Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

GinghamDot

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Me too! Now I have more coping mechanisms, but they take time and care and thought, and nice blocks of uninterrupted free time are just hard to come by. Has anyone tried HeartMath? I have a friend who swears by it in order to avoid emotional eating. There's an iPad attachment and app that can be purchased for less than a machine and I have been pondering that (to avoid shopping, eating,....).
 

Anaphora

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...and I missed my doctor's appointment because I got held up at work. No appointment until next week now. Uggghhhh.
 

NaomiH

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...and I missed my doctor's appointment because I got held up at work. No appointment until next week now. Uggghhhh.
Oh no, I'm sorry.
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PeachTwist

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I've been doing a lot of shopping lately. For Christmas. It's the only thing that has kept me sane. I'm fearful of what I'll do when it's over. I've bought a few makeup items.. namely 6 of the Audacious lipsticks and the small Becca highlighter trio in the lipgloss tubes. The cost has been spread out though rather than everything at once so I don't feel as guilty and the other day I forced myself to go up to my makeup room and try on every single new lipstick I have. That hurt my lips like crazy. I managed to skip Sephora VIB sale. Just. In total I've bought just over 70 Christmas presents. 10 each for 7 people (ish). The problem is I now have nothing left to buy so I need to find something else to do. So, tomorrow I shall start the process of wrapping in hopes it will get me to not spend any money. I'm getting there, slowly. Very slowly. Snails pace slowly. I think the bout of shopping for makeup was brought on by my health. We found out I'm B12 deficient and also have Pernecious Anaemia (sp?) Which means I don't absorb it properly either if I'm correct. We were hoping that with B12 injections and folic acid and iron tablets I'd feel better and be "cured" - but I'm not. I don't really feel all thay different and I'm struggling to sleep again even though I've slept great for months. Just kind of a kick me when I'm down thing. Also found out my Mom needs major, major spinal surgery. If she doesn't have it, within 6-12 months she will be a quadriplegic. She's only 48. They said the damage is that of someone in their 70s and 80s with degenerative disc disease. They asked if she'd been in a major accident as they can't understand the cause. Basically, her spinal chord is being compressed and crushed. She has no feeling other than burning and tingling on the entire left side of her body and it's now travelling to the right side too. To make matters worse, the surgery is done by cutting down her throat vertically and then they will have to remove the discs and replace them with plastic ones. Later she'll need a 2nd surgery as the damage is in two places. This is the first time I've properly spoken about this. Shit is rough. I'm coping. Stress makes my own health worse, hence focusing and buying so much for Christmas. I'm determined to not panic as the risks of the surgery can go one of three ways. 1 ) fix her. 2) paralyse her. 3) kill her. There is also the chance that the nerve damage that has been done is permanent so she may not regain the feeling she's lost either. We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
 

Anaphora

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We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
I really don't know what to say other than my thoughts are with you and I can't even begin to fathom how hard this must be for you. Thinking of you and your mother.
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Jennifae

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@jennifae, I wouldn't feel too bad. At least you did not pay full price for the items you got. It sounds like you thought out your purchases so don't beat yourself up too much for it.

Sounds like the stress shopping is a common theme around here. I've been really depressed the last two months and I go through spells where I want nothing and spells where I want everything. It's hard staying in control sometimes.

True. I think that's why I got backups of the brow pencil. It was only $15.25, and it was in the cute RiRi rose-gold packaging (compared to $20.00 in regular packaging).


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Shit is rough. I'm coping. Stress makes my own health worse, hence focusing and buying so much for Christmas. I'm determined to not panic as the risks of the surgery can go one of three ways. 1 ) fix her. 2) paralyse her. 3) kill her.

There is also the chance that the nerve damage that has been done is permanent so she may not regain the feeling she's lost either.

We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
I'm so sorry to hear that, @PeachTwist. Sending good thoughts and prayers to you and your mom.
 

Ajigglin

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I've been doing a lot of shopping lately. For Christmas. It's the only thing that has kept me sane. I'm fearful of what I'll do when it's over. I've bought a few makeup items.. namely 6 of the Audacious lipsticks and the small Becca highlighter trio in the lipgloss tubes. The cost has been spread out though rather than everything at once so I don't feel as guilty and the other day I forced myself to go up to my makeup room and try on every single new lipstick I have. That hurt my lips like crazy. I managed to skip Sephora VIB sale. Just. In total I've bought just over 70 Christmas presents. 10 each for 7 people (ish). The problem is I now have nothing left to buy so I need to find something else to do. So, tomorrow I shall start the process of wrapping in hopes it will get me to not spend any money. I'm getting there, slowly. Very slowly. Snails pace slowly. I think the bout of shopping for makeup was brought on by my health. We found out I'm B12 deficient and also have Pernecious Anaemia (sp?) Which means I don't absorb it properly either if I'm correct. We were hoping that with B12 injections and folic acid and iron tablets I'd feel better and be "cured" - but I'm not. I don't really feel all thay different and I'm struggling to sleep again even though I've slept great for months. Just kind of a kick me when I'm down thing. Also found out my Mom needs major, major spinal surgery. If she doesn't have it, within 6-12 months she will be a quadriplegic. She's only 48. They said the damage is that of someone in their 70s and 80s with degenerative disc disease. They asked if she'd been in a major accident as they can't understand the cause. Basically, her spinal chord is being compressed and crushed. She has no feeling other than burning and tingling on the entire left side of her body and it's now travelling to the right side too. To make matters worse, the surgery is done by cutting down her throat vertically and then they will have to remove the discs and replace them with plastic ones. Later she'll need a 2nd surgery as the damage is in two places. This is the first time I've properly spoken about this. Shit is rough. I'm coping. Stress makes my own health worse, hence focusing and buying so much for Christmas. I'm determined to not panic as the risks of the surgery can go one of three ways. 1 ) fix her. 2) paralyse her. 3) kill her. There is also the chance that the nerve damage that has been done is permanent so she may not regain the feeling she's lost either. We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
I'm sorry to read this. If it helps, your mother seems to be going through what my FIL went through. He had the surgery, and it helped tremendously. He still does his excercises and wears compression socks, but it's way better than it was a few years ago. I hope everything works out for the both of you.
 

Rainbunny

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I've been doing a lot of shopping lately. For Christmas. It's the only thing that has kept me sane. I'm fearful of what I'll do when it's over. I've bought a few makeup items.. namely 6 of the Audacious lipsticks and the small Becca highlighter trio in the lipgloss tubes. The cost has been spread out though rather than everything at once so I don't feel as guilty and the other day I forced myself to go up to my makeup room and try on every single new lipstick I have. That hurt my lips like crazy. I managed to skip Sephora VIB sale. Just. In total I've bought just over 70 Christmas presents. 10 each for 7 people (ish). The problem is I now have nothing left to buy so I need to find something else to do. So, tomorrow I shall start the process of wrapping in hopes it will get me to not spend any money. I'm getting there, slowly. Very slowly. Snails pace slowly. I think the bout of shopping for makeup was brought on by my health. We found out I'm B12 deficient and also have Pernecious Anaemia (sp?) Which means I don't absorb it properly either if I'm correct. We were hoping that with B12 injections and folic acid and iron tablets I'd feel better and be "cured" - but I'm not. I don't really feel all thay different and I'm struggling to sleep again even though I've slept great for months. Just kind of a kick me when I'm down thing. Also found out my Mom needs major, major spinal surgery. If she doesn't have it, within 6-12 months she will be a quadriplegic. She's only 48. They said the damage is that of someone in their 70s and 80s with degenerative disc disease. They asked if she'd been in a major accident as they can't understand the cause. Basically, her spinal chord is being compressed and crushed. She has no feeling other than burning and tingling on the entire left side of her body and it's now travelling to the right side too. To make matters worse, the surgery is done by cutting down her throat vertically and then they will have to remove the discs and replace them with plastic ones. Later she'll need a 2nd surgery as the damage is in two places. This is the first time I've properly spoken about this. Shit is rough. I'm coping. Stress makes my own health worse, hence focusing and buying so much for Christmas. I'm determined to not panic as the risks of the surgery can go one of three ways. 1 ) fix her. 2) paralyse her. 3) kill her. There is also the chance that the nerve damage that has been done is permanent so she may not regain the feeling she's lost either. We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
Peach, I'm sorry you have so many health worries, and now your mother, too. My thoughts are with you both. Sounds like the presents are a concrete way for you to show how much you care, when you don't have any control over the health issues, so don't beat yourself up over it. Wrap those presents with love, and go easy on yourself.
 

shellygrrl

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Vibrandy eye ---  Can't find this on the site. Can you give me some more information please?
I think Vibrancy Eye is now discontinued.
Yep, but it's coming back, allegedly. I don't think we had official info about it yet.
Isn't Vibrancy Eye supposed to be joining the Lightful range, or am I remembering that wrong?
I've been really stressed out lately too and tend to shop to cope. I went to the CCO last Saturday and got 2 skincare products, 2 small perfumes, 4 brow pencils, 1 brow gel, and a lipstick. It didn't really make me feel better. The sales associate was rude, and the brow gel was only 2/3 full when I got home. (When I called, she was super rude about it too.) Plus I felt a little guilty buying 10 items... but at least they are mostly products I needed and will use up. I actually had 0 brow pencils, so I really needed one and backups. I had no brow gel either because I lost mine. I haven't bought a bottle of perfume in years, and I got rid of my old ones, so I wanted a small bottle (0.67 oz) and a rollerball (0.2 oz) to keep in my purse. They had Pure Heroine, and I somehow missed out on that one. They had some Lightful skincare products, so I grabbed a couple of those since they were cheaper ($33.75 vs $42.00). Still... I'm a little disappointed in myself because I was doing so well this month. :sigh:
Ugh, that sales associate. :shock: I wouldn't fret too, too much: the brow pencils and gel were a need, and you saved some money. Think of the perfume and the lippie as treats, perhaps? You did do very well this month, and there's still December to go, so you can still finish strong! :)
I think the bout of shopping for makeup was brought on by my health. We found out I'm B12 deficient and also have Pernecious Anaemia (sp?) Which means I don't absorb it properly either if I'm correct. We were hoping that with B12 injections and folic acid and iron tablets I'd feel better and be "cured" - but I'm not. I don't really feel all thay different and I'm struggling to sleep again even though I've slept great for months. Just kind of a kick me when I'm down thing. Also found out my Mom needs major, major spinal surgery. If she doesn't have it, within 6-12 months she will be a quadriplegic. She's only 48. They said the damage is that of someone in their 70s and 80s with degenerative disc disease. They asked if she'd been in a major accident as they can't understand the cause. Basically, her spinal chord is being compressed and crushed. She has no feeling other than burning and tingling on the entire left side of her body and it's now travelling to the right side too. To make matters worse, the surgery is done by cutting down her throat vertically and then they will have to remove the discs and replace them with plastic ones. Later she'll need a 2nd surgery as the damage is in two places. This is the first time I've properly spoken about this. Shit is rough. I'm coping. Stress makes my own health worse, hence focusing and buying so much for Christmas. I'm determined to not panic as the risks of the surgery can go one of three ways. 1 ) fix her. 2) paralyse her. 3) kill her. There is also the chance that the nerve damage that has been done is permanent so she may not regain the feeling she's lost either. We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
Oh, Peach. :support:
 

tirurit

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We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
That sound like a really rough patch.

I am crossing fingers and sending you a big hug. I am really hoping that your health problems can be either solved or managed. Sorry that I can not be more helpful :X
 

mel33t

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I've been doing a lot of shopping lately. For Christmas. It's the only thing that has kept me sane. I'm fearful of what I'll do when it's over. I've bought a few makeup items.. namely 6 of the Audacious lipsticks and the small Becca highlighter trio in the lipgloss tubes. The cost has been spread out though rather than everything at once so I don't feel as guilty and the other day I forced myself to go up to my makeup room and try on every single new lipstick I have. That hurt my lips like crazy. I managed to skip Sephora VIB sale. Just. In total I've bought just over 70 Christmas presents. 10 each for 7 people (ish). The problem is I now have nothing left to buy so I need to find something else to do. So, tomorrow I shall start the process of wrapping in hopes it will get me to not spend any money. I'm getting there, slowly. Very slowly. Snails pace slowly. I think the bout of shopping for makeup was brought on by my health. We found out I'm B12 deficient and also have Pernecious Anaemia (sp?) Which means I don't absorb it properly either if I'm correct. We were hoping that with B12 injections and folic acid and iron tablets I'd feel better and be "cured" - but I'm not. I don't really feel all thay different and I'm struggling to sleep again even though I've slept great for months. Just kind of a kick me when I'm down thing. Also found out my Mom needs major, major spinal surgery. If she doesn't have it, within 6-12 months she will be a quadriplegic. She's only 48. They said the damage is that of someone in their 70s and 80s with degenerative disc disease. They asked if she'd been in a major accident as they can't understand the cause. Basically, her spinal chord is being compressed and crushed. She has no feeling other than burning and tingling on the entire left side of her body and it's now travelling to the right side too. To make matters worse, the surgery is done by cutting down her throat vertically and then they will have to remove the discs and replace them with plastic ones. Later she'll need a 2nd surgery as the damage is in two places. This is the first time I've properly spoken about this. Shit is rough. I'm coping. Stress makes my own health worse, hence focusing and buying so much for Christmas. I'm determined to not panic as the risks of the surgery can go one of three ways. 1 ) fix her. 2) paralyse her. 3) kill her. There is also the chance that the nerve damage that has been done is permanent so she may not regain the feeling she's lost either. We'll get through this though. We get through every hurdle thrown our way. This is just the biggest one yet. We can do it though. In the mean time, I'll wrap a shit ton of presents.
Peach you and your family are in my prayers. I really hope things get better for you and you're able to enjoy a wonderful holiday season, stress free. :hug:
 

Jennifae

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Ugh, that sales associate. :shock: I wouldn't fret too, too much: the brow pencils and gel were a need, and you saved some money. Think of the perfume and the lippie as treats, perhaps? You did do very well this month, and there's still December to go, so you can still finish strong! :)
Thank you so much for always being supportive. You're awesome! :frenz: Yeah, the sales associate didn't even greet me, and instead of offering me any assistance she passed me by and positioned herself by the door (like a security guard) as if to make sure I didn't run out with anything. Then when I was ready to checkout, she said she had to go to the back room for the stock but clearly hesitated as if she didn't want to leave me by myself. As I paid for everything, she checked my ID (which is fine) but she looked at it suspiciously and stared at it as if to make sure it wasn't fake. I don't know. I tried to ignore those things because it could be just my perception. Plus I was there to shop, relax, and have fun. What did upset me was... when I called and asked her about their exchange policy and explained that the brow gel was only 2/3 full, she flat out told me that she checked it before I left and that it was 100% full which is obviously a lie because she didn't open any box to check any of the products. Otherwise, she would've seen that it was noticeably less than a full product. Why lie and make me feel like a liar? I asked her if I could go back on Monday for an exchange. She told me I had to go back that same day (Saturday). I explained that I won't have a ride until Monday. She insisted I had to go back that day if I want it exchanged for that reason. I just bought $210 worth of products. Did she think I was trying to scam them for a $12 brow gel? I let my Mom borrow my car for the weekend, and it wasn't worth asking her to drive back for a $12 brow gel, so I called again and spoke with the assistant manager this time who said it was no problem that I could come in on Monday to have it exchanged and that it was "probably just miscommunication". No, I don't think so. The sales associate was obviously giving me a hard time for whatever reason.
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Sorry for the rant.
 

shellygrrl

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The sales associate was an a-hole to you. I just hope she was having a bad day and isn't always like that. :support:
 

kerry-jane88

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Thank you so much for always being supportive. You're awesome! :frenz: Yeah, the sales associate didn't even greet me, and instead of offering me any assistance she passed me by and positioned herself by the door (like a security guard) as if to make sure I didn't run out with anything. Then when I was ready to checkout, she said she had to go to the back room for the stock but clearly hesitated as if she didn't want to leave me by myself. As I paid for everything, she checked my ID (which is fine) but she looked at it suspiciously and stared at it as if to make sure it wasn't fake. I don't know. I tried to ignore those things because it could be just my perception. Plus I was there to shop, relax, and have fun. What did upset me was... when I called and asked her about their exchange policy and explained that the brow gel was only 2/3 full, she flat out told me that she checked it before I left and that it was 100% full which is obviously a lie because she didn't open any box to check any of the products. Otherwise, she would've seen that it was noticeably less than a full product. Why lie and make me feel like a liar? I asked her if I could go back on Monday for an exchange. She told me I had to go back that same day (Saturday). I explained that I won't have a ride until Monday. She insisted I had to go back that day if I want it exchanged for that reason. I just bought $210 worth of products. Did she think I was trying to scam them for a $12 brow gel? I let my Mom borrow my car for the weekend, and it wasn't worth asking her to drive back for a $12 brow gel, so I called again and spoke with the assistant manager this time who said it was no problem that I could come in on Monday to have it exchanged and that it was "probably just miscommunication". No, I don't think so. The sales associate was obviously giving me a hard time for whatever reason.
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Sorry for the rant.
That's such bad service, sucks to be that sales assistant she must be a sad person to be that much of a tw#t! But hold your head up high getting it sorted because you're in the right and they're in the wrong :)
 

PeachTwist

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Thanks for all the love and support, ladies. I really appreciate it.
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I was naughty and purchased the Objects of Affection pigment set in the Red/PInk. It was £26 and the MAC "size to go" pigments are £10 each. I've always wanted Tan, Rose & Heritage Rouge so I'm happy with the purchase getting those 3 of the price of less than 3 "size to go" ones plus 2 others. My only MAC purchase in a while though. :D
 

lyseD

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Thanks for all the love and support, ladies. I really appreciate it.
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I was naughty and purchased the Objects of Affection pigment set in the Red/PInk. It was £26 and the MAC "size to go" pigments are £10 each. I've always wanted Tan, Rose & Heritage Rouge so I'm happy with the purchase getting those 3 of the price of less than 3 "size to go" ones plus 2 others. My only MAC purchase in a while though. :D
Tan and Rose are beautiful, you'll use them a lot.
 
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