Re: I don't "get" paint pots, advice?
I love Paint Pots! I find that the frosted shades like Bare Study, Rubenesque, and Blackground are harder to use than the cream-finish shades, but can work with a bit more effort. The thing with these shades you need to blend and perfect in short time before it dries. To do this, I use a 242 or 239 and pack then blend. You want to make sure you don't use too much with these shades in particular because too much will look cakey and dry. I also prefer to use Paint Pots more as primers because they sometimes do, even when applied impeccably, have a slightly dry-looking finish. Using powders in conjuction with them will give a beautiful soft finish to the eye.
Also make sure that you close your jars nice and tight and keep them in an environment thats not too hot, and not humid. This will keep them nice and creamy since it sounded to me that your Soft Ochre is dried out.
I typically apply my Paint Pots, like I said, with the 242 or 239. I always use my Paint Pots as primers, so while I need it to be even, I don't necessarily need it to be fully opaque. I apply it from outer eye inwards, packing and then swipping to make sure there are no harshlines, but the cream is placed evenly. While it is still somewhat tacky or 'wet' I apply my powder eyeshadow (using either a seperate 242 or 239, or wiping off the brush since you don't want any moisture to contaminate the powder itself) in a similar fashion, pack, then swipe so there is coverage, but no hardlines. I continue to pack-n-swipe powders for my desired coverage. Using the Paint Pot as a base gives a flawless, smooth, and creasefree finish.