I'm asian and I have intensely small eyes too, so maybe I can help?
I would've taken some better/close up photos, but my camera is currently out of commission... so I tried to crop some old photos to give you a sense of how I would do the liner.
Also, I know I tend to be quite heavy-handed with the liner, but I like the way it looks.
the closest thing I could find for a closed eye... (by that I mean I blinked from the flash! that's why my right eye looks wonky)
this is the open eye of the same night
I used revlon colorstay liner - just a regular eyeliner pencil. I find that stuff's easier to get a perfect line. I don't have any fluidliners, but that works even better.
and then here's a close-up of my eye. this one was done with l'oreal liquid eyeliner. I'm a little more shaky with the liquid stuff, but this might give you a better idea of how I line my eyes with a wing.
I hope that helped!!
also: I was browsing the tutorials, and found this awesome tutorial by an asian girl showing how to make a wing with fluidline
http://specktra.net/showthread.php?t=67130
it's pretty much the method I would recommend, but I personally start my wing further down & along i.e. closer to the point at which the ends of the lower & upper lids meet. Also, I like to line a thin line, and just keep on thickening the line until I see the color when I open my eyes.