I got caught by the cable guy. My roomie let him in and told him to go on upstairs, thinking I was in class for the day. I wasn't.
I was using a toy, too, and reeallllllllly enjoying myself. I think he was more embarassed than me. He left, and we did not get cable upstairs that day. He came back the next day, and looked at the floor when he had to pass by me in the house, lol.
That was like 5 years ago, and my former roomate still brings it up anytime she can work it into a conversation. Good thing I have a sense of humor
Kitty, It's nothing to be ashamed of. I'm sure your roomate does it too. Hopefully, she will learn to knock before coming into your space now.