if I were walking around town shopping, or going to the mall, or something like that. I live in SUCH a conservative place it's not even funny! I know there's this whole "wear what you like and screw what other people think!" deal going on, but I still have to take my own comfort level into consideration. If I lived in NYC, maybe wearing all of those outfit combos would be normal like how they do in Sex and the City (my dream life!), but I live in the South (in the US), and trust me, it'd be uncomfortable going to office hours and talking to professors in some of those outfits!
My policy for school isn't as limited as it used to be, but I do have a few rules for myself on class days:
1)
Absolutely no heels. It's just not practical - if I could drive everywhere, I would wear them, and trust me I like heels...but walking to class in them is a different story. Even boots with heels during the winter time...they hurt my feet after 4 hours, so I don't see how I could stand wearing them for a whole day. Not to mention I can't walk in them normally! I gotta practice so I can get up to Carrie Bradshaw mastery
2)
Nothing too tight or revealing. I'd love to wear a crop top to class, but I think showing belly (even if it's just a LITTLE) or even just too much leg is not appropriate. Thigh highs can look provocative if paired with the wrong outfits, and while I don't think I put them together in a trashy way (in outfit number 3) I still wouldn't feel comfortable prancing around in them unless it's a party night. I believe what my mother says to a CERTAIN extent: "If it makes other people uncomfortable to look at you, it's probably best not to wear it." I think she meant more of in a revealing/tight way, like a mini skirt and cami, not in a creative way.
3)
Nothing too OTT. Kind of vague, since OTT is really subjective. While I refuse to stick to a basic hoo-effing-rah school t-shirt and jeans with...ugg boots or some other random and not special shoe, I am not going to parade around in little forever 21 party dresses and wildly 80s inspired combos (for example, huge oversized tie-die t-shirt with neon leggings, booties, and a side ponytail...if that floats your boat, cool, but for me, just no)...but that's what I'm wondering:
What really IS OTT?
Truely, and I hate myself a little for saying this since I love those what I put together, I think those outfits EXCEPT the equestrian and maybe the classicalist one, are OTT for class. They're either too short, too tight, or too uptight (my CEO worthy one) to wear in such a laid-back setting. While I am a business student, wearing (I hope fashionable) business attire to class, where it's supposed to be a laid back environment, even goes on to be inappropriate. I also don't want to be distracted from learning if I have to constantly pull down my mini skirt in class to make sure my undies aren't showing. I just bought the cutest mini from forever 21, but again, I fear it'll be too short to wear out, as it rides up when I walk. I have black protection shorts, but still...*Sigh* I don't want to be tugging at my clothes - that can make otherwise cute outfits atrocious.
Can you see kind of the strange, twisted, and close-minded logic a lot of people have where I live? It's annoying how I live in a free country, but it seems like society judges and criticizes me left and right for even using my clothing for an expression of self. So in the end, it isn't really free at all unless you're conforming.
It's nice to break the rules, though, which is why I'm definitely going to try to sneak in a lot of fashion tidbits in my daily attire to make SURE I don't blend in. I guess ultimately, I am still conflicted, as I don't trust my fashion taste 100%, and wouldn't know if I really would feel comfortable wearing all of my polyvore creations out into public, or if I'm just playing dress up in my own fantasy land. That, and I don't know if I'm letting other people get in the way of PREVENTING me from wearing what I love.
And I am not bashing you for saying this at all, but UGGHHH I cannot STAND Gossip Girl! I've watched the show a few times and I just can't get into it
But I do admit, some of the styles are pretty darn cute. You probably know this, but the whole "prep" attire has been around for a long time, LONG before GG popularized it. Even then, I've watched a few episodes, and Blair actually "fashion-izes" up a lot of classic prep attire. The original stuff (what I drew inspiration from for the equestrian combo, not from GG), I believe, came from England, and then Ralph Lauren drew influences from that style and thus developed his own clothing line, Polo. So, I would just hope people don't think I'm copying it from the show because I most definitely am not.
But yeah show me what you bought! And update your polyvore! lol