It looks amazing. honestly. I love the blonde on you, and I'm typically apposed to artificial blonde hair, but this suites you so very well and makes you literally glow, it looks so much more youthful and fresh. truly beautiful. As for your husband, there are two options, he either was just shocked and says things he doesn't mean when he's shocked OR he's feeling threatened cuz you look really reallly hot and he's fearing you will get much more male attention/you are too attractive for him now, which is all just his own insecurity and not an uncommon thing for men to feel when they're wives undergo a major physical transformation.