Nzsallyb
Well-known member
hi everyone, i have come down this neck of the woods in desperate need of advice. this has been carrying on for a few miserable weeks.
background:
my bf is into his modified car, and a few weekends ago, a young chick rear ended him, and didnt pull over, so he chased her until she pulled over and he got details. he decided he wasnt going to claim insurance on the scratch, and jst texted her telling it was all good.
but now she has been texting him all the time, and being very sexually suggestive. i have told him that this type of girl only fucks guys because of their car, and that she is a nasty skank, as she knows about me. he has been honest the whole time.
Now:
i am on placement in a hospital 5 hours away from him at the moment, so we do not have sex as much as we do wen i am living with him. we havent seen eachother for coming up to 3wks, and naturally he is wanting some!
he has been asking me if he can have sex with this girl, which got a huge NO from me. he says his "urge" is more than what dirty talk etc can do.
so then he suggested a compromise, a blow job from her. uh - no way!
now he is banging on about how i had the time to "play around" with guys, when he didnt between relationships (he has about 6 months between his last gf and me), and now he wants to experiment.
we have been togethere for 2.5 years, and planned to get married.
he is just in this mood, and it is really getting me down and upset.
how should i handle this? he is not a cheater, he is always very honest with me with what he wants (he also wants a threesome). i know where i stand, but i just really want to know what you ladies (and men!) would do in a situation like mine.
thanks for reading all of this!
background:
my bf is into his modified car, and a few weekends ago, a young chick rear ended him, and didnt pull over, so he chased her until she pulled over and he got details. he decided he wasnt going to claim insurance on the scratch, and jst texted her telling it was all good.
but now she has been texting him all the time, and being very sexually suggestive. i have told him that this type of girl only fucks guys because of their car, and that she is a nasty skank, as she knows about me. he has been honest the whole time.
Now:
i am on placement in a hospital 5 hours away from him at the moment, so we do not have sex as much as we do wen i am living with him. we havent seen eachother for coming up to 3wks, and naturally he is wanting some!
he has been asking me if he can have sex with this girl, which got a huge NO from me. he says his "urge" is more than what dirty talk etc can do.
so then he suggested a compromise, a blow job from her. uh - no way!
now he is banging on about how i had the time to "play around" with guys, when he didnt between relationships (he has about 6 months between his last gf and me), and now he wants to experiment.
we have been togethere for 2.5 years, and planned to get married.
he is just in this mood, and it is really getting me down and upset.
how should i handle this? he is not a cheater, he is always very honest with me with what he wants (he also wants a threesome). i know where i stand, but i just really want to know what you ladies (and men!) would do in a situation like mine.
thanks for reading all of this!