My set of rules for a man
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user6
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WOW!!! I LOVE A HAIRY MAN!! Not like a werewolf hairy, but like that rough haven't shaved a few days look, a hairy chest, you know, the stuff that makes men - men!!!!!! lol
| Originally Posted by Pascal No facial hair 
No hair on his body he must shave it all off (and I mean all of it 
No grey hair, if he gets it he must dye it black other wise he can buzz off 
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WOW!!! I LOVE A HAIRY MAN!! Not like a werewolf hairy, but like that rough haven't shaved a few days look, a hairy chest, you know, the stuff that makes men - men!!!!!! lol
sewpunk
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haha, you're both funny ^^^ in a good way.
I am married, but my ideals were that my man had to be well groomed (hair cuts, clean hand/nails, groomed brows and back of the neck), smelling good, in shape, be a good dresser and generally take care of himself, and absolutely a non-smoker.
He meets all those criteria. He's awesome. And I agree with medicred... I love a few days of stubble, so hot.
I am married, but my ideals were that my man had to be well groomed (hair cuts, clean hand/nails, groomed brows and back of the neck), smelling good, in shape, be a good dresser and generally take care of himself, and absolutely a non-smoker.
He meets all those criteria. He's awesome. And I agree with medicred... I love a few days of stubble, so hot.
-x-buttercup-x-
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Hmmm my ideal man....
*Nice muscly arms, not too bulging but good enough for strong hugs!
*A toned body is nice but I don't mind a bit of a belly, I prefer rugy player built to footballer player, nice and stocky.
*Stubble is VERY sexy
*I like lots of different types of hair, but Josh Holloway is my absolute dream guy.
*Nice teeth and a good smile, bad teeth put me off big time!
*Taller and older than me
*A great sense of humour, probably the most important, he needs to make me laugh
*Intelligent, someone who can hold their own in a discussion
*Bad boy on the outside but all mushy and sweet deep down, I love the challenge =p
*Must want to aspire to something, whether its a good job, travel, settle down etc
I could go on but i think thats enough, ooh and I can't imagine a man with NO body hair, that'd just be weird, I woudln't want my man to wax is chest, hairy backs a no no but hair anywhere else is fine
*Nice muscly arms, not too bulging but good enough for strong hugs!
*A toned body is nice but I don't mind a bit of a belly, I prefer rugy player built to footballer player, nice and stocky.
*Stubble is VERY sexy
*I like lots of different types of hair, but Josh Holloway is my absolute dream guy.
*Nice teeth and a good smile, bad teeth put me off big time!
*Taller and older than me
*A great sense of humour, probably the most important, he needs to make me laugh
*Intelligent, someone who can hold their own in a discussion
*Bad boy on the outside but all mushy and sweet deep down, I love the challenge =p
*Must want to aspire to something, whether its a good job, travel, settle down etc
I could go on but i think thats enough, ooh and I can't imagine a man with NO body hair, that'd just be weird, I woudln't want my man to wax is chest, hairy backs a no no but hair anywhere else is fine
Shimmer
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Indeed.
Physically speaking, I'm not fond of body hair either, nor am I attracted to men close to my height, however, one of the men in my life that if I weren't already married, I'd definitely pursue is 2 inches taller than me, and I don't care. He's a man of better caliber than I'd likely ever find elsewhere, other than my husband.
I've found that when we get too caught up in the physical we forget what is important...and that's how we treat each other and how we relate to each other.
Granted, standards are important, but so is being deeper than a parking lot puddle.
| Originally Posted by Tyester Geez you ladies have some high standards... And I still say that after more than qualifying for most of them. But I can't really gripe, since I have pretty decent list of standards for my perfect woman. |
Indeed.
Physically speaking, I'm not fond of body hair either, nor am I attracted to men close to my height, however, one of the men in my life that if I weren't already married, I'd definitely pursue is 2 inches taller than me, and I don't care. He's a man of better caliber than I'd likely ever find elsewhere, other than my husband.
I've found that when we get too caught up in the physical we forget what is important...and that's how we treat each other and how we relate to each other.
Granted, standards are important, but so is being deeper than a parking lot puddle.
Willa
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Taller than me
Bigger than me, Im not a ''petite''
If we share the same music type, its a big turn on
Soft hands
Brown/black hair
Not too much facial hair
He must be able to support my bad temper... LOL
Strong man, physically and intellectualy(?)
Non-smoker, white teeths please, or at least not yellow...
A nice fashion style, I don't mean expensive, but I'm not really into Budweiser shirts and tracks pants...
Non-alcoholic. I like to take a drink sometimes, but its not an habit.
Must love wilderness camping(?)
Bigger than me, Im not a ''petite''
If we share the same music type, its a big turn on
Soft hands
Brown/black hair
Not too much facial hair
He must be able to support my bad temper... LOL
Strong man, physically and intellectualy(?)
Non-smoker, white teeths please, or at least not yellow...
A nice fashion style, I don't mean expensive, but I'm not really into Budweiser shirts and tracks pants...
Non-alcoholic. I like to take a drink sometimes, but its not an habit.
Must love wilderness camping(?)
Shimmer
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I live in tshirts and track pants and flip flops, and so does my brother...I laugh when you say this because LOTS of girls say this, and I've never been ANYWHERE with that man that he didn't get hit on. EVER. In the mall. The movies. The bar. CHURCH. Whatever. And that's regardless of the outfit
| Originally Posted by willa A nice fashion style, I don't mean expensive, but I'm not really into Budweiser shirts and tracks pants... |
I live in tshirts and track pants and flip flops, and so does my brother...I laugh when you say this because LOTS of girls say this, and I've never been ANYWHERE with that man that he didn't get hit on. EVER. In the mall. The movies. The bar. CHURCH. Whatever. And that's regardless of the outfit
Esme
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Okay, I don't like body hair either, but my husband is smaller (weighs less, anyway) than me, although he is taller. That's not difficult, because I am only 5'2", but he is taller than my ex. I'm a big girl, so him being skinnier than me is my fault, I guess! LOL
I insist on good grooming, I put in the effort and so should he. He does have a beard and mustache, which I really like. Could just be the novelty, as he is the first guy I have been with that has facial hair, but he has very little body hair (except his legs, what's up with guys hairy legs, no matter where else they are hairless?)
And as for age? After my divorce, I used to say, as long as they are older than my son and younger than my father, I will give it studied consideration. My husband is 7 years younger than me, which is great!! Sometimes those ideas change as you do!
Another consideration for me is that my ideal man had to have a decent job and not mind the time that goes into my career (I have a social work background and am trying to transition into Community Development which can mean odd hours with night meetings). My husband is wonderful!!!
I insist on good grooming, I put in the effort and so should he. He does have a beard and mustache, which I really like. Could just be the novelty, as he is the first guy I have been with that has facial hair, but he has very little body hair (except his legs, what's up with guys hairy legs, no matter where else they are hairless?)
And as for age? After my divorce, I used to say, as long as they are older than my son and younger than my father, I will give it studied consideration. My husband is 7 years younger than me, which is great!! Sometimes those ideas change as you do!
Another consideration for me is that my ideal man had to have a decent job and not mind the time that goes into my career (I have a social work background and am trying to transition into Community Development which can mean odd hours with night meetings). My husband is wonderful!!!
Shimmer
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In. effing. deed.
| Originally Posted by lara I wonder how many people would be braying for blood if a guy here wrote out his rules for a woman and they included 'must be blonde, if not she can bleach it or leave', 'must have DD+ breasts that aren't saggy, I won't have sex with a small-chested woman', etc etc etc. |
In. effing. deed.
Shimmer
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my husband shaves it all, head to toe, and the only body hair he has is visible when he's fully dressed.
He keeps his goatee and lashes and eyebrows, everything else is down the drain.
I honestly couldn't imagine him any other way really, and if I told him I wanted him to grow his hair back he'd likely be skeeved out
| Originally Posted by -x-buttercup-x- I could go on but i think thats enough, ooh and I can't imagine a man with NO body hair, that'd just be weird, I woudln't want my man to wax is chest, hairy backs a no no but hair anywhere else is fine |
I honestly couldn't imagine him any other way really, and if I told him I wanted him to grow his hair back he'd likely be skeeved out
bebs
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I had the whole list of things that my guy couldnt and could do and be look wise.. and you know what
I met and married my husband, he might not be the best looking guy ever but he is wonderful and I wouldnt change anything about him. so dont judge a book by its cover because you might lose out on the best person for you. just because you are to stuck up... just what I think
I met and married my husband, he might not be the best looking guy ever but he is wonderful and I wouldnt change anything about him. so dont judge a book by its cover because you might lose out on the best person for you. just because you are to stuck up... just what I think
user6
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LOL, I LOVE IT!!! I'M MARRIED NOW, BUT THESE WERE MY STANDARDS WHEN I WAS SINGLE:
-TALLER THAN ME (that's easy cause I'm only 5'3"!)
-BORN A MAN
-NOT A LYING, OR CHEATING BASTARD
-WANTS A FAMILY SOMEDAY
-NO STD'S!!!!!
-DOESN'T LIKE TO HIT OR DEGRADE WOMEN
-NOT GAY
BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY:
-LOVES ME BACK
All of the other stuff, like hair, music, and all that other jazz was not important to me, and look, I found the love of my life!!! Low and behold he turned out to be a hot blue-eyed charmer who I couldn't date until we got stationed apart because he was in my chain of command (oops!)!!! lol and he's all I wanted, and more!! I'll share a pic of him so you guys can see what I'm talking about!!! Enjoy!!!
| Originally Posted by lara I wonder how many people would be braying for blood if a guy here wrote out his rules for a woman and they included 'must be blonde, if not she can bleach it or leave', 'must have DD+ breasts that aren't saggy, I won't have sex with a small-chested woman', etc etc etc. |
LOL, I LOVE IT!!! I'M MARRIED NOW, BUT THESE WERE MY STANDARDS WHEN I WAS SINGLE:
-TALLER THAN ME (that's easy cause I'm only 5'3"!)
-BORN A MAN
-NOT A LYING, OR CHEATING BASTARD
-WANTS A FAMILY SOMEDAY
-NO STD'S!!!!!
-DOESN'T LIKE TO HIT OR DEGRADE WOMEN
-NOT GAY
BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY:
-LOVES ME BACK
All of the other stuff, like hair, music, and all that other jazz was not important to me, and look, I found the love of my life!!! Low and behold he turned out to be a hot blue-eyed charmer who I couldn't date until we got stationed apart because he was in my chain of command (oops!)!!! lol and he's all I wanted, and more!! I'll share a pic of him so you guys can see what I'm talking about!!! Enjoy!!!
Jaim
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As long as it's all in good fun, I wouldn't get upset! Everyone's got a different idea of what's attractive and desirable.
| Originally Posted by lara I wonder how many people would be braying for blood if a guy here wrote out his rules for a woman and they included 'must be blonde, if not she can bleach it or leave', 'must have DD+ breasts that aren't saggy, I won't have sex with a small-chested woman', etc etc etc. |
As long as it's all in good fun, I wouldn't get upset! Everyone's got a different idea of what's attractive and desirable.
JLEEMARKOWITZ
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i couldnt agree more..
| Originally Posted by lara I wonder how many people would be braying for blood if a guy here wrote out his rules for a woman and they included 'must be blonde, if not she can bleach it or leave', 'must have DD+ breasts that aren't saggy, I won't have sex with a small-chested woman', etc etc etc. |
i couldnt agree more..
Shimmer
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Oh absolutely. But, some of what is said doesn't come across as 'in good fun'.
I'd hate someone to miss out on the best thing in their lives because the guy was two inches too short, or had fuzzy arms.
| Originally Posted by Jaim As long as it's all in good fun, I wouldn't get upset! Everyone's got a different idea of what's attractive and desirable.
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Oh absolutely. But, some of what is said doesn't come across as 'in good fun'.
I'd hate someone to miss out on the best thing in their lives because the guy was two inches too short, or had fuzzy arms.
YvetteJeannine
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LOL!!! Yes, yes...that's a absolute MUST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and it's also nice when they aren't gay (lol)!!
| Originally Posted by medicredfearn LOL, I LOVE IT!!! I'M MARRIED NOW, BUT THESE WERE MY STANDARDS WHEN I WAS SINGLE: -TALLER THAN ME (that's easy cause I'm only 5'3"!) -BORN A MAN -NOT A LYING, OR CHEATING BASTARD -WANTS A FAMILY SOMEDAY -NO STD'S!!!!! -DOESN'T LIKE TO HIT OR DEGRADE WOMEN -NOT GAY BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY: -LOVES ME BACK All of the other stuff, like hair, music, and all that other jazz was not important to me, and look, I found the love of my life!!! Low and behold he turned out to be a hot blue-eyed charmer who I couldn't date until we got stationed apart because he was in my chain of command (oops!)!!! lol and he's all I wanted, and more!! I'll share a pic of him so you guys can see what I'm talking about!!! Enjoy!!!
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LOL!!! Yes, yes...that's a absolute MUST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and it's also nice when they aren't gay (lol)!!
