In the shower

[stacylynne]

What if you make the bath romantic.
EX: when he comes home from work, have a note on the fridge (or wherever), for him to go into the bathroom or have something leading him into the bathroom like rose pedals, candles, or take polaroid pics of yourself in different lingere outfits & tell him to follow the pics, etc.

Be in the tub already w/ bubbles, candles & wine. That should set the mood.

 

[stacylynne]

What if you make the bath romantic.
EX: when he comes home from work, have a note on the fridge (or wherever), for him to go into the bathroom or have something leading him into the bathroom like rose pedals, candles, or take polaroid pics of yourself in different lingere outfits & tell him to follow the pics, etc.

Be in the tub already w/ bubbles, candles & wine. That should set the mood.

 

[stacylynne]

What if you make the bath romantic.
EX: when he comes home from work, have a note on the fridge (or wherever), for him to go into the bathroom or have something leading him into the bathroom like rose pedals, candles, or take polaroid pics of yourself in different lingere outfits & tell him to follow the pics, etc.

Be in the tub already w/ bubbles, candles & wine. That should set the mood.
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[stacylynne]

What if you make the bath romantic.
EX: when he comes home from work, have a note on the fridge (or wherever), for him to go into the bathroom or have something leading him into the bathroom like rose pedals, candles, or take polaroid pics of yourself in different lingere outfits & tell him to follow the pics, etc.

Be in the tub already w/ bubbles, candles & wine. That should set the mood.
This way he has no say about bath or shower.

 

[stacylynne]

^ooops, I had comp. prob. my post posted way too many times, sorry

 

[*Stargazer*]

If he gets pissed because you get upset that stuff is falling on your feet, toss some of those bottles on his feet when he's in the shower sober. Show him how much it hurts.

 

[NicksWifey]

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Originally Posted by *Stargazer* If he gets pissed because you get upset that stuff is falling on your feet, toss some of those bottles on his feet when he's in the shower sober. Show him how much it hurts.

 

[HOneY LuSt]

tell him a nice bubble bath will turn u on more lol. let him lay in the tub and u do whatever u want on top of him....lol that way ur hair doesnt have to get wet and u can move everything out of the way while its filling up.

that is what i do cuz my man liked showers too. and i hate taking them together in any way

 

[chocolategoddes]

So, if I understand this correctly, this is a sexy shower not a "okay, i need to duck in and wash my ass" shower?

The media makes it seem like it's so simple and sexy. I'm going to say it's not like that at all.

Definitely make sure your things aren't where he could push them over. Take things slow. Huddle together if you can. Wash each other off. Heck, even sing in the shower together.

Just DON'T drop the soap!!!!

 

[MAC_Pixie04]

So the reason I don't like to shower with my boyfriend is kind of superficial...
I'm black (clearly) and I straighten my hair. So I wear a towel and a big ass plastic shower cap when I shower, unless I'm washing my hair. Because me+water=unsexy wet dog.

Unfortunately, my big ass plastic shower cap is very Mammy-style, and incredibly silly looking, but it protects my hair from the moisture and steam of the shower. I don't have the time, energy or product for that matter to let my hair get wet in the shower each time we shower together. Sometime I'll just pin it up and use my microfiber towel to keep the edges dry, but it still will get wet, and well I just can't have that.

I get what you mean; why bother trying to get in the mood in the shower when you're uncomfortable and annoyed by it anyway. I think showering after is better anyway, showering before seems pointless to me, kind of a waste of water.

I agree with the No Nookie If You Touch My Hair rule. Enforce it strictly!

 

[Jaim]

I don't like to shower with my boyfriend. When I shower, it's strictly business; washing my hair, shaving my legs and getting out! I don't need him grabbing at me when I'm trying to shave my armpits. Haha.

 

[M.A.C. head.]

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Originally Posted by MAC_Pixie04 So the reason I don't like to shower with my boyfriend is kind of superficial... I'm black (clearly) and I straighten my hair. So I wear a towel and a big ass plastic shower cap when I shower, unless I'm washing my hair. Because me+water=unsexy wet dog. Unfortunately, my big ass plastic shower cap is very Mammy-style, and incredibly silly looking, but it protects my hair from the moisture and steam of the shower. I don't have the time, energy or product for that matter to let my hair get wet in the shower each time we shower together. Sometime I'll just pin it up and use my microfiber towel to keep the edges dry, but it still will get wet, and well I just can't have that. I get what you mean; why bother trying to get in the mood in the shower when you're uncomfortable and annoyed by it anyway. I think showering after is better anyway, showering before seems pointless to me, kind of a waste of water. I agree with the No Nookie If You Touch My Hair rule. Enforce it strictly!

Giiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl throw that out the window! If he loves you as much as well suspect he does, he's not going to give two fucks if you have to wear your shower cap, you're still gonna look sexy to him. If you're still hung up on it, make taking showers together an occasional thing...like...when you just happen to need to wash your hair! LOL That way, you can have your fun, then go on and wash your hair because you needed to anyways.

As for the OP I understand, it can be hard if you have a teeny shower, that's why I stick with the every-once-in-a-while plan. I like to go into the bathroom like I have to get something and then sneak a peak, then he's like "rawr" and then I get in the shower with him and he's definitely "surprised" Hahahahahaha As for the bottle and stuff, just put them by the outside of the shower while you have some fun.

 

[NutMeg]

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Originally Posted by M.A.C. head. I like to go into the bathroom like I have to get something and then sneak a peak, then he's like "rawr" and then I get in the shower with him and he's definitely "surprised" Hahahahahaha

Lol, love that. But its an unspoken rule with me and the bf that if one of us needs to shower, you ask if the other one wants to join. We usually don't have sex due to logistical difficulties (ie he's over a foot taller than me... and someone holding and screwing another person in a shower is just asking for falling and breaking things), but we always have some intimate moments. But my hair always ends up drying sexier than it was when I went in, so I don't have to worry about that.