small breasts cause me depression
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Beauty Mark
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I compete with the twelve year olds for shoes, if that comforts you any. I wear about a size 5.
Raerae
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lol you know you want the lunch time facelift or lipo, CLICK HERE! lol...
Some of the surgeon's that advertise through that portal aren't that bad really. Cosmetic surgery is pretty mainstream in California, and even more so in Areas like Santa Monica, and Beverly Hills. So it's really not that uncommon to see advertising from surgeons like Dr. 90210!~ And other famous faces on TV/radio/internet/newspaper advertising their practice. There are SO MANY surgeons now, that the price on a lot of the surgery has gone down as the different offices compete for clients.
If your serious about an Aug though, http://www.implantinfo.com/ is a really good site for any place in the USA. They have a really good database of work done by the specific surgeons in the area, posted by people who went to them and not the surgeon. There is also a list of surgeons and work posted by them, so be sure to check the part of the site your in. So this way you can find women that have breasts that are similar to yours pre surgery, and see the cup size they went too, and how it looks post surgery. Not to mention the forums are really good, it's like Specktra, but for boobs! LOL!
I plan on getting an aug someday myself, i just haven't really sat down to find a surgeon yet. Other things I wanna have done are higher on my priority list =p
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Wow, I have to say I raised an eyebrow when I opened the link! What a classy site... they even have 'internet specials'. 
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lol you know you want the lunch time facelift or lipo, CLICK HERE! lol...
Some of the surgeon's that advertise through that portal aren't that bad really. Cosmetic surgery is pretty mainstream in California, and even more so in Areas like Santa Monica, and Beverly Hills. So it's really not that uncommon to see advertising from surgeons like Dr. 90210!~ And other famous faces on TV/radio/internet/newspaper advertising their practice. There are SO MANY surgeons now, that the price on a lot of the surgery has gone down as the different offices compete for clients.
If your serious about an Aug though, http://www.implantinfo.com/ is a really good site for any place in the USA. They have a really good database of work done by the specific surgeons in the area, posted by people who went to them and not the surgeon. There is also a list of surgeons and work posted by them, so be sure to check the part of the site your in. So this way you can find women that have breasts that are similar to yours pre surgery, and see the cup size they went too, and how it looks post surgery. Not to mention the forums are really good, it's like Specktra, but for boobs! LOL!
I plan on getting an aug someday myself, i just haven't really sat down to find a surgeon yet. Other things I wanna have done are higher on my priority list =p
messhead
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Just remember there is someone out there who wishes they were like you... (I do!!!
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I have 36F boobs and I hate them. Nothing EVER fits, they make me look WAY bigger than I really am, and I can't buy cute bras, or just go bra-less with a built-in bra tank top!!!
You're the lucky one!
(in my best napoleon dynamite voice) LUCKEEEEEEYYYY!!!!!
I have 36F boobs and I hate them. Nothing EVER fits, they make me look WAY bigger than I really am, and I can't buy cute bras, or just go bra-less with a built-in bra tank top!!!
You're the lucky one!
(in my best napoleon dynamite voice) LUCKEEEEEEYYYY!!!!!
Raerae
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LOL... I've been really into shelf bra's lateley... Express released a bunch of tops the last few seasons that all had shelf bra's so it's been several weeks since I've actually worn a top that needed a bra lol. Guess that is a perk =p
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and I can't buy cute bras, or just go bra-less with a built-in bra tank top!!! |
LOL... I've been really into shelf bra's lateley... Express released a bunch of tops the last few seasons that all had shelf bra's so it's been several weeks since I've actually worn a top that needed a bra lol. Guess that is a perk =p
bAbY_cHiCkEn01
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Your friends obviously aren't very nice people if they're gonna pick on you about that, they should themselves know that they don't want there *bad* points constantly joked about. Thats pretty damn insensitive. The fact that your bf loves them really does say a lot, he accepts you and them and is obviously prefectly happy with everything you got. As someone said, yeah maybe you'r freinds are jealous, otherwise why wuld they make fun of you.
Okay I have small boobs too, and I even considered surgery to make them bigger... let me tell you babe, small boobs are a GODSEND! I made this list of pros and cons about breast implants (I know you don't wanna hear about implants, but this is what made me realise mine are sexy as they are!) but I spose this applies to big boobs anywayz.
Pros - Bigger boobs
Cons - Can't find nice/ sexy bras for bigger sizes (generally)
- Have to have implants taken in and out every 10 years or so which = stretching of skin, more surgery and more hassle than ever needed. Plus wasted money.
- Spending pointless amounts of money just for *big boobs* (Now I do agree that some women get implants to reduce sagging, confidence reasons etc and I'm not knocking that at all)
- NO SAGGING! How many women out there wish their breasts didn't sag at all. Plus they're stay firm pretty much FOREVER!
- Plus what I've heard form some guys is that big boobs are a pain, some guys don't even know what to do with so much boobage...
- Breast implants can feel really hard and uncomfortable for many years...
- Plus if you wanna wear gorgeous tops that drop severely down to your cleavage you're not gonna look *slutty* or have your boobs falling out everywhere and trying to control them and basically feel uncomfortable because you're too busy trying to not tlet them fly out everywhere.
And I don't want to hurt or disrespect anyone who has big boobs naturally or surgically. Some of this is probably wrong and doesn't include having children, but this is the way I see it and reasons for myself to not be surgerically adjusted... So please nobody tell me *facts* that will make me doubt myself again! LOL.
But these points made me realise that small boobs are awesome, so stay with them and who knows you may even have a growth spurt in that area...
Okay I have small boobs too, and I even considered surgery to make them bigger... let me tell you babe, small boobs are a GODSEND! I made this list of pros and cons about breast implants (I know you don't wanna hear about implants, but this is what made me realise mine are sexy as they are!) but I spose this applies to big boobs anywayz.
Pros - Bigger boobs
Cons - Can't find nice/ sexy bras for bigger sizes (generally)
- Have to have implants taken in and out every 10 years or so which = stretching of skin, more surgery and more hassle than ever needed. Plus wasted money.
- Spending pointless amounts of money just for *big boobs* (Now I do agree that some women get implants to reduce sagging, confidence reasons etc and I'm not knocking that at all)
- NO SAGGING! How many women out there wish their breasts didn't sag at all. Plus they're stay firm pretty much FOREVER!
- Plus what I've heard form some guys is that big boobs are a pain, some guys don't even know what to do with so much boobage...
- Breast implants can feel really hard and uncomfortable for many years...
- Plus if you wanna wear gorgeous tops that drop severely down to your cleavage you're not gonna look *slutty* or have your boobs falling out everywhere and trying to control them and basically feel uncomfortable because you're too busy trying to not tlet them fly out everywhere.
And I don't want to hurt or disrespect anyone who has big boobs naturally or surgically. Some of this is probably wrong and doesn't include having children, but this is the way I see it and reasons for myself to not be surgerically adjusted... So please nobody tell me *facts* that will make me doubt myself again! LOL.
But these points made me realise that small boobs are awesome, so stay with them and who knows you may even have a growth spurt in that area...
mac4ever
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Thank you!I know that my friends are jealous because for example they are all shorter than me and 2 of them very very short but I never needed to tease them about their height comparing it to mine just to make myself feel better.When they say they are not tall I tell them that women don't have to be as tall as basketball players!I never mention their height because I don't care how short or tall they are,they are just my friends and when they feel bad I want to make them feel better!I am their friend not a model agent and I don't want my friends to feel bad.It seems that when I feel bad they feel better though...
bAbY_cHiCkEn01
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If you were referring to my post, I wasn't reccomending it, If you read properly, I was the one considering it, and this was MY list thats turned me off doing it but the reasons for liking your boobs are exactly the same. It states that I don't reccomend surgery more or less in the brackets.
I'm all for small boobs if you read my post.
xmrsvindieselx
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Im a 34b..but i am not a tiny girllll.. i have bigs hips and a big booty so it makes my boobs look even smaller.. and when someone makes fun.. i always say.." when you are 60, your boobs will hit the floor..mine will be right here *point to chest*!!!" hahaha. ohh and victoria secrets add a cup works wonders hahaha!! but seriously girl dont stress it..you are beautiful just the way god made you and dont need bigger boobs to prove it!
shopgood
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wow.. i don't think friends like that should be considered friends at all. women come in all shapes and sizes...it's part of nature. and the idea that "curvaceous bodies are better" is JUST an opinion, not a fact. just like some men prefer heavier women with larger breasts, some men prefer thinner women with smaller breasts.. and any other variation, at that. WOMEN are just overly critical about other women, even more so than they are about men. it's just a crazy phenomenon.
personally, i think your friends might be a little jealous of you. maybe they wish they were as thin as you, and want to put you down for what they think you're lacking. or maybe they're comfortable with themselves, therefore believe you should be more like them. whatever the reason, i think you should embrace your body and love it because it's YOURS, girl! i'm pretty small chested myself and i used to beat myself up about it all the time because i felt less attractive than girls with larger breasts than mine.. but i've learned to love my itty bitties because nothing's gonna change em. well, they'll change over time by natural causes lol but for right now, they are what they are.. and i accept them.
you are every bit as attractive as any other woman out there with large breasts, small breasts, no breasts.. love yourself for you (and for those boobies)!!
personally, i think your friends might be a little jealous of you. maybe they wish they were as thin as you, and want to put you down for what they think you're lacking. or maybe they're comfortable with themselves, therefore believe you should be more like them. whatever the reason, i think you should embrace your body and love it because it's YOURS, girl! i'm pretty small chested myself and i used to beat myself up about it all the time because i felt less attractive than girls with larger breasts than mine.. but i've learned to love my itty bitties because nothing's gonna change em. well, they'll change over time by natural causes lol but for right now, they are what they are.. and i accept them.
you are every bit as attractive as any other woman out there with large breasts, small breasts, no breasts.. love yourself for you (and for those boobies)!!
Cosmopolitics
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Ditch the "friends." Any person who makes you feel terrible about your body is NOT your friend. These people are poison.
I'm part of the IBTC too, and my small breasts used to make me feel bad when I was a teenager. I've comes to terms with my small breasts, and I wouldn't have anything else. Sure, I wish that they would make dress shirts that fit me in the bust, and I wish that they would make prettier bras for those in the AA/A range (I'm in between the two). But it feels good that I can sleep comfortably on my stomach, I don't have to wear multiple bras when I go out running, and when I get older, my breasts won't sag.
Also, echoing another comment about men liking all kinds of boobs. They do. Small boobs, medium boobs, big boobs, so long as they are boobs, they like 'em.
I'm part of the IBTC too, and my small breasts used to make me feel bad when I was a teenager. I've comes to terms with my small breasts, and I wouldn't have anything else. Sure, I wish that they would make dress shirts that fit me in the bust, and I wish that they would make prettier bras for those in the AA/A range (I'm in between the two). But it feels good that I can sleep comfortably on my stomach, I don't have to wear multiple bras when I go out running, and when I get older, my breasts won't sag.
Also, echoing another comment about men liking all kinds of boobs. They do. Small boobs, medium boobs, big boobs, so long as they are boobs, they like 'em.
Beauty Mark
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And some men just aren't "breast men." You can be 100% flat but the guy can find something else about you appealing.
Not that these are the kind of guys you want to date, but look through any newspaper personal ads. You'll quickly learn pretty much any body type is attractive to someone.
Not that these are the kind of guys you want to date, but look through any newspaper personal ads. You'll quickly learn pretty much any body type is attractive to someone.
Liz24
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I think small breasts are beautiful. think about it, they won't sag! if you want to look much bigger, just buy the distraction bras. they add like 2 cup sizes. I'm so hooked on them, i don't even wear anything else. they're the best and seriously, they changed my mind from getting breast implants.
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Mabelle
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i have big boobs. DD's. i hate them. i have back issues. can;t find any tops to fit. not to mention that im self concious as hell (the amount of boob comments i get is unreal) and well, they just get in my way. i would trade places with you ina heartbeat.
It sucks cause im at an inbetween size. My boobs are too small to get a reduction covered by medicare (they need to take off 250 grames from each side, which would make me too small for my frame). So i'll have to save up and do it on my own. I will eventualy get a reduction...my back just hurts so much. I feel like my big boobs hold me back. Like theyre not a part of me.
The great thing about smaller boobs? Padded bras and cookies. you can make those girls look as big as you want them too! a nice deeo v neck dress, make em a full B cup, a cute tube top youcan stay your natural size.
sounds pretty great to me.
And seriously, if you're "friends" are still being such huge jerks, you needto him them with shovels. asap
It sucks cause im at an inbetween size. My boobs are too small to get a reduction covered by medicare (they need to take off 250 grames from each side, which would make me too small for my frame). So i'll have to save up and do it on my own. I will eventualy get a reduction...my back just hurts so much. I feel like my big boobs hold me back. Like theyre not a part of me.
The great thing about smaller boobs? Padded bras and cookies. you can make those girls look as big as you want them too! a nice deeo v neck dress, make em a full B cup, a cute tube top youcan stay your natural size.
sounds pretty great to me.
And seriously, if you're "friends" are still being such huge jerks, you needto him them with shovels. asap
SparklingWaves
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Sexuality is very complex.
As a child, I remember this woman that was a dancer. She never wore a bra. According to her, it was pointless. I suppose she would have been an AAA cup. I don't know, but it sure as Hell didn't matter to her. I have never seen men react towards a woman like this one. Their eyeballs were out like radar. She walked in such a way that she was absolutely hypnotic. She was so graceful. She moved like a Willow tree with a soft breeze going through it's limbs.
It was a sensual sight to just see this woman walk to her car. She moved in a way that others don't. She was elegant and graceful. She never wore anything revealing. She dressed quite conservatively. Yet, all that saw her couldn't take their eyes off of her. It wasn't just from her being in dance either. It came from her being totally comfortable with herself and taking great care of her body. She was totally a beautiful human being.
You have that within yourself.
As a child, I remember this woman that was a dancer. She never wore a bra. According to her, it was pointless. I suppose she would have been an AAA cup. I don't know, but it sure as Hell didn't matter to her. I have never seen men react towards a woman like this one. Their eyeballs were out like radar. She walked in such a way that she was absolutely hypnotic. She was so graceful. She moved like a Willow tree with a soft breeze going through it's limbs.
It was a sensual sight to just see this woman walk to her car. She moved in a way that others don't. She was elegant and graceful. She never wore anything revealing. She dressed quite conservatively. Yet, all that saw her couldn't take their eyes off of her. It wasn't just from her being in dance either. It came from her being totally comfortable with herself and taking great care of her body. She was totally a beautiful human being.
You have that within yourself.
