I dunno if you've gone for it yet, or are still interested?
The first time I got it done, I decided I wanted a ball captive ring rather than a stud, BIG mistake, it started to reject. It rejected to one side because of the weight of ring, and outwards too. By the time I took it out it was practically the positioning of a vertical labret!
So I went to a different piercer to say..."am I imagining this movement?" (I got it pierced in my home town, then went back to uni in another city) and she was appalled by it. Apparently its not great to get pierced with a ring, as they use a large size to accommodate for swelling, and the weight of the ring was mostly to blame for the rejection going on. My original piercer should have informed me of this, but he didn't so...there we go!
Well, I took it out after a couple of weeks, it had basically at no point healed at all while the jewelery was in.
3 weeks later, when the first hole was completely healed, the piercer in my uni town re-pierced me, this time using a bioplast (i think thats the name) post. It healed fast, and I had barely any pain through healing. The worst for me, is the anesthetic (the first time I almost didn't go through with it cos I swallowed some of the anesthetic they put inside your mouth and had a total panic because I have a huge anesthetic..."thing." It made my throat completely numb and feel all closed up and the back of my toungue swollen! ergh! Given the option I would have gone with out! blarrrrgh anesthetics *shudders* needless to say the second time I only had the freezing solution they put on the external area, and it barely hurt at all when the needle was going through!)
Now, I get irritated with it sometimes, cos it catches on my teeth and gums occasionally, but thats my own fault cos I like to wear a long bar in it. Also now its all healed i can wear rings no problem and i have done for weeks at a time, so if you fancy that for a change its an option
And I'm terrible for fiddling with it! I just cant seem to leave it alone, which makes catching more of a hazard.
So all that being said, I would definitely recommend a stud for initial piercing! its so much easier to heal IMHO!
As for peoples comments...I've had them from my family (negative that is) and it does seem to draw attention from people I don't know as well. For example, when I was out for a meal and the owner of the restaurant compared me getting my lip pierced as the same as my father slapping me in the face, but "if he did that you'd be mad, but you pay to have this done" (yep, I see the logic there...:confused
and the people that are like "ewww why have you got that done?" nine times out of ten they have their ears pierced. I find the best response is "well, why do you have ear piercings?" that usually flummoxes them.
heres a couple of pictures if you still want to see:
not the nicest picture, but you can see my lip well
when i hold my mouth normally you cant really see it...but then I guess thats just me, cos I've a miz mouth
Sorry I've written you a book! Just want to be helpful