Sex and Marriage don't mix?

[GreekChick]

All I kept thinking while reading the article was "Her poor husband."
The poor man is in the dark about her future plans to leave him, as well as the fact that she wrote a book. Poor poor man. She is sharing her opinion about her "boring sex life" with everyone else except her husband. She also believes he will never cheat on her... That is laughable. Grow up woman and get over your naivety.
I can only imagine what he will do when he finds out everything that has been going on behind his back. I do wonder why he is still with her though: the fact that she has imposed an "KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF OF ME" policy right when they get into bed together is reason alone to dump her sorry ass.

 

[frocher]

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[MACATTAK]

I think this is mean and cruel. I don't think parents staying together for the children's sake in an unhappy marriage is doing them any favors. Also, I don't see why people have to put their business out there like this.

 

[SquirrelQueen]

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Originally Posted by susannef She seems weird no doubt, but I think you are beeing way too harsh on her appearance. She does NOT look worse then most 45 yr old women! I think our images of what a 45 yr old woman is supposed to look like have been skewed by the media. Most of them do not look like movie stars.

ITA. She looks like a normal, reasonably attractive middle-aged woman.

It would be nice to know more about her husband's expectations. Does he think sex should always be an earth-shattering, bedframe-breaking, swinging from the ceiling experience? Does he sit back when the kids are screaming, never offer help, and then get upset when she's too tired to make love? Does he put her down because, after having two children, she doesn't look like an airbrushed, photoshopped supermodel in a lingerie catalog or a porn queen on the Internet? If his expectations are unreasonable, I can see how that would inhibit her desire.

Judging from the article, however, I don't think that's the case. It sounds like she's got some major psychological hangups that make her think she can't be both a good mother to her children and a good lover to her husband. That simply isn't true. When you have children, you will make sacrifices. You don't have the time to devote to yourself, you don't have as much money to spend on yourself, and you'll probably give up gourmet dinners to eat at Chuck E. Cheese. But you don't have to sacrifice your relationship with your partner or spouse. Relationships change when you have kids but if you don't make the primary relationship with one's life partner a priority, you will have nothing left when the kids grow up and move away.

I hope she uses the book royalties to get some individual and marital counseling.

 

[nunu]

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Originally Posted by frocher She seems very self absorbed. Seems to me she does nothing but think about her own needs. She isn't considering her husband or her children when she is writing this horrible book and posing for pictures in that ridiculous wig. As if anyone who knows them wouldn't recognize her. "Leaving" her husband might be one of the best things that ever happened to him. That poor man. It's hilarious that she is painting herself as the one who is suffering for her family.

Exactly!! She is being ridiculously selfish, i mean you don't go advertising to the whole world that you hate it when your husband touches you and that you wouldn't let him have sex with you. Where did the love and respect for her husband go? Did she really expect people to have sympathy for her??
Isn't she thinking how all this publicity is harming her husband and her children? Isn't she thinking how people precive her and her family now and how it would affect them?
So yes i think she is doing her husband a favour by leaving him. If she cared about her family she wouldn't put them through this. You walked down the aisle with this man, how can you treat him like that??

Edit to add, she must've gone throw something that effected her psychologically which made her behave the way she is behaving now. A mothers intution is to protect her family not to look for sympathy when it's not needed but maybe its a call for help?

 

[SparklingWaves]

She needed counseling instead of a book deal.

 

[V15U4L_3RR0R]

Seriously, you're all getting worked up over The Daily Hate. It's not even goo enough to wipe your arse with. It's a crappy, attention seeking story about a woman with commitment and intimacy issues.

 

[SparklingWaves]

"The Daily Hate" LOL

 

[V15U4L_3RR0R]

Heheh yeah it's a nickname that a lot of people I know use. It's just full of shit spewing nonsense all the time. They're anti everything. You may we as well be reading the Daily Star. At least the Daily Star won't make you feel like your IQ has dropped after reading it lol.

 

[SparklingWaves]

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Originally Posted by V15U4L_3RR0R Heheh yeah it's a nickname that a lot of people I know use. It's just full of shit spewing nonsense all the time. They're anti everything. You may we as well be reading the Daily Star. At least the Daily Star won't make you feel like your IQ has dropped after reading it lol.

That has me laughing so hard - "They are anti everything." That woman looks so proud to be in it too. She has her hands on her hips. Hey, I am so ready to be in "The Daily Hate". What the flea bites? She must have been paid a well for her story.


I forgot what this newspaper was called at the supermarket, but it had me nearly falling on my grocery cart laughing so hard. The stories were totally made up. I don't think they even make it anymore. There would be stories like -- My wife accidentally ate twenty aliens from a flying saucer at a fast food restaurant. There would be picture of a huge cartoon looking flying saucer on top of a fast food restaurant with pictures of these tiny aliens in a hamburger. It was hysterical.

 

[SparklingWaves]

Still, what that woman did is so self serving. I guess it was appropriate that she was in something considered "The Daily Hate". GRRR

 

[V15U4L_3RR0R]

Well if I should ever meet her, I'm going to pimp slap her upside the head and tell her to grow up.

But honestly, none of what's in there could actually be considered news. It's all bollucks and just not worth getting wound up about lol.

XD That sounds hilarious!! Man I'd love to read stuff like that heh.

 

[Beauty Mark]

I feel bad for her entire family. What a wench; I hope her husband divorces her. What kind of woman, who claims to be about keeping her family together, blatantly disrespects and humiliates them? Her kids are bound to get teased at school and have some kind of guilt because they're the reason Mommy stayed with Daddy.

 

[gatsby]

How horrible, childish and selfish. Whether or not you like sex and want sex is one thing, but the attitude she takes towards her husband and her family is quite another. She acts as though her family only exist in order for her cast herself as a martyr, giving up her sexual prime for the sake of the kids. She's basically using them to put herself in a position where she can feel hard done-by, and entitled to Something More -- which, actually, nobody really is. You have the life you build for yourself, and that's all you get.

 

[Kuuipo]

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Originally Posted by SparklingWaves She had sex with 23 guys prior to her husband, but only one of them gave her an orgasm. She had sex with her husband 5X a week prior to the kids and now she has a policy that he can't even touch her. But to her, she is making the sacrifice. She states that it's too difficult to raise the children alone, so she will leave this guy after the kids are grown. Maybe, her husband is sticking in there, so he is going to get 1/2 of the royalties from the book. Then, he will divorce her. I don't know. It's so bizarre. With all her relationships, the fire dwindles in longterm relationships. Talk about denial! This woman isn't facing she is her own problem. Her problem is in her own head.

The woman is a bitch and the husband is a shmuck! They deserve each other, they both are headcases.

 

[*Stargazer*]

That woman is vile.

I really hate the mindset of "well, since my marriage (or anything else) is _____, then everyone else's must be just like it except they aren't talking about it." Hey lady, you aren't normal. You are selfish and vile and I hope your husband starts banging hookers.

 

[Girl about town]

lol stargazer i wouldn't be surprised if he were already having an affair, thats why he won't bang her!!!

 

[FullWroth]

It was always: 'Go and work at your marriage.' But I didn't want to work on mine.

I think that part of the article pretty much says it all for me.

 

[jenii]

Mean, maybe, but also a fool and a coward.

A coward for hiding behind her kids instead of getting the divorce she obviously wants, and a fool for thinking her kids are better off in a home with two parents who don't love each other anymore.

Those kids are gonna have some warped frickin' views on love.

 

[SparklingWaves]

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Originally Posted by *Stargazer* That woman is vile. I really hate the mindset of "well, since my marriage (or anything else) is _____, then everyone else's must be just like it except they aren't talking about it." Hey lady, you aren't normal. You are selfish and vile and I hope your husband starts banging hookers.

Yep, this is far from normal. I think she took her friends comments wrong. I think they were saying things were slacking in the bedroom, but not ice cube city. The no touch rule is ridiculous. I would presume that would include - no hand holding, hugs, & snuggling.

I would not doubt this man is having an affair or had affairs. Physical contact is healthy. Just because she has all these rules and hang ups doesn't mean he is going to go without.