Hi everyone,
I encountered a very "confusing" situation today. I take the bus everyday to go to university and I'm generally pretty comfortable, since that bus is mostly the university kids anyways.
But today on my way back [I had one exam early in the morning] and the bus was quite empty. A man in his mid forties listening to earphones got on and sat next to me. We were sitting in a double seat, i sat on the inside, so there should be adequate space for two people but it felt as if he was taking up much alot of my space. It got to the point where he was sitting with his arms crossed [in a big jacket] and his elbow/arm had extended to HALF of my side!
In fact, his arm was pressing against my arm and partially pressing onto my chest!
While all this happened, he seemed rather unaware. After a while one of his hands "accidentally" moved even CLOSER to my side and JUST [about] touched my CHEST!
I felt so uncomfortable and I shifted in my seat. Almost immediately he seemed to retreat to his side. And then he just got off at the next stop... all with out ever looking at me or acknowleding that anything had happened!
Had this ever happened to you? What should I have done?
I encountered a very "confusing" situation today. I take the bus everyday to go to university and I'm generally pretty comfortable, since that bus is mostly the university kids anyways.
But today on my way back [I had one exam early in the morning] and the bus was quite empty. A man in his mid forties listening to earphones got on and sat next to me. We were sitting in a double seat, i sat on the inside, so there should be adequate space for two people but it felt as if he was taking up much alot of my space. It got to the point where he was sitting with his arms crossed [in a big jacket] and his elbow/arm had extended to HALF of my side!
In fact, his arm was pressing against my arm and partially pressing onto my chest!
While all this happened, he seemed rather unaware. After a while one of his hands "accidentally" moved even CLOSER to my side and JUST [about] touched my CHEST!
I felt so uncomfortable and I shifted in my seat. Almost immediately he seemed to retreat to his side. And then he just got off at the next stop... all with out ever looking at me or acknowleding that anything had happened!
Had this ever happened to you? What should I have done?