Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

aradhana

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The same organization has an entry-level 3 day workshop that I did in the summer of 2011.  I've been involved with them ever since.  They do a "level 2" 5 day that I'm signed up for.  I'm totally terrified.  I've heard by the end of day 3 everyone is emotionally exhausted and ready to go home.  :eek: I am excited and scared at the same time to see what I uncover. I know that my house has been cluttered and I've bought more crap than ever since my dad died 6 years ago.  I've never been super neat and I've always shopped too much but the makeup thing is so insanely out of hand.  I do this with anything I'm interested in.  Every phase I've gone through whether it was making jewelry or scrapbook, I've bought way more than I've used.  I'm just determined to get out of this rut.
I'm like that too with all my hobbies. I'd like to start using up all my stashes...not just the makeup one! :)
It's ridiculous, isn't it? I think this week you can get 10% off if you've got the Douglas card but - seriously - you can always find a 10% off code on the internet and shop online. :eek:hboy: What also bugs me is the fact that people don't want to pay reasonable prices for used items - no offense to anyone - but (I don't know if this is only the case in Germany) you basically have to offer your product for nothing in order for people to buy it. I want to sell one of my NARS blushes and it has only been used three times max. and I paid good money for it (about 28€) and I want to get 15€ (shipping included) out of this deal but for some people it is still too much. I don't know what to do with it. I'll see if I can get myself to like it. My friends don't use makeup and women's shelters don't take anything that has been used or opened. And I'm definitely too stubborn to sell the blush for 10€.
Maybe we need a Team Low Buy Swap thread? None of us want to just toss our barely used items and I bet we all own things that others might enjoy. I don't want to enable anyone, but I'd rather send Pixie my Sun Dipped (for instance) than let it sit in my drawer another two years. For me it's not about the money - it's about getting these products into the hands of others who actually WILL use them. And if it keeps us from buying, so much the better (assuming it doesn't just become another way to hoard). Hm...I'm thinking out loud here, so I'm sure there are challenges with this but I'd love to know what others think. As for the teal fluidline, I have Siahi (used it once) and Deep Dare (used maybe 2-3 times). I like both colours but I rarely reach for bold liners. Now that I have the Ocho Loco set, I'll wear them even less. If you have a few teals, maybe you could pass and add something that would get more love instead.
I would totally be up for the swap group...I was thinking when I read naynadine's message of my stereo rose that is sitting used maybe once and could be better used by someone else. The shipping costs in Canada make buying from me prohibitive for most people but maybe a swap would be more successful! In the end it'd be nice to see our unused items get love and not feel like we completely lost something of value. Obviously with used makeup the value is just what we perceive...)
 

Bcteagirl

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Been away from the computer a while, for travel and work. Operation low-buy is doing pretty well. I avoided any boxing day makeup sales. Since black friday, my purchases have included a few used nail polish, one new nail polish, and two cheap lip liner/pencils from a beauty supply store (I had none). I also managed to use up a few things from my stash, so things are going fairly well.
 

NaomiH

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I found this over in another thread and am kinda curious to see where I'm at now vs last April when I first started buying MAC products. This was in the "How many MAC lipsticks do you own" thread. I think it'll be an eye opener.
 

vaisforluvrs

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I found this over in another thread and am kinda curious to see where I'm at now vs last April when I first started buying MAC products. This was in the "How many MAC lipsticks do you own" thread. I think it'll be an eye opener.
It's definitely an eye opener once you start reorganizing! I bought 3 Sharodan lipstick organizers and they are completely full. I was like, maybe I should have purchased another, but then that means I know I would be filling it up!
 

Spikesmom

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Thank you! As scared as I am to do it I know that it will all be for the best.

Losing my father did crush me, in ways I never expected. He suffered for years and I was ready for him to be at rest. I could cry thinking about him every day if I would let myself. Love on your father as much as you can.

I was wearing an old L'Oreal Endless long wearing thing in Pink Power. I wore quite a bit of it so I was surprised yesterday when I put it on and thought ew lol.
 

NaomiH

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It's definitely an eye opener once you start reorganizing! I bought 3 Sharodan lipstick organizers and they are completely full. I was like, maybe I should have purchased another, but then that means I know I would be filling it up!
I know it has to be up over 40 now and some of them I don't even care for all that much! I'm looking at you Sounds Like Noise -_-
 

veronikawithak

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Those usage stats are very interesting and almost made me freak out a bit more over my stash. I'm really going to go through my lippies and try and either find a way to make the ones I rarely use work or find someone who wants them.

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It made me freak out too!! There are so many I want to wear and so many I want to buy and I have so many already!!

What I've definitely learnt from this thread is not to wear the ones I don't like, imagine wearing what you don't like for a whole 6 months in total!! Yikes!
I'm glad the usage stats have been helpful to people. I was afraid it wouldn't go over well since most comments I've seen about using things up is like.. what's that? Lol. Using something up completely seems to be a lost art in the makeup world! I really don't want to be wearing the exact same lipsticks 3 years down the road though.. unless they're an HG nude or something. Really made me realize how little products you actually "need" to do a full face.


Not sure if anyone's seen this video by gossmakeupartist yet: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMbYcxCK0ng I thought this was so cool! Makes me think that I can get away with a lot less products if I can get a multi-use one like this. Ex. No need to have a pink lipgloss with and without shimmer because you could just add shimmer.
 

charlotte366

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Well I have had a very good day today! I got my final exam results through for my professional UK tax exams - I passed, I am now a qualified tax advisor!!!!! No more exams ever! Completely off topic but I feel happy and wanted to share since its taken 8 years of study and exams whilst working full time to get to this point! My reward has not been to buy more make up - resisting! Instead I am off home from work in a minute and I am going to re-organise my stash in full so that all the things I want to keep are in 1 draw. I will store the rest in the other 2 draws, after a month if I haven't missed them, then they can leave my house for someone elses! On another note, someone I sold too on ebay has come back and said that the package hasn't arrived, the tracking for the courier company says that it has been delivered and the courier company have evidence it was by satelite tracking of the driver. I said I was happy for her to open a item not received case and ebay could decide whether or not she was entitled to a refund, simply because the evidence of delivery/tracking from the courier company gives me seller protection, but I don't want her to not get the item but still have to pay and I can't make a claim from the delivery company as they actually delivered it!. She came back and said she was dissappointed but couldn't be bothered to persue the matter further? I am now wondering if it did arrive and she was just trying to pull a fast one? That said if it didn't arrive I feel guilty that she paid for something she didn't get :-(
 

PixieDancer

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For some reason it feels so much more difficult to stick to my low-buy this year over last year! I have bought 2 things- both of which were on my list of things I wanted to get regardless because I have been waiting for them since before January- a pigment collection from one of my favorite indie cosmetic companies, Beauty From the Earth, because she's going out of business and the Sugarpill Sparkle Baby shadows and LE pigment from IMATS(a friend picked them up for me). But I feel like I have this growing list of things...things I am sure I don't need, haha. That Ulta 20% off isn't helping either because I really want to try the new NYX items and I was gifted some extra cash. Still limiting myself though...Perfect Topping and the two fluidlines from the new MAC, only b/c I've been wanting PT since I saw it ages ago and the liners are gorgeous colors, BUT I will still wait for some swatches just in case they match any of my gel liners from Inglot. Sigh...just had to get that out.  :headbang:
I'm sorry you seem to be struggling. Thanks for sharing that. Its helpful to all of us to feel safe here and not judged. Doing well, or faltering... Its all part of the process. Just know we're here to support you no matter what!! I know you'll pull it together! There's LOTS of year left!
It's really interesting to see how long products last; I think it depends on what formula you use. I go through Lustres or Cremesheens faster than through Mattes. Anyway, a swap thread would be amazing for you ladies! I don't think I could participate 'cause shipping from/to Germany can get quite expensive but it's a great idea. My brushes arrived this morning and so far they look good. Also, I'm in love with the Naked 3. I've worn it the past two days. I hope the next 9 days will be a no-buy for me. This is my goal for January (pathetic, I know, but I've failed this month).
Don't say you failed. You are trying and that is something! Its all about awareness. If you still buy too much... Being aware instead of oblivious is still a step in the right direction. Trust me... I honestly don't need one more thing! But I enjoy being able to splurge a little here and there. So for me, it was more about being more conscious of what I was buying instead of telling myself NO BUY and failing miserably. That's why we're in this together. And as far as the usage info is concerned.... All that solidified my NO BACKUPS agenda for sure! The rate I'm going, I'd only use a BU if I lost something. And I sure as hell would gave enough alternate colors to choose from without having a BU!
These stats on how long it takes to finish an item are fascinating!  I took a closer look at the Brightest Bulb in the Box blog and she also worked out how many swipes it would take to finish a lippie.  For a MAC lipstick, it's 531!!!  I did a little math and if you applied 3 times a day, it would take you 177 days to finish a lipstick.  That's almost 6 months!  I'm officially committing to a low buy for this year starting right now.  With all the new info coming out about the Spring collections, I feeling tempted to buy and buy.  Last year I started out really well with not buying and using up my stash.  Then I made a long distance move and lost my mind hoarding products I thought I wouldn't be able to get them in my new town.  I wanted to buy around a dozen products and ended up buying 23!  That's not including a few things I got for Christmas. :thud: Ok, so for this year I'm going to do my best to stick to 12.  Fairly Precious has been my only 2014 purchase so that leaves me 11 more items.  To be honest, even 12 items is much more than I need but I'd drive myself crazy if I didn't treat myself every once in a while.
Definitely treat yourself or it will feel too much like a punishment. And when we feel punished, we feel shamed. Shame us not the answer! Thanks for joining us and setting a realistic low-buy goal for yourself!!!
This thread is good for my soul. I think I have hoarder tendencies too, but it depends on what I'm into at the moment. Then, I wake up one day and I'm like, meh. I also know that these days, the makeup shopping is directly proportional to how crappy I feel. Between work (or soon to be lack of), new baby, husband, feeling like my old self again postpartum, and winter blues in general, I'm amazed I haven't had a breakdown yet. I'm back to talking with a therapist regularly until benefits run out, and I'm trying to not spread myself so thin so I'm not so stressed. I miss the old me and I hope she comes back.
She'll be back and better than ever! Soak up that therapy and feel good about working in yourself. We are all works in progress... When you stop growing and chsnging ... You just stand still. Life is about moving forward! You'll come out of this a stronger woman! We support your course sweetie!
It made me freak out too!! There are so many I want to wear and so many I want to buy and I have so many already!! What I've definitely learnt from this thread is not to wear the ones I don't like, imagine wearing what you don't like for a whole 6 months in total!! Yikes!
That's RIGHT! I'm having a "proud mama" moment! Wear the ones you love. Learn from the ones you didn't... Then get them out of your stash quickly so theory don't burden you! Even if you gave to B2M a practically full lipstick... Bye bye! Good girl!!
I wonder how long it would take to get through a MAC pigment?
At those rates... An ETERNITY! HEEHEE
Been away from the computer a while, for travel and work. Operation low-buy is doing pretty well. I avoided any boxing day makeup sales. Since black friday, my purchases have included a few used nail polish, one new nail polish, and two cheap lip liner/pencils from a beauty supply store (I had none). I also managed to use up a few things from my stash, so things are going fairly well.
THATS AWESOME! Great to hear!! Bravo!
 

veronikawithak

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She came back and said she was dissappointed but couldn't be bothered to persue the matter further? I am now wondering if it did arrive and she was just trying to pull a fast one? That said if it didn't arrive I feel guilty that she paid for something she didn't get :-(
Congrats on passing your exams!!! That's great that you didn't think to reward yourself with makeup.. progress! I think re-organizing your stash is a fabulous idea. Put all of your favorites in the one drawer and if you don't miss anything, byyyeeee.
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It sounds like she was trying to pull something.. It's not that much of a "bother" to try and get a refund for a product you paid for but didn't receive! I'd be all over the place trying to track that down haha. I wouldn't feel guilty if I were you.
 

PixieDancer

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[@]charlotte366[/@] CONGRATULATIONS GIRLLLLLLL! That's so fantastic! And I love that your reward is reorganizing! Heehee Very cute! Take a pic of your finished product to share w us! I'd love to see it! And sadly, it sounds like she was trying to pull a fast one for sure. If you honestly didn't get something... You wouldn't hesitate to file the report and happily support the investigation. You held your ground and she backed down. Sorry you had to deal w that! Ugh!
 

PixieDancer

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Thank you!  As scared as I am to do it I know that it will all be for the best. Losing my father did crush me, in ways I never expected.  He suffered for years and I was ready for him to be at rest.  I could cry thinking about him every day if I would let myself.  Love on your father as much as you can. I was wearing an old L'Oreal Endless long wearing thing in Pink Power.  I wore quite a bit of it so I was surprised yesterday when I put it on and thought ew lol. 
Your post made me tear up. I am a huge daddy's girl and just thinking about him being gone is almost too much to bare. I cannot even imagine what you are going through. And I'm sure its of no help at all... But keep reminding yourself of the love you shared and KNOW he would want nothing but happiness for his girl!
 

NaomiH

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She came back and said she was dissappointed but couldn't be bothered to persue the matter further? I am now wondering if it did arrive and she was just trying to pull a fast one? That said if it didn't arrive I feel guilty that she paid for something she didn't get :-(
That's great, Charlotte!
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Sounds like she was trying to pull one over on you.
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veronikawithak

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@charlotte366 yes please post pics of before and after for us! I think that would be really motivating!

I just saw the promo pics for the new Hourglass Ambient Lighting Blushes and I've decided to dedicate one of my 12 slots to one of those as well. They are perm so don't worry about missing out. I'm trying to incorporate more perm tried-and-true products rather than fad LE this year. So far here is my updated wishlist for 2014:

1. NARS Sheer Glow
2. NARS Radiant Creamy Concealer
3. MAC MSFN
4. Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder
5. Hourglass Ambient Lighting Blush
6. NARS Multiple
7. MAC Perfect Topping
8-12 ? (maybe 1-2 lipsticks from FoF; maybe a diamond powder)
 

Naynadine

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@charlotte366 Congrats!!

Folks on ebay can be crazy, I've had my share.


This thread is moving fast, will catch up later. My Armani Fluid from ebay arrived and it's indeed brand new (old style packaging though). A little too warm/bronzey for me to wear all over, but I'll wear on my cheeks in the summer, it's basically fancy Lustre Drops. Yay for bargains!
I need to write down a precise wish list as well. But it will probably change every time I see promo pics / swatches of something new, lol. The Hourglass blushes are kiling me!
 

kerry-jane88

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She came back and said she was dissappointed but couldn't be bothered to persue the matter further? I am now wondering if it did arrive and she was just trying to pull a fast one? That said if it didn't arrive I feel guilty that she paid for something she didn't get :-(
mate of course she got it!
why else would she not pursue the matter, if she genuinely didnt get the package like she said, then surely she'd be fighting back at you what with all of ebays buyers protection and all.
she's realised that she's got no chance cause youve sent it by courier and the courier has evidence to prove delivery, she's just trying her luck!
 

veronikawithak

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@charlotte366 Congrats!!

Folks on ebay can be crazy, I've had my share.


This thread is moving fast, will catch up later. My Armani Fluid from ebay arrived and it's indeed brand new (old style packaging though). A little too warm/bronzey for me to wear all over, but I'll wear on my cheeks in the summer, it's basically fancy Lustre Drops. Yay for bargains!
I need to write down a precise wish list as well. But it will probably change every time I see promo pics / swatches of something new, lol. The Hourglass blushes are kiling me!
Mine has changed a few times! Haha. I'm not worried too much about having an exact list. I just do it to remind me how many great products there are that I could buy during the low-buy rather than LE MAC products. Makes me not want as many lippies!
 

Glitteryvegas

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I don't think I could do it! Especially if it meant having to wear Sounds Like Noise or Pink Pigeon for that long.
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Those are the two in my stash that I think look really ghastly on me unless I tinker with them a bit.
UGH that damn SLN lipstick. I feel ya. I'm very pale and it just looks crazy on me. That's one that I'd be willing to swap out - I really should have returned it when I had the chance. The daydreaming shadow from that collection is beautiful though, so at least I don't regret that.
 

Glitteryvegas

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She came back and said she was dissappointed but couldn't be bothered to persue the matter further? I am now wondering if it did arrive and she was just trying to pull a fast one? That said if it didn't arrive I feel guilty that she paid for something she didn't get :-(
1) Congrats on passing your exam and starting your career in full! Amazing! You must be very proud!
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2) If the delivery confirmation came through, my guess is she's trying to pull one on you. I mean, how often does that really happen when the confirmation comes through and it wasn't actually delivered? I've never had that experience & I've ordered a lot. I think you gave her the option of opening up a case and she's declined it - I know you feel a bit bad in case she is telling the truth, but what more can you really do w/o losing $$ on it? Did someone have to sign for it? Maybe her neighbour picked it up or something? Could it have been stolen from her porch or whatnot? Hmm....what is your gut telling you about the situation? I would look at her other buyer feedback and see how you feel - maybe if you think it's legit you could partially refund her or something?
 
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