SO i have a massive rant...

[vocaltest]

first of all, i've just got back, and i've been drinking, so i apologise for any mistakes etc. and i don't know if this really is the right place to put it, but its mac related. mods please move if unrelated.

tonight, i went out to a club with all my friends, no particular reason, just a night out. anyway to cut a long story short, one of my friends has a new girlfriend who is to put it in short... very immature and very big headed. anyway she asks me if i have any lipstick before the club, yes i reply so i give her syrup lipstick. then she proclaims that shes 'given up on make up' and goes 'au naturel' as if its a dig at me and my best friend for wearing make up. then whilst at the club she asks if she can borrow the lipstick again, fine i say, then she asks for lipgloss, so i say yes and lend her bare necessity dazzleglass. then she asks for blusher, and i say yes i have two on me, one for contour and one for colour, and get them out of my make up bag, which contains studio fix powder, my blushers, a kohl eyeliner, some concealer, and some brushes for sf powder and blushers, to which she proclaims.... 'omg, you must be so insecure' for carrying around 'so much make up'.

this comment of 'you must be so insecure' has angered me SO MUCH. how dare she say i'm so 'insecure' because i carry around what i consider my essentials with me due to oily skin etc, but then she asks if i have blusher, therefore illustrating that she has insecurities as she asked me this in the middle of the dancefloor!!!

has anyone else ever been criticised in this manner for carrying around their make up/mac with them??

i don't feel upset by this, but more angry that someone who i have met twice proclaims that i am insecure for carrying around this make up. i know some people may comment that it she probably spoke before she thought or it does seem a lot, but to me... its not, its what i consider essentials. i'll probably wake up tomorrow and think 'what was i so angry about', but ugh!!!!

please let me know if you've ever experienced similar experiences!

 

[mariecinder]

If she's so secure with her natural face then why was she asking you for all that make up? lol This girl needs to grow up a little.

 

[frocher]

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[MACATTAK]

You should have called her on it. "Why do you keep asking for my makeup if you are so secure?" I would have asked for all my things back right away.

 

[Dahlia_Rayn]

Some people are just so lame! She's incredibly insecure because in order to make herself feel so special she's putting others down...what a cretin!

 

[LOCa]

She's A Lil Confusing And A Hipocrate. (sp?)

 

[M.A.C. head.]

You should have said "You must be so insecure to say something like that to me. Give me back my make up and don't ask me for anything else".

I am a bitch when people are bitchy to me, so that would have been MY response. It may not be what you would say but the concept remains. People like that are the ones who are insecure.

 

[HeavenLeiBlu]

I wouldn't have let her use a damned thing after the first dig.

 

[Beauty Mark]

She sounds like a bitch and kinda dumb. If she were so secure in her looks (like not wearing makeup=security), why is she bumming your makeup? She sounds really obnoxious and rude; I would've put her in her place

I had an ex-friend tell me that I dress like a slut and then would ask to borrow my clothes. I asked her why, since if they look slutty on me, what did she think they'd look like on her? She's bigger than I am (taller and rounder), so everything would be tighter and shorter.

 

[xoxprincessx0x]

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Originally Posted by HeavenLeiBlu I wouldn't have let her use a damned thing after the first dig.

lmaoooo i was gonna say the same thing

 

[jenjunsan]

Urgh....I had to start retyping because I got mad at her too! The girl that my ex-husband had an affair with and subsequently left me for is an 'au naturel' girl and he also implied that I was insecure since I felt the need to wear makeup. I definately would have cut her off after the first obnoxious thing she said. What makes people think that liking makeup and being girlie is a sign of insecurity. IMO, the fact that someone needs to use that as a put down is a larger sign of their own inscurities and/or is intimidated by the beautiful women that we are. So I would just write her off as another 'au naturel' plain plain girl.

(BTW, luckily, my new boyfriend thinks it is a sign that I take pride in myself that I take the time to make myself up even though he thinks I am pretty without makeup).

 

[TDoll]

Girl, you are a saint for letting some random bitch borrow your Dazzleglass! That stuff goes fast!! lol ...But honestly, I would bet 100% that she made that comment because she was just upset that she looked like shit and was trying to justify it by saying she likes to look "au naturale". And no one would make a stabbing comment like the whole "insecure" thing unless she was jealous. Unfortunatley, thats just how some girls operate. I'm sure you and your friend looked fabulous and she was the insecure one.

 

[blindpassion]

Haha she disses you for your makeup but asks to use it all! obviously she isnt that comfortable with going au naturale. thats ridiculous. definitely dont feel down about it, that girl is nuts, not only is she taking advantage of your niceness about makeup sharing, and then goes and insults you for having the VERY products that shes happily going about applying.
So immature, !!

and so stupid, just because you wear makeup doesnt mean you're insecure! its our art, and we will always love it!

 

[SkylarV217]

She must have been insecure being face naked , with two beautiful girls that had played up their beauty. I would have said , I don't think you need any more make up since you like at go au naturel ..... =) and simply stopped letting her borrow anything.... I mean what works for her .... should be what works for her... She sounds like a little twit ...

 

[georgiabarredo]

eewww she's such a hypocrite... i hate people like that... u shouldn't have lent her anything... she might contaminate ur precious products!!!.. let it go she's not worth it... ur too good for her anyway!!!.. there's been plenty of ppl who tell me why do u have soo much make up and i say... dont be jealous!!!!

ps i LOVE syrup lipstick!!!

 

[vocaltest]

hahah i love my last line 'please let me know if you've experienced similar experiences'! i've eaten something and sobered up a lil bit now!

anyway...
thank you so much for replying my lovelies. i know i shouldn't have let her use any of my stuff, i don't mind lending blushes etc but i don't usually lend lip/eye stuff, and TDoll, I only got my dazzleglass today and it already has a 'bubble of usage' in it!
i really didn't know what to say to it when she said it, i just replied with 'i'm not' i think. when she took my blush she took too much on the brush and dapped this massive blot on her face and i had to do it for her - she looked like she had clown features!!

i know i shouldn't let it anger me... but shes one of these 'i know everything' girls so when she said that i was just in shock more than anything. when i first met her we discussed hair products, and she really wouldn't believe me that so many products she used on her hair were bad for her it.. and i was just like 'no love, i work in a hairdressers, believe me, they are' kinda thing. she tried to lecture me when we talking about mac foundation before i lent her my blusher, saying its really bad for your skin blah blah because it upset her friends skin. then she continues to use it yet apparently its 'insecure' for me to carry it with me.

what annoys me SO SO much about it is that she has such a high opinion of herself! she reckons she is getting a diesel jeans modelling contract! she thinks so highly of herself that she has PAID for pictures to be taken, which apparently means she automatically has a diesel modelling contract? i know some people do pay to have pictures taken for their modelling portfolio, but there really is no way she would get that contract, shes about two foot tall! (not literally haha).

ughhh i'm still angry. i'm gonna make sure i tell my friend i really don't like her now. he keeps asking me 'do you like sophie?' and i originally i thought she was alright, but now, NAH.

thank you again girls!!

p.s watch out american girls... shes going to do that 'camp america' thing in a couple of weeks. when i was having a bitch about it to my best friend when we were out i said 'i hope she pisses off there and never comes back' hahah sorry ladies!!

 

[cocodivatime]

She's just jealous and insecure. Sorry that you had to go through that. You were nice though---- I never let anyone use my makeup....only my sister, but even that's limited. LOL

 

[CantAffordMAC]

girl...shes just a dummy. Don't pay her any mind.

You are a makeup lover like we all are, and we dont need to hear anyones bullshit about it. if she thought you were soooo insecure, how insecure was she, asking to borrow a full face of makeup at a club?

Ugh ignore her. And what are you doing lending your dazzleglasses!

I would neverrrr....okay maybe. But no strangers or haters! Keep wearing your makeup and don't let anyone get to you. Shes just JEALOUS!

 

[newagetomatoz]

What a effin hypocrite!! You should of let her go out with her clown face!! You are by far the better person for letting her use the makeup, even after the fix dig, on top of fixing it for her. And from what you're saying, she sounds like she has a few screws loose.

 

[user79]

I would have said to her, "Well, you're obviously so secure that you don't need makeup," and not given her any to use!!!

And who the hell puts on blush in the middle of a dancefloor? lol