She's baaaaaaaccckkk...

[sheaspearl83]

Pay Close Attention

Guys are very slick...most of my friends were guys and my brother is a pro at this kind of shit. For whatever reason, if he truly didn't want to talk to her, he wouldn't answer the phone at ALL. However, it may be that at the point when he's randomly thinking about her; he entertains her conversation which doesn't mean that he wants to be with her but is secretly wishing that she hadn't beat him at what is primarily considered a man's game. Some men will succumb that hooker before they will totally put themselves into a good woman. I have seen it happen too many times. Give him an ultimatum; do not answer her phone calls or leave me the hell alone. I think he needs to apologize to you for being disrespectful by answering; all phones have caller id or show the number, therefore, he knew that it was her. Forget about that, he told her that he was with his girlfriend. She knows that already; they've discussed you before. Modern day hookers don't give a damn and if they have a history, they really don't especially if he's still talking to her after she made him look like shit. When a man is finished with a woman that cheated on him, he's not talking to her anymore. He won't even acknowledge her in the same room. So be careful and don't get a charge, it's not worth it!

 

[Katura]

Yuck on ex girlfriends. I've been on both sides of this spectrum, one is great and the other is a tad not so great, obviously.

When I started dating my cuurent boyfriend, we went off to a party with a bunch of friends. When we showed up, people were already tere, partying hard, including his ex, who was pretty drunk. A couple hours passed, having fun, and then ex girlfriend decides to start screaming in my general direction, then get in my face. She's yelling about me, how I shouldnt be dating him and how he going to cheat on me...blah blah blah. Lucky for me, they dont hang out, and hardly ever talk (to my knowledge anyway) She was right in the cheating department *cringes*And that other girl he was with, happened to be one of my good friends that now neither of us really talk to anymore at all. but we got past that and things are great. I love my boyfriend to no end!

BUT! On the other side...on being <i>that</i> girl.

I'd rather not share that part..It just sucked when I sat back and realized I was being THAT girl to osme other girls relationship. It was totally hypocritical, to hate on girls that went behind eachothers backs, and then end up doing it myself...I made myself sick over it for a long time. But, I'll admit my faults and come clean, I learned from it. I'd never do that again. Makes me feel bad not only for her and him, but about myself because I stooped down to that shitty level.


I hope your man realizes he's got a great woman in front of him and he better not let you get away just over some shiteous ex girlfriend with breakup issues.

 

[ebonyannette]

Girl Im in SD, tell me when and where!! ha ha
Its so wierd girls are sooo desperate in socal its not even funny!

 

[MAC_Pixie04]

so far no more calls and texts....so i think i won!

 

[Indigowaters]

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Originally Posted by MAC_Pixie04 so far no more calls and texts....so i think i won!

Great.

I didn't want to ask on your other post about getting flowers and bring it up again.

 

[MAC_Pixie04]

haha nope, no more from her...thus far. i'm sure she'll be back again, but he's already agreed with me that by answering her calls, he's just giving her the green light.