Wow. I moved to Honolulu (Red Hill/Aliamanu area) August last year (military move) and it definitely was a difference from how I lived in San Diego (I lived in Upper-Middle Class Poway).
It's definitely not the paradise I expected it to be.
I've been unemployed since I've moved out here and can't get a job for the life of me (even with 10 years experience in my line of work). And when I do find a job I'll end up with a paycut cos employers don't pay as much here.
I'm scared of going into neighborhoods I don't know because I'm not sure what I might run into.
I hate the traffic here (55 on the highway? seriously?! I'm used to doing 75 in CA!) People drive like idiots out here too (I thought CA drivers were bad. HI drivers are worse.)
Streets run funny here (to me at least) Off-ramps and On-ramps are never on the same street - so you can get some place one way, but you can't take the same way back! Frustrating!
Restaurants don't have Food Safety Grade Ratings like in California so you don't know how clean that kitchen really is. Eew.
It's ridiculously expensive to buy just about anything here. Markups are incredible! They are seriously trying to rob us! And if you have anything shipped here expect to pay more on shipping too!
Rent and utilities is expensive! A two-bedroom apartment is like $1600-$1800! Studios are like $1300! WTF?! I pay about $200 in electricity & water - nearly twice as much as I paid in CA.
On the west side of the island (along Farrington Hwy)- the beaches are full of tents of homeless people. It's like an entire community of homeless people.
There are bugs ... everywhere! The roaches are the most disgusting - they're huge and they fly and they get into every little crevice and no matter how often you try to exterminate them - they keep coming back!
I had such high hopes moving here. I thought life would be beautiful out here. Yes, I've seen a lot of beautiful things (all the touristy sights) but you have to see all the bad things in order to see the beautiful. :[
To ifugazi - If you're really considering moving here, check out everything about this island. It's not all beautiful like the view from your hotel room. I wish I had known that before we chose Pearl Harbor for our duty station.
(Sorry if I turned this into a rant - I'm obviously not satisfied with my living in Honolulu)