Doowop
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Recently I met this really cute guy and by cute I mean he's so cute that I feel insecure lol. One thing led to another and... we added each other on messenger lol. We haven't really talked much.
Today online, he said in a joking manner that if I am bored I can go out on a date with him. I wasn't sure if he was serious so I replied in a joking way if he's serious. He didn't give an answer and we kept skirting around this. Later on he said I can ask him out because he has no plans after work usually and I had the feeling he wanted me to ask him out directly but why can't he do that? I just asked if he has plans tomorrow, he said no and he asked me so I said no(a lie though), but nothing came out of it. Anyway we aren't chatting now even though we are both online. I really want to just ask him out "indirectly" but he's giving mixed signals.
I find it hard that he can be shy, maybe because I assume that sporty and really really CUTE guys can be shy, as scienctific studies show that athletic people are usually confident. And of course popular.
I should add that we met on this assignment job. On the last day he asked if I wanna go drinking after work with other colleagues, I said yes. I had to leave early and told him that he can contact me later. Then when I saw him throughout the entire day he didn't mention about the drinking or even talk to me much, in fact he barely spoke 1 sentence to me, just like throughout the entire job! After work I was waiting for his call or text but nothing. Finally I just texted him if it's still on, and he called me saying that there is only 1 girl in a group of 10 guys maybe it may be awkward for me if I went. I didn't want to sound desperate so I said I won't go then. Besides most of the colleagues know each other from the previous assignment jobs, I am one of the few newbies. I just found out that they didn't go drinking in the end. But I felt like he was blowing me off.
Today online, he said in a joking manner that if I am bored I can go out on a date with him. I wasn't sure if he was serious so I replied in a joking way if he's serious. He didn't give an answer and we kept skirting around this. Later on he said I can ask him out because he has no plans after work usually and I had the feeling he wanted me to ask him out directly but why can't he do that? I just asked if he has plans tomorrow, he said no and he asked me so I said no(a lie though), but nothing came out of it. Anyway we aren't chatting now even though we are both online. I really want to just ask him out "indirectly" but he's giving mixed signals.
I find it hard that he can be shy, maybe because I assume that sporty and really really CUTE guys can be shy, as scienctific studies show that athletic people are usually confident. And of course popular.
I should add that we met on this assignment job. On the last day he asked if I wanna go drinking after work with other colleagues, I said yes. I had to leave early and told him that he can contact me later. Then when I saw him throughout the entire day he didn't mention about the drinking or even talk to me much, in fact he barely spoke 1 sentence to me, just like throughout the entire job! After work I was waiting for his call or text but nothing. Finally I just texted him if it's still on, and he called me saying that there is only 1 girl in a group of 10 guys maybe it may be awkward for me if I went. I didn't want to sound desperate so I said I won't go then. Besides most of the colleagues know each other from the previous assignment jobs, I am one of the few newbies. I just found out that they didn't go drinking in the end. But I felt like he was blowing me off.
