Just not that into you.....

Shoegal-fr

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Originally Posted by TISH1127
I would totally ignore him period...I would just say In a Hurry everytime he trys to say something....But? In a Hurry! Make no eye contact or just let out that annoying sigh that we do when someone is getting on our nerves followed with In a hurry

I totally agree. Forget all about the good manners you were taught. Don't consider him as somebody who deserves any kind of attention, he is not like everybody else. Ignore him completely.
 

Prinsesa

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LOL OMG!! Hahaha this guy is pathetic! This happened to me and the guy ended up telling people that HE rejected ME. Nobody believed him cause he was ugly as fuck. Lol. Not that I'm all about looks but he was this needy, obssessive & controlling etc. Im a really paranoid person when it comes to stuff like this, I usualy call the cops lol
 

blazeno.8

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Yeah, there was a guy like that at my school. I eventually got rid off him, but something tells me the main reason I was able to do it is because I graduated.
He would go to events that my dorm sponsored and start bothering everyone there trying to get my attention. He would also sit in the technology building and try to make himself very visible to all of my friends so that they'd pay attention to him and then try to drag me into his conversations. Those are just a few of the things he did... he was really annoying and invasive.
 

sayah

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Wow. He sounds "special". Maybe talk to the police if he starts more frequently again, just so he gets the hint. He really sound like something else is not going to get through.

I've met a couple of guys like that. Luckily they've all stopped when I got really evil.
 

MiCHiE

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I don't believe he's "special" at all. He's on a mission and persistent about it. But, this is what infuriates me: You see me on my own, a good head on my shoulders, working, and cleary not "easy" with a different man at my house every night. How do you assume, after seeing this, that I'm stupid enough to entertain your homeless ass talk about me being your woman?
 

Shoegal-fr

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Originally Posted by ♥MiCHiE♥
I don't believe he's "special" at all. He's on a mission and persistent about it. But, this is what infuriates me: You see me on my own, a good head on my shoulders, working, and cleary not "easy" with a different man at my house every night. How do you assume, after seeing this, that I'm stupid enough to entertain your homeless ass talk about me being your woman?

This made me laugh!! You're so right Michie!!!

Does he still bother you?
 

florabundance

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I think he's trying to get you to like him so as to validate himself. If his life has turned to shit and he feels like a failure..he's probably trying to find something positive or make something which just isn't there.
I do sort of feel sorry for him in that sense but please please PLEASE make sure he has no real psycho tendencies and won't harm either u or himself..or anyone else. I know that's dramatic of me to say, but i worry...lol

Oh and maybe talk to your next door neighbour or his gf and be like "talk to him."
 

MiCHiE

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This made me laugh!! You're so right Michie!!!

Does he still bother you?


Not as much. I'm pretty much just trying to ignore him if he's outside and I'm leavng the house, getting into my car. However, he's seen me pulling off and by the time I'm about 5 minutes away, the phone will ring. But, since I've resorted to sending the calls to VM, he calls less frequently. I may get a call every so often when he's outside smoking but it's been too cold or raining (Thank God!).

The one thing I will take away from this situation is listening to my gut feeling. The signs were all there, but because I was so concerned with someone perceiving me as a stuck up beyotch, I ignored the obvious.
 

Shoegal-fr

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But you're definitely not one!!! You know, at some point, we don't always have to pay much attention to everybody else's feelings, neurosis or psychosis or we might end up going insane!
 

Willa

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Maybe when you go out to your car, and you know he's there, you could wear sunglasses and have your Ipod on. Then ''you can't hear him''
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Freako
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MiCHiE

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LOL, Willa! I've pretended to be on the cell phone! When he spoke, I would actually start laughing or talking louder into the phone!
 

TISH1124

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Originally Posted by ♥MiCHiE♥
LOL, Willa! I've pretended to be on the cell phone! When he spoke, I would actually start laughing or talking louder!

OMG....I did this one time to a guy in the mall...I pretended I was talking on the cell phone...I was carrying on a full out conversation (with myself)...WHYYYY did it ring!! I almost died!!!
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aziajs

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I have been in a situation like that but when someone isn't playing with a full deck there is not much you can see because they are not going to hear you. I am just glad that it hasn't escalated. It does concern me that he knows where you live though and that he has been watching you because I can assure you that he hasn't stopped. :/
 

aziajs

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Originally Posted by ♥MiCHiE♥
The one thing I will take away from this situation is listening to my gut feeling. The signs were all there, but because I was so concerned with someone perceiving me as a stuck up beyotch, I ignored the obvious.

You know what? Yes, it will teach you to follow your instincts because not following mine is how I got into my situation but following them is how I got out. Just be careful.
 

aziajs

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Originally Posted by TISH1127
OMG....I did this one time to a guy in the mall...I pretended I was talking on the cell phone...I was carrying on a full out conversation (with myself)...WHYYYY did it ring!! I almost died!!!
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That's when you pretend that the call dropped and you didn't know it.

"Hello?"
"Girl, I am so mad. I was just talking and talking and you weren't even there."
"So, anyway, what was the last thing you heard?"
 

Shoegal-fr

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Originally Posted by TISH1127
OMG....I did this one time to a guy in the mall...I pretended I was talking on the cell phone...I was carrying on a full out conversation (with myself)...WHYYYY did it ring!! I almost died!!!
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OMG, one day, i was on a train with my (ex) BFF, we were like 16 years old. It was empty, there were maybe 5 or 6 persons (us included).
A man came and sat just next to us and he was on the phone saying things like "yes, baby, last night it was great, i promise it will better tonight, you know me..." bla bla bla.

And suddenly, HIS PHONE RANG !!!!

OMG, we couldn't help it, we started to burst into laughter right in his face. He ran so fast!!! One of the funniest moments of my life...
 

X4biddenxLustX

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^^ ROFL! I wonder what that guy was trying to prove with his little trick haha.

My friends and I have had our fair share of creepers as we like to call them.

The one that stands out the most would have to be an ex of mines. Now this guy was just psycho period. He'd flip out on me over something so little or I didn't have any control over (one time it was because I couldn't come out because I was sick, yes sick and he didn't even care!) and go on a screaming rampage on the phone for about 5 10 minutes before hanging up. Then I could expect a phone call a few minutes later with him apologizing and acting like NOTHING had happened. Well quite frankly, he was freaking me out and I wanted to get rid of him but thought that if I broke up with him he'd just freak and go ballistic. So I thought it would be better if I did stupid little things all the time to get him to break up with me and that would be that. So my plan worked, he did break up with me but not even a week had passed by and he wanted to get back together with me! Uhh, HELL NO. So I just told him no and that it was really over and done with and yes he completely goes ape shit on me. This goes on for a while with him regularly messaging me, he even starts to say that he's going to come to my house and stay outside until I decide to come out of the house. Or that he'd follow me whenever I would go out and yeah this is the cherry on top, that if I was out and on my way home walking he would get someone to rape me and that it wouldn't be him though doing it. Yeah, complete f*ucking psycho. So basically what happened was I called the cops on him and they for some reason made me feel like I was the criminal here but they did tell him to leave me alone. Again I thought that was that then but oh no he ended up going to the mall on the same day that I was planning on going with some friends (made the mistake of posting my daily where abouts that day on aim for my friends to meet up with me). When he saw me him and his friend CHASE me around literally. On my way out of the mall he told me that "If you have sh*t to say to me say it to my face." WTF?! Uhhh ok, just leave me alone.

Thats not the end of it though, occasionally I'd see him or his friend Adam who was with him when he chased me around the mall foodcourt around. If it was just Adam, he'd always try to act all nice to me and get me to get into his car. F*ck no dude. He would also go around telling every guy he'd meet and buddy up with everything about me. A few of the guys I actually ended up going to school with and they always ask me if I knew Jeff (the piece of sh*t's name) and would go on to tell me what he had said to them about me. And oh this is like 2 3 years after we broke up too! The last time he contacted me was after he told me he seen me at the mall or Adam had (no one approached me though so good) and wanted to know about where I got my boots at and stuff. And after telling him that I did not want to speak to him as nice as I could possibly can yes he goes crazy on me. He starts typing telling me to leave HIM alone and that I was threatening him and that he is going to save our convo and alter it and turn it into the cops and get me arrested. Okay, so there going to believe some wack ass guy with a long criminal record before the age of 18 over someone with a completely clean slate? I think not. But thank goodness that was the last time he has contacted me. Obsessive, very much?

And oh theres tons more of weirdos that me and my friends have encountered but I think this post is long enough lol. sorry if it bored you lol!
 

Fataliya

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I know you say you don't feel threatened, but I would, because of his "I've been watching your house" crap.
 

MiCHiE

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I know you say you don't feel threatened, but I would, because of his "I've been watching your house" crap.

I saw that remark as him thinking the coast was clear to hit on me, kinda like seeing I'm single and I don't have men coming and going from my house. Personally I can tell you, he hasn't been watching too much or he's seen enough...
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X4biddenxLustX

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Lol thats def good! I hate whenever you get that feeling that once they get on your ass they wont ever leave! It's like what do I have to do for you to leave me alone once and for all?!

I swear they need to make some kind of creepo repellent. I'd stock up on it! And for christmas I'll put them in all of my friends stockings haha. They've dealt with some pretty off the wall stuff too lol.
 

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