lol! true! i want a bigger upper lip so yup we all want something we don't have! and big bow is a stunner! i love it too. the grit annoys me though, i feel like i'm exfoliating my lips when i wear it! lol!Big Bow is a tiny bit gritty, but I can deal w/ it b/c it's gorgeous. I think the key is not to layer too much.