kaliraksha
Well-known member
Sandra, first off sweetheart, let me put you in your place- you are drop dead gorgeous. You have such a great figure, beautiful hair, lovely face... I could go on.
However, knowing all these things. I know where you are coming from 100%. But, it is self confidence I assure you. I see these gorgeous girls in magazines, ads, movies, walking to class... and I'm like "arr my fiance deserves to be with someone like her" or "i bet he wishes i looked more like ____"
I'm not going to lie they sometimes are prettier. I mean come on? I'm never going to look like Adriana Lima, I accept that. But you know, our significant others are with us for a reason. All these beautiful women were available to him and he chose the most beautiful woman to him, you. He chose a woman that was beautiful inside and out. If he wanted someone else he would be with someone else.
Ok sure, sometimes after being together sexyness does diminish a bit... you start to think someone is sexy in very different ways. When my boyfriend gets dressed up, I privately think hes sexy and I'm pleased that he's mine. However, I find him most sexy when he's comfortable- in his boxers in the morning. Things like that, and I bet he finds you sexy in that way too. I mean come on, what's sexy in the public eye? Hot hair, hot outfit, great makeup, confidence? All of that is frills... he thinks you are sexy when you wake up in the morning.... in pjs with stinky breathe, no makeup and bed head... and I bet you, if he's anything like my significant other, that's when he can't keep his hands off you.
However, knowing all these things. I know where you are coming from 100%. But, it is self confidence I assure you. I see these gorgeous girls in magazines, ads, movies, walking to class... and I'm like "arr my fiance deserves to be with someone like her" or "i bet he wishes i looked more like ____"
I'm not going to lie they sometimes are prettier. I mean come on? I'm never going to look like Adriana Lima, I accept that. But you know, our significant others are with us for a reason. All these beautiful women were available to him and he chose the most beautiful woman to him, you. He chose a woman that was beautiful inside and out. If he wanted someone else he would be with someone else.
Ok sure, sometimes after being together sexyness does diminish a bit... you start to think someone is sexy in very different ways. When my boyfriend gets dressed up, I privately think hes sexy and I'm pleased that he's mine. However, I find him most sexy when he's comfortable- in his boxers in the morning. Things like that, and I bet he finds you sexy in that way too. I mean come on, what's sexy in the public eye? Hot hair, hot outfit, great makeup, confidence? All of that is frills... he thinks you are sexy when you wake up in the morning.... in pjs with stinky breathe, no makeup and bed head... and I bet you, if he's anything like my significant other, that's when he can't keep his hands off you.
