Rest in Peace to my mother

Lori_Renee

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A mothers touch, a mothers kiss
A grieving daughter, you're greatly missed
An empty house, an empty chair
A mothers love, no longer there
A broken hearts, a tear filled eye
Another soul, to fill the sky
Many memories in my mind
Sometimes I laugh, Sometimes I cry.

The times we shared, the laughs we had
The things that keep my head up, when I'm feeling sad
Realizing that's all I have left to hold on to,
Only memories of what once was you
Missing that laugh, I will never again hear
That's the reality that fills me with fear
No more smile on your face
No more warmth of your embrace
The last hug, the last kiss
The last "goodbye" leaves me with one last wish
To have you mom... here today
Never to leave your daughter this way
A mothers touch, a mothers kiss
A grieving daughter, You are greatly missed.







SEPTEMBER 1, 1962 - MAY 28, 2006

Rest in peace mom...
I miss you so much.
 

urbanlilyfairy

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I am so sorry for you loss. I know all to well the feelings of losing a parent. I lost my dad just a few months ago. I don't know how you are handling your grief. But here is an article someone shared with me when I posted about losing my father. IT helped me understand what I was going through. Here it is.

" The seven stages of grief are:
  • Shock or Disbelief
  • Denial
  • Bargaining
  • Guilt
  • Anger
  • Depression

  • Acceptance and Hope
Most people will see some if not all of the seven stages of grief in themselves as they grieve.
The first stage is obvious and I think we all see this in the first breaking of the news of a death or loss. We quite naturally are shocked and find the gravity of the situation difficult to take in.
Denial is the next stage of the grieving process and sometimes this stage will last only a moment and with others it may last for quite some time.
Each of the seven stages of grief will take different lengths of time to work through form person to person. Sometimes the first three stages may only last a moment and with others they could last for some considerable time.
Bargaining, although it may seem like a strange stage, is something that a lot of us do and has its roots in “what could I do to reverse the loss”, “take me instead”, this is quite natural and is an observed stage of grieving.
Guilt comes in and is very close to bargaining. One tends to blame themselves in an effort to reconcile the loss.
When anger occurs in the grieving process we know that the person is starting to come out of it. All of the stages up to this one have been very inward responses whereas anger is more of an outreach.
Depression is not so much a stage, it can come and go throughout the whole grieving process but when the anger stage is passed depression will also become less and less.
Finally acceptance and hope will retune and marks the seventh stage of grief. At this point we understand that life will never be the same but we see hope and meaning in the future.
The seven stages of grief as outlined above should not be taken as a hard and fast rule but more as an index of the stages of the grieving process. The main point is that we can see our grief as a very natural process that we will work through from the initial shock to the eventual hope. "
 

User93

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I am very sorry
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Keep strong, Lori Renee. People who we loved and who loved us never leave us really. She will always be with you, looking at you, caring for you, loving you, she will always be with you in your heart and soul, no one ever takes her from there.
 

Hilly

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I'm so sorry! Even though your mom isn't here right now, she is always your guardian angel
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concertina

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I'm very sorry for your loss. My husband lost his mother in 2001 and it still hits him sometimes...

I hope your day was the very best it could have been...
 

Obreathemykiss

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I am very sorry for your loss. Keep your head up high because you know she's smiling down at you! You will make it through with time. My thoughts are with you.
 

talste

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My thoughts & blessings are with you, I lost my Dad in 2001 and know how hard losing a parent is.
 
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