I would first apply a cool-toned contour color, e.g. Bone Beige or Sculpt (or even Shadowy if you want to go more for a dramatic effect in the evening). Then apply the blush from the hairline downward (above the contour). You might even bring up the contour a bit upward closer to the hairline so that the blush will look slightly darker at the out edge, with full color in the center, and a gradual blending towards the nose. Build up the color as you go, but use a light hand. Follow with a cool-toned highlight, e.g. a blue-based Lightscapade or the Mineralize Sheersheen powder in Silver Aura or Lucent. I would stay away from highlighters with warmer hues. The contouring seems the most important part to make those colors work as it brings out your natural bone structure, make the blush complement your face rather than resulting in clown cheeks.