Aww, I suffer with the same problem.
One think I'd reccomend that you try is DuWop Prime venom, it's a lip primer with plumping properties. Then, I apply the red or whatever lips (usually red if anything), being sure to use a lipliner 1/2 on and 1/2 off of the lips (does that make sense? Like the center of the point is right on the outline of my lips) so that they don't look drawn on, and top it with a sparkly red gloss in the middle of my lips.
I feel youir pain though. I have mostly plumping glosses instead of regular glosses.
By the way, I don't think this is what you're looking for, but my favorite lip plump of all time is "sexy mother pucker" (yes I did buy it based on the name lol) which is by Boots and Glory at Target.